And she also makes me extra attracted to her when we beome intimate. She is carry our child and our child came from our love.
I really love her but someone I know told me not to love her too much.
But she says she likes it when I am protective of her.
I do give her enough room to breathe and I am not restricting her. But I do make her eat healthy and stop her from doing to much work.
2007-09-07 08:09:01 · 23 answers · asked by Blackman married to Redhead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My first husband could careless about me during my pregency (he really wanted me to lose it) but my hubby did just what you are doing and I loved it.
Don't listen to those that say "don't love her too much" because they are just jealous.
Keep it up!!!
2007-09-07 08:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Spring 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are doing what a man should do for his pregnant wife. As long as she has the freedom to be her and to help make the decision that personally affect her . A lot of men could take a few lessons from you these days!!!!:) She is a very Blessed woman to have a man that treats her the way God says a man should treat his wife and you do have two to protect now Good luck with the new baby and God Bless your family.
2007-09-13 18:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Rev.Leal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound to me like you are doing anything other than being a carring husband to your pregnant wife. I am in an early first pregnany and I love how protective he is of me. He cares about what i eat and makes sure that i don't stress my body too much. Not a lot of men realize how tired a woman gets during early pregnancy and she needs all the extra help she can get. Good for you for doing it!
2007-09-07 09:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by karenlanea2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your doing what you should do. Nothing wrong with wanting to protect your wife. But I will say this if she wants to eat junk food when pregnant let her, it isn't going to hurt her, or the baby. As long as that isn't the only thing she is eating. And it isn't going to hurt her to continue to do work, and keep active, it is actually the best thing for her. If her doctor does not have any restrictions on her. The more active she stays now the easier it will be for her when she has that baby.
2007-09-07 08:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being protective of her. This is a time when she will need it most. Whoever told you not to love her too much was wrong. If she says she like you being protective of her then keep doin what you are doing.
2007-09-07 08:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by ondia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends to mind their own business! You are being nothing but a great husband. Your wife likes that you are taking care of her and you are happy that she is carrying your child.
You are wonderful and your wife is lucky to have someone who cares so much as her partner.
2007-09-14 06:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to the someone . You protect your wife and my hat is off to you . not many men act like that today you are among a minority. Take care of you wife and your unborn child you are the definition of a MAN
2007-09-13 16:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by seymoretowns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is for real then your a man every girl here dreams of catching , who ever is telling you not to love her to much knock them on the head and get them out of your life right now because they either want you to themselves or they are just angry because your making them look bad to their wives.
Keep going the way your going it'll get you far.
2007-09-07 09:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Pea I think that is great. A woman with child should be spoiled by her husband. I don't see a problem with it at all. I think what you invest in a marriage is what you will get out of it. Keep doing what you are doing. God Bless!
2007-09-07 08:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by b n real 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is completely normal to be protective of the person who is carrying your child. Heck, even if she wasn't carrying your child I would say it's normal to want to protect her and keep her out of harm's way.
Just be sure you don't overdo it with trying to be too controlling. Allow her to make personal decisions for herself WITH you and you should be fine.
Good luck with your new baby!
2007-09-07 08:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by Tina 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋