Marriage & Divorce - 7 September 2007

My husbands father, *Dan, was an alcoholic since he was 16 years old. I believe *Kathy, my husbands mother, knew this when they got together, which was around that age. They had finally gotten married a few years after my husband was born. In 2000, they had gotten separated and were in the works of getting a divorce. Kathy had moved out and was starting to see other people.
Dan died in 2001 and Kathy had gotten everything, house, life insurance, personal items, etc. She is now living in this house with her new husband and their child.
I was wondering if this was fair. Why should she get everything of his when they were talking about divorce and if he hadn't had died, the divorce would have went through.

2007-09-07 09:59:14 · 17 answers · asked by ♥KottonKandie♥ 2

my boyfriend and i had been together for almost 2 years and almost 6 months of our realtionship was long distance and he cheated on me..i thought i would give them the benefit of the doubt so i forgave him..jus recently he has left for college..and we barely talk when i went to visit him at school i was going on his computer..and i seen that he had been talking to alot of girls saying that he wanted to have sex..went into detail..so that night i broke up with him..i didnt give him the real reason why..its just that ive been with him for so long and i thought that he loved me why would he do this or even intend to..and it hurts even more than the first tyme...i keep thinking about him..i love him hes my first everything but its like some things you love..are just better off not in your life..i just feel that im not appreciated and that i deserve better..his sister tells me im wrong and i should take him bak..that would be one of the biggest mistakes ive ever made in my life.

2007-09-07 09:52:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

and in all except one, they had at least 3 prostitutes ready to go all out for a hundred bucks!

You ladies kill me, cause you are all so goodie goodie, thinking that your man will never cheat on you, and hello, he's done it a few weeks before he just married you!!!

HELLO!!!! sorry, i had to let this out, cause all the dizziness just got to me!! have a great weekend, I'm heading home!

2007-09-07 09:49:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I haven't seen each other since the day we met which was last thursday.

Right now he's out of work and looking for a place to stay. He isn't calling me as often as he did a few days ago and when I asked him about it he said that he has a lot to do and just doesn't have time.

I asked him if another girl is involved and he said no. I asked him if he still likes me and he said yea. Then I asked him where this is going and he said he has a lot to take care of right now, but he really does like me.

I'm 19 and he's 26, is his reason for not calling because he has no place to stay at the moment a good excuse for him not to be calling as much? He has a cell phone and he sends texts asking me how I am.

2007-09-07 09:47:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 months now. Things seem to be going ok with a few bumps in the road along the way. However, lately, she has been saying I LOVE YOU but not with enthusiasm, including sometimes when she says it on the phone so low I can’t hear her and have to ask what she said. Recently, and only because it was something I said in conversation that brought this up, she said she is going to start working later on Wednesdays starting in 2 weeks and trying to work a few hours extra each day during the week for extra money. Again, she didn’t volunteer this info. Now I wouldn’t think anything of this being that we have talked about getting a place in 5months when her lease is up and we could use the extra cash to support ourselves. However, she has a history of cheating, including her ex hubby. And I still suspect she talks to her other ex she cheated on him with, but she denies it. Even though she has text him in front of me.

2007-09-07 09:34:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or ever have been? If you are, how many times have you been married? How long have you been married?

2007-09-07 09:26:13 · 21 answers · asked by King H 6

my aunt and i were talking about my relationship with my boyfriend..and she says out on no where..all men cheat..and that its just men married or not married they stilll cheat..she told me that as long as im being taken care off than it shouldnt matter and i shouldnt care about what hes doing as long as hes taking care of the household and not bringing his other personal life into our house as well as our realationship..i was so upset..because im thinking as her being a older (31) she would know better than to say anything like this.

2007-09-07 09:23:46 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

He admitted it (after lying repeatedly that he did NOT take it). I have the ring back now, but feel hurt and betrayed. I thought he and I had a great relationship, now I don't know what to do to move forward. He is now telling his dad he wants to come live with us. His dad and I have only been married 8 months... I love this boy and I need advice!

2007-09-07 09:21:43 · 43 answers · asked by gato0923 1

We have been separated for a couple of months now. she cries for him and asks when he is coming home and she wants us to live together, but I filed for divorce and i just dont think i want to be married anymore

2007-09-07 09:19:16 · 17 answers · asked by Christie B 2

My boyfriend asked me to marry him earlier this year, on Valentine day...very romantic. Second marriage for both. We're are having a simple wedding on the beach with our three combined children. Everything has pretty much been arrange and he has at times been very into the planning, very excited, telling me certain things that he wants. There have also been moments when he seems to tease me about "the-the-the-marriage", which I try to take in stride. He said something to me last night that didn't sound right. He said the marriage was more for me than for him. When I asked him to explain what he meant he said I wanted it more than him. Ok, I don't want to over analyze this or anything, but I also don't know that I want to marry someone that really isn't into it. Any thoughts?

2007-09-07 09:13:48 · 21 answers · asked by sweetnsexy46530 1

2007-09-07 09:11:11 · 17 answers · asked by sajmir 2

my husband walked out don't love me anymore, Altho my daughter is not his, and house is in his name, i still put lots of money into doing it up, he want me to buy him out, if only it was that easy.
He earns 500 a week i am a student nurse, i know i can stay in the house but what will happen if i can't buy him out, would they accept me pay half of mortgage, till ready to move.
As he can afford another home i can't, i don't see why i should striggle buy him out when he earns all this money. I know it should be half an half but i can't afford it yet, why should i be pushed, he walked couldn handle marriage why should i suffer.
Any advice please

2007-09-07 09:00:24 · 15 answers · asked by princes23 2

I know it is completley normal for guys to look at nudy pics and porn but it bothers me and makes me feel insecure, now he tells me that he loves the way i look, and i check the history on the internet to see what sites he has been on, he says that he hates when i check up on him but i dont like when he does it but it helps me if i know what it is that he is exactly looking at..i know its normal for guys to look and even if they have the hottest girl ever they will still look..any tips on how to make my insecurities go away or at least help them or any tips on anything that could help it not bother me?? PLease answer we have fought many times about this and i want it to go away but it seems whatever i do it starts bothering me again.

2007-09-07 08:59:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok...I'm probably a stupid woman for sticking around. Here's the story: Several months ago my boyfriend and I were traveling in an rv. He was drinking at least an 18 pack every night. One night we were fighting and my daughters were in the front fo the rv and he and I were in the bathroom. Actually he had me trapped in the bathroom and was in my face screaming at me. I tried everything I could think of to get him to stop...I didn't want my daughters (15 and 6) hearing it. finally, desperate for quiet, I reached up and slapped him. His reaction was to grab me by my throat and slam my head against the wall. And, don't ask me why, I stayed with him. I'm even married to him now (2.5 months). There was a lot of emotional abuse before this and still I stayed. I wasn't going to marry him, but he persuaded me with even more guilt trips. And I fell for them...again. He's never touched me again, but when fighting he brings it up like it was MY fault. What are your thoughts?

2007-09-07 08:57:15 · 11 answers · asked by Carri 2

My son said his friend feels better that his parents have agreed to remain married, but living separately rather getting a divorce. We had this discussion after I told him that we might be getting a divorce. My son said he likes that arrangement too. My kids are 9,11 and 15.

2007-09-07 08:55:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

(i was older than him).He returned back but 3 days later i found out it was because of sex mainly so i finished the whole story.Now,after almost 2 months, i still think of him sometimes, i'm better but i want to get him out of my brain for good.There are 2 other guys they are interested in me but i don't feel like this for nobody.I don't even go to my favourite club as i'm afraid he'll be there and ,even worse, with another girl.The worst of all is that i have to give exams next month,very important about my professional future and i can't focus.Before this story i was self confident and full of life.Now everything went back and i press myself to move on.When this wound will heal?

2007-09-07 08:54:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife and you were separated for almost a year because she was having an affair. You had a vasectomy during the separation. You managed to reconcile. Now wife is pregnant. What would you do?

2007-09-07 08:54:01 · 52 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

my house is his home, he has no savings, no health ins, bad credit, and wants to move back in. I want to sell my house. do i send him out on the streets? do i let him live there untill and get back on his feet and , save money, I have covered his expences for o long time and tired of getting him out of dept. he has no money mangement skills whats-so-ever. I love him very much and i'm afraid he'll end up where he started, whitch put into rehab in the first place. He can't seem to cut the cord from mom. His dad died 17 months ago and feel responciable for him still. I need to clean my house out since i don't live there anymore, I just got married again. what do I do?

2007-09-07 08:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by Gracie H 1

Haven't they ever heard of karma?

2007-09-07 08:34:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm taking my wife to Hawaii for our first anniversary/honeymoon (since we didnt take one after our wedding)...do I still get her some lavish anniversary gift? Some say yes, it's expected...some say no, Hawaii is enough...

Tell me why or why not...

2007-09-07 08:33:58 · 21 answers · asked by Dave O 2

If you have a girlfriend you really love or care about why would you cheat on her? Is it because you get tierd of the same thing every now and then want to be wit someone else for the hell of it but you still want to be with her? Or whats the reason behind unfaithfulness? Sometimes i get the feeling my husband is cheating on me but i dont now how to find out if he is or not. I think he not would cheat on me were happy nothing is wrong in our relationship but then again sometimes he just acts weird and never tells me where he is going. I asked him one day if he was cheating he said why would i do something so stupid if i have everything with you...? So i think he wouldn't but then theres that doubt that i have.

2007-09-07 08:31:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well as i said dating is not as fun anymore and I want to settle down. truth is i love another man but he decided to get married to another girl, so as many dates i have i can't recreate what is lost. so if you met a nice guy that looks like he would be a very good husband and of course you like him but you don't love him madly, would you proceed to a serious commitment? he's 38 and divorced, no kids. I suppose that gradually I will love him and start a new life and put the past behind.
I mean what's the point of looking for the love of your life if that has already happened?

2007-09-07 08:30:55 · 25 answers · asked by sarah kay 5

My soon to be X husband asked in divorcefor his last name
and for me to go back to my maiden name, can they do this
I live in Missouri?

2007-09-07 08:30:11 · 14 answers · asked by WiseGal 6

Is there any online retailer that sells such goods but does not sell pornography or partner with companies which do?

I'm not totally opposed to buying from a manufacturer who may incidentally sell to retail outlets who may also carry pornography - but I do not want to reward any retailer with my money who profits off the pornography trade directly.

Is there any chance there is anything like this out there?

2007-09-07 08:25:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-07 08:24:18 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

My husband is a control freak and i dont know how much more of it i can take. I just think he is too unfair. Im very lenient with him i hardly question him about where he is going or what he is doing. We live with his parents and he barley even lets me see my family. He says they know where i live they can come and see me but its not the same being with your family at there house wich used to be my home. He feels he can control every aspect of my life from working to what i wear, to when i can and cant be on the phone. It really gets on my nerves because when i try to tell him to stay home or question him he always tells me not your bussiness i wear the pants in this relationship. I love him so much that ive put up with it but now i feel like i just cant go on. We have a 1 yr old daughter and it breaks my heart the thought of leaving him but i just dont think i can no longer be happy. i told him how i felt and how i hate how he is and he simply says deal with it.

2007-09-07 08:22:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been separated from my wife for almost a year. We've had a rocky marriage over the past 7 years, and we have an eight year old son together. After being separated, I've learned that I've been dealing with depression for a long time now, and realise that it has caused us to grow apart, and for her to be bitter with me. I went to church with her and my son last week, and it was the first time she smiled at me in a long time. Recently she's scoffed at me when I say I want to move back, and has called the police several times due to me becoming verbally explosive.... Finally I'm seeing what a jerk I was, and feeling terribly guilty. With the help of God, I've managed to even stop smoking cigarettes, which I've done for 20 years. If I keep my promises to myself and God not to yell anymore, and not to smoke and/or drink, anyone think she might want me back as a husband, and forgive me for my mistakes?

2007-09-07 08:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by FearDragons 3

And she also makes me extra attracted to her when we beome intimate. She is carry our child and our child came from our love.

I really love her but someone I know told me not to love her too much.

But she says she likes it when I am protective of her.

I do give her enough room to breathe and I am not restricting her. But I do make her eat healthy and stop her from doing to much work.

2007-09-07 08:09:01 · 23 answers · asked by Blackman married to Redhead 1

I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 months now. Things seem to be going ok with a few bumps in the road along the way. However, lately, she has been saying I LOVE YOU but not with enthusiasm, including sometimes when she says it on the phone so low I can’t hear her and have to ask what she said. Recently, and only because it was something I said in conversation that brought this up, she said she is going to start working later on Wednesdays starting in 2 weeks and trying to work a few hours extra each day during the week for extra money. Again, she didn’t volunteer this info. Now I wouldn’t think anything of this being that we have talked about getting a place in 5months when her lease is up and we could use the extra cash to support ourselves. However, she has a history of cheating, including her ex hubby. And I still suspect she talks to her other ex she cheated on him with, but she denies it. Even though she has text him in front of me.

2007-09-07 07:59:18 · 4 answers · asked by hero 1

We have been together for over 3 years now. He has 2 children, his son lives in PR & he has joint custody with his daughter. I dont get to see my son to much cuz of the distance between his father and I. We have no children together. So basically we do not have any children in the house. I am 24 and he is 32 so our opinions are a little different when it comes to children. We tried to have a baby last year but I wound up with Thyroid Cancer and of course thatr needed to be taken care of first. Everything is back to normal and I just do not know how to bring up that I am ready to have a child with him.

2007-09-07 07:56:28 · 18 answers · asked by bebegurl 2