2007-09-07 14:10:25 · 51 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just so we're clear, I would NEVER cheat on my fiance. I just have noticed a lot of people these days seem to be cheating. So I was just curious if people are having a rough time staying faithful these days. I am glad to hear you guys are not!! Good job :) Hugs
2007-09-07 15:06:44 · update #1
Not at all. Soul mate, remember? =0)
2007-09-07 14:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not hard at all. We have been married for more than 27 years. He has always been the one who takes care of me through rough times, for example, when my parents died, or each time I've been sick or had to have surgery. And, I do the same for him. Also, when I get upset with him (which happens in every marriage), I remind myself of how wonderful it was to have him by my side through all the good times (births of our children, our daughter's wedding) and the bad times (death of our parents, sickness, fear, etc.)
I put him way up on a pedestal every day. I tell him he is the most wonderful man in the world, and he believes it because I have built him up so high that nothing can take him down.
Believe it or not, a person's spouse desperately wants the approval and support of the other person more than anything else.
All these things make it very easy to remain faithful to my spouse. No one could ever compare to him; they cannot even begin to do so.
Hold your spouse up in the light of your shining faith him (or her) and you will never feel otherwise.
Good luck!
2007-09-07 14:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by MaraschinoMary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before I got married, I couldn't get a guy to look me, now That I'm married, I get hit on every day. Now I've reconnected with an old high school classmate, things been getting serious, I've been having an hard time focusing on my marriage. The hard part about being in an marriage is not having the trust it takes to keep it going. It's been hard for me to not go and be unfaithful. I take it one day at a time.....
2007-09-07 14:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a cheater either. It's not hard for me to remain faithful because I respect myself and just thinking about being with two different people grosses me out. Can't say I haven't thought of leaving and finding a new man though;)
2007-09-07 16:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we've been married 13 years and been jointly longer than that. i improve into 20 and he improve into 22 as quickly as we married. He nonetheless txts me love notes, does some thing particular for me on my birthday, does particular issues for me immediately, jewelry me commonplace whilst he's away with paintings. He constantly placed the babies and that i first and is often there whilst i desire him, even no count if it extremely is purely a voice over the telephone on an identical time as he's at paintings. we are the two very sturdy natured so we've our heated discussions yet we've learnt to compromise and are available to agreements we the two are pleased with and we've the two been thoroughly truthful to a minimum of one yet another in be conscious and deed. He in many situations tells me he appreciates what I do for him (and vice versa) and we make helpful that we communicate. we don't save something from one yet another no count what it extremely is. Lies and deceit no count how minor are no thank you to construct a sturdy marriage.
2016-10-04 04:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by piekarski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a standing rule in every relationship I've been in. If I feel compelled to be unfaithful, it's time to pull up stakes and break it off. I think it would be selfish and disrespectful to go through with that kind of behavior. I've been on the receiving end a few times and the heartbreak I felt, I wouldn't wish on anyone.
2007-09-09 02:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not hard at all. I know that I would not be able to forgive my wife if I did that to her. I am committed to taking care of her not destroying her. Sure temptation is always there. At my age there about 3 single women to each single man. There is a lot of desperate women so men my age have to be careful. Some of those women would not hesitate to break up a family if they thought they had a chance. If you have a good marriage think twice before you put it in harms way.
2007-09-07 14:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by Bob S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not my spouse. I've had a "live-in" situation for 10 years now. But - I don't find it hard at all. I guess I got all of my "wild girl days" out of the way when I was younger.
2007-09-08 03:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not. There is no question, no doubt, no reason for unfaithfulness. If you really want to venture down that road, dont keep it a secret. Yeah it sucks, but it will only hurt both of you if you play around with out him knowing. What you may not know is that he is open to it, or he is thinking the same thing. COmmunication is key!
2007-09-07 14:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by al 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you thinking of cheating on your husband? It's women like you who give the rest of us a bad rep. Why the hell did you get married for in the first place? I feel bad for your husband, I hope you fall flat on your face if you do cheat on him. One other thing you might want to think about if you do go ahead and cheat, always look over your shoulder because when and if you really care about someone someday they might do the same to you!
2007-09-07 14:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by happy to be me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not at all. In fact, being faithful to my husband is the only thing that I had in my nerves.I know how much he loves me and also my love for him is so deep that even thinking of a betrayal never came across me
2007-09-07 14:28:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋