Marriage & Divorce - 7 September 2007

I was curios to its actual helpfullness and how much it cost, please no snide comments. I really think having a healthy sexual reationship and if you can do something to make it better, like toys and etc then go for it. I appreciate adult answers.

2007-09-07 16:35:52 · 15 answers · asked by DamnBiatchYouKnowYourStuff! 2

The dad hasn't been around for nine months of her life.now hes taking me to court. How hard is it to get visits that are supervised. I cn't afford a fancy lawyer where do I go for help.

2007-09-07 16:29:16 · 11 answers · asked by CHUMBY 2

I need to clear up a few things because most of you are saying I need to stay out of it and he needs to grow a back bone. Ok they got married because she got pregnant and his dad told him it was the right thing to do. Then got divorced 4 years later. She left him for another woman, and told him to get out. Then a year later said she wanted him to move back so he could be with both of them. In the paper work she has soul phyisical custody and he can see them when she says so. We ask all the time for them but she says later later later. We pay child support every month on time, she calls wanting more and says she can't afford something so he needs to help. She moved here for 6 months then moved away because she does not like it here (oh and we paid for them all to move here, even the girlfriend, they also lived with us for a month until they found a place) I have been more than nice. He does have a back bone and he loves his kids, she also says I am to young to help raise them. Now what

2007-09-07 16:25:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-07 16:22:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the signs of a dead marriage???

2007-09-07 16:19:16 · 20 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

I'm taking a womanly pole out there looking to see how many women feel if their husband is affectionate and whether you are happy in your marriage. Can a woman be truly happy in a marriage if they feel that they do not receive enough physical affection from their husbands (not concerning sex, just affection - hugs, kisses, loving touches and words, etc.)

2007-09-07 16:18:32 · 11 answers · asked by cperreault78 1

my friend is going threw divorce with her parents and they have been together along time any help

2007-09-07 16:18:23 · 8 answers · asked by Adrienne 1

My Fiancee just deployed three weeks ago and recently before he left he was using one of my cell phones......yesterday I recieved a voicemail and it was a female.....it came out to be his ex-girlfriend.........she said "hey I just wanted to say hi and see how u are doing in Iraq...i'm not sure if this is your phone but whoever this is Disregard this message...well i'll talk to u later".......so I called her all day she didn't pick up until later that evening she called back saying did someone call me?....I said yes this is my phone and don't call my man anymore...she said who? I don't know who your talking about....I told her that she was lying because I already knew that it was his ex...so then all of a sudden she was saying oh yeah I saw him three weeks ago and he came to see me...(his car is broke down and I have his keys so that was a lie) .....and then she said that she was intimate with him and that she's not trying to start anything...what should i believe?

2007-09-07 16:06:51 · 16 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3

Has anyone been in a marriage relationship like this? In that the Husband is very Open Minded person [me] and the wife is a very Closed minded woman [my wife]. How can anyone survive [be happy] in a marriage like this????

2007-09-07 16:06:30 · 10 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

would you say you are content?

2007-09-07 16:05:45 · 18 answers · asked by Samantha 4

2007-09-07 16:02:09 · 8 answers · asked by ens56 1

Me and my wife, pretty much don't have anything in common with each other. Everything, that I enjoy out of life in general with my heart she hates and everything that she enjoys out of her own life, I pretty much dislike. So we are basically contradicting each other all the time.

2007-09-07 15:58:45 · 26 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

im 23 and i like someone that is 98 what should i do i have a wife that is 82 but i dont no how to break it to her help!

2007-09-07 15:57:03 · 10 answers · asked by brian 1

There was a divorce. I'm disabled, I live in Kansas, my children are in Alaska, all through the years my ex has made life so difficult, They're grown up now, I'll be seeing them, I don't know what to do, what to say, I'm scared to death!

2007-09-07 15:50:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do i do i am married and i love women please help

2007-09-07 15:33:44 · 17 answers · asked by cherieavon 1

I am 22. been with the same guy for almost 6 years now. He has a 6 year old daughter (almost 7) who I have been around since she was 1. I love her so much and do SOOO much for her. Take to school (mother not there for 1st day of Kindergarten) , put in piano lessons, school shopping, you name it!! She lives with me and her dad one week on, and with the mother one week on. When we bring her home from her mothers house I have a hard time adjusting, I feel like I am being very cold to her. Not only that but I am unable to have children and I have some major jealousy and resentment issues towards the ex-wife who is a whole nother monster! She acts like me and my husband (childs dad) are nothing to the child and I have no idea what crap she feeds my stepdaughter. However she defends the mother constantly. Child knows there is plenty of tension.I am starting to have a lot of issues with taking on a rold of step parent and my boyfriend STILL wont marry me.....6 years later.how to deal with it

2007-09-07 15:29:51 · 12 answers · asked by Amy M 1

Okay. So my married male friend of 10 years asked me to participate in a swingers thing with him. This guy is happily married with a wife who is as naughty as he wants her to be. He just wants variety. Now, I was friends with his wife (we lost touch), and was in their wedding party. Obviously I won't do it, but I ask the question: is this normal behaviour for a happy, sexually satisfied male? And does this mean he does not respect me to be asking me to do such a thing with him? (no, he wasn't asking to sleep with me... he just needed to be part of a pair, and his wife would have kicked his @ss).

2007-09-07 15:17:28 · 27 answers · asked by babeedoll_05 2

I was watching the Rap Stars' Wives thing and most of the wives had the "you had him once but I've got him all the time" mentality. Where does that come from? How do they let their men back into their lives knowing they've been with other women? I know the men love their wives and don't love the other women they have sex with but I'm curious as to why a women would stay with a man that does that.

2007-09-07 15:07:52 · 11 answers · asked by lj 1

I just asked this question but I guess I didnt give enough detail....
Okay, my now exboyfriend brought home a 16 year old, mind you he is 24.. I got a little upset, he wanted to discuss our relationship problems infront of everyone. I thought that was barbaric
/.. anyways, I got a little upset and raised my voice, he called the cops on me and had me removed. the next day he went to the courts and asked for an order of protection. I have never harmed him before mind you and anyways a few days later I was served.. I want to appeal (I DO NOt want him back, I just dont want this on my permanent record)(the only thing I have done to him was threaten to kick his a@@.. She can keep him.
I get so nervous, and my heart starts pounding..
I want to appeal but not sure how, please help

2007-09-07 15:05:05 · 7 answers · asked by valleygirl_1986 3

How do be a housewife?? I Don't know how to cook :\ or how to be a mom, can anyone help me? is there anything i can do to learn how to do these things, that are inexspensive, I don't know where to begin with all this stuff :( help?

2007-09-07 15:04:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went on vacation for 2 months and got back a few days ago.prior to these 2 months we had a baby in march it has been a downward spiral since. My husband is into sports,computer,and xbox/I don't want to nag but i am unhappy. I try to be happy but i don't trust easily and this is a huge problem i feel like he will or has cheat on me and i didn't feel like this until the baby i am happy with the way i look and i love my baby 'm so paranoid, and feel inadeqate to the electronics, and i know theres more to life but i want us to work,no counseling wanted by either party.any suggestions anybody else out there manifesting crazy thoughts?

2007-09-07 14:55:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

When she gets home from work,

She expects me to have dinner ready and give her foot and back massages,

When I'm tired from watching TV and drinking beer all day.

Is she asking too much?

2007-09-07 14:48:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-07 14:18:38 · 57 answers · asked by diamonds on my windshield 3

how old do you have to be to choose who you want to live with?
I live in Colorado
And I'm 13

2007-09-07 14:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is a place hubby likes to go, and usually I'm fine with it (even though he knows waitresses by name and stays for extended hours "working" on his laptop or just relaxing.) Once in a while it makes me insanely upset (maybe on my fat days, haven't figured it out yet). We've been round and round and he says that he would stop going if I would forbid him to go, and yet I want him to stop going because he cares about my feelings, not because I've demanded it. I believe we have a great marriage, but this is just one of those annoying things that I can't seem to get a grip on.....any advice or suggestions?

2007-09-07 14:13:04 · 13 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6

2007-09-07 14:10:25 · 51 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4

You know that you don't really have much of a valid arguement, or that it's old news and old disagreement that you see no solving, and yet you just can't keep your yap shut....I guess it's self destructive. How do you handle or cope with this scenario, to keep the peace knowing that's the better road to take (mainly talking about with your spouse)

2007-09-07 14:08:54 · 7 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6

i'm pregnant and me and my husband havent had sex for about 3 months now and he tells me hes tired all the time. when i was pregnant with my 3rd and 4th child he acted the same way. and last year i found out he cheated on me while i was pregnant with them. do you think hes cheating again and how can i find out? please help!

2007-09-07 14:06:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need help to tell my wife about what to do in a marriage

2007-09-07 14:04:22 · 16 answers · asked by sasamijurai18 2

and is never ever intimate with you yet people will tell you how beautiful, goodlooking and sexy you are? By the way , you treat your spouse exceptionally good another words you kiss this spouses *** and take alot of crap from them.

2007-09-07 14:00:10 · 19 answers · asked by butterfly 4