Marriage & Divorce - 6 September 2007

2007-09-06 23:53:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do?
What would you do if the other man was your father?
What if the baby that you thought was your son really turned out to be your brother because your wife slept with your dad and he was the Father.

What would you do?

2007-09-06 23:18:07 · 14 answers · asked by threecraws 1

Well I have been married for almost 7 years to this man. I pratically never used a single cent from him. He used to abuse me pretty badly for the first 5 years but stopped completely these 2 years since my daughter was born. I am finacially independent and even have to pay off his credit cards bills tostart a new life. He is working but not enough to cover his debt. However he behaves like a kid. He wANTS THINGs that is not practical. He mixed with teenagers. Responsibilities that are entrusted to him will never be fulfilled for example like taking care of our girl and feed her properly when he is not working. I have to work everyday but he only work on shift. He has ample of time to teach or enrol our 3 years old girl in a school but he cant be bother to do it. he will sleeps n watches TV when he is free. Whenever we r out for food he will stop us from ordering food that we like claiming that it is expensive but he will order expensive meal for himself. what should I do?

2007-09-06 23:13:58 · 15 answers · asked by MummyGuess 1

Looking for the wisdom of long-time married men, if possible who've already passed the 10 year mark and are happy with their marriage...

What are the key factors of your relationship with your wife that made (and keep) your marriage successful? (examples: family, career, hobbies, love, sex, etc). Are there any that you think are critical to support your couple for the long term?

...A single guy wondering about a successful married life :) Thank you.

2007-09-06 23:03:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband had quit drinking when we got married, we have been together for 5 yrs and he is starting again hitting the bars, lieing to me, and hiding whiskey around the house, I found him the other evening and girl that is a friend, not to close just know her was running her fingers through his hair, I dont get sex hardy at all, and he never touches me , I am so hurt, confused,I hate this , I need advice

2007-09-06 22:54:47 · 19 answers · asked by Warm_Hearted 2

I’ve been with my husband for 7 years, married for 1. He runs his own business and literally works 7 days a week. I told him before we got married I couldn’t deal with having no time together and he either needed to make time for us or let me go and he promised to make time for us. 15 months later nothing has changed. I have told him how I feel over and over and there is nothing more I can say or do to change anything. I have worked my hours and social life around his working life and can’t do any more. If he was a horrible person it would be easier because I would leave but he is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, but it’s making me so unhappy. I honestly believe he does love me and wants to spend time with me but it seems to be just the pressure of work getting in the way. We had a big conversation (again) about this last week and again he has made promises, how long do I leave it this time before I have to have the conversation again though. What would you do?

2007-09-06 22:33:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Things though haven't worked to plan because of the housing market here. She put the money on a new house and told me last week that she had asked the builder for an extension on the waiting period as she couldn't sell. She told me in a "by the way" fashion that the builder had given the extension "indefinatley"meaning if it takes a year then that would be ok. My problem is that I loaned the money 7 months ago and I don't think I can go a year or even 6 months without it. Would it be mean to ask her about this?

2007-09-06 22:13:05 · 22 answers · asked by patlynn2 2

... in the McCann tragedy, did you notice how SERENE and kind of RELIEVED she looked AFTER 11 HOURS of questioning by the GNR-PJ ? It is as if she is RELIEVED to have something off her chest .
She is now a formal suspect. She cannot leave Portugal. It looks to me as though MISTER McCann is on the spot. I believe that when they interview parents SEPARATELY the parent being interviewed LAST is the one they truly suspect. So... in view of today's 'breaking news' from Portugal, what do you think is the guilty one ? Your views please. Thank you

2007-09-06 21:55:52 · 4 answers · asked by RED-CHROME 6

I'm just curious. I've gotten to the point where I can decide how many I'm going to give to her. I can even go indefinitely through the night.

Anyone else capable of this? How did you do it? I use my mind to accomplish this, along with certain positions within sexual positions and movements.

2007-09-06 21:49:33 · 9 answers · asked by Luminus 2

The marriage didn't actually happen, but all preparations were over. The marriage stopped at the last moment of wedlock. There are evidences for the same. when spoke to the police, not much help was given. Is there any way to punish this guy by the wife? Does the law allow to apply for divorce with compensations in this case?
The wife is also earning, can compensation be still claimed? Will the husband and their family be punished?

2007-09-06 21:24:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-06 21:09:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-06 21:06:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

what could happen to him? could he be kicked out? & what happens to the benefits as far as medical and what not??

2007-09-06 19:55:57 · 7 answers · asked by weetee_25 2

2007-09-06 19:48:15 · 14 answers · asked by Sexy 1

I am not kidding.

2007-09-06 19:44:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there a point to the whining about it when he hits you when you know you should leave? Don't you think people are tired of hearing it?

2007-09-06 19:31:17 · 11 answers · asked by James Watkin 7

my x and i have been divorced for over 4 years and we have a doughter together, when i'm trying to arange pick up and drop off times for his weekends his new girlfriend can't controll herself, she ends up cousing me out and threatning me and it would be easier if i could just talk to him but she won't allow it.she insist that all arangements be made threw her. i'm trying to be nice and just make the arangements ang go our seperate ways but it seems she just loves to fight. i'd love to put her in her place but i just don't think she's that important.

2007-09-06 19:21:17 · 8 answers · asked by girlie 1

2007-09-06 19:08:47 · 5 answers · asked by silver wings 4

i cant live without him. i dont know how i can understand this situation. last night callled him his cell was on waiting from 8;00 pm till 11:30 pm and i think onwards because last i tried to 11:30 then i dont know .
he did not call back me.

my situation is going worst...............

2007-09-06 18:53:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-06 18:48:16 · 25 answers · asked by roma 1

My husband has a fantasy of me being with other men sexually while he watches. What is that all about?

2007-09-06 18:46:18 · 10 answers · asked by Shelly S 1

My hubby oneday said, i don't want to be married, I want my freedom, I want no responsiblity of taking care of you are anybody else. He wants to be free and live his life. He moved out of the bedroom 3 weeks ago, out cell phone bill came higher then normal, so i checked our minutes, we were ok, but, then i looked at the text message and he had 20/30 text a day from two woman, he said "oh they are friends from work who like to send jokes. Well, one of the phone numbers was on there in the middle of the night.......friends hu, when i confronted him, he got pissed and said i was "sic" and hasn't came home since then. I don't want him back, i just want the pain to go away.......If you only knew me, I am a good woman and thought are marriage was the best ever. Never did we have major problems.....i feel there is another woman...why would he do this to us, broken heart in Las Vegas........

2007-09-06 18:34:27 · 19 answers · asked by Gonzo 1

I met my wife when she was working as a call girl and I was a frequent customer of hers. Naturally people frequently ask how we met and we aren't entirely comfortable with the true story for obvious reasons.

2007-09-06 18:30:44 · 20 answers · asked by nmsu00 2

I know of a case where a husband was secretly viewing his stepdaughter body while his wife and other family members slept! This happenend on three occasions each occasion seemed to escalate, the father felt he should be forgiven since he came to my friend and told her. Right now my friend and her husband are legally separated and have an impending divorce but many of her other girlfriends have told her to take him back, I have been firm with her and told her NO! you have other children and he the husband tells her that he won't do that again and never to his daughters, but as her friend I have told her she can't take that chance! Divorce him! Do you think am I wrong for advising her to Divorce him? Or are her other friends right?

2007-09-06 18:27:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

A high school student of mine named Alma poses this question. Could you please address your answers to her? Thank you. They really enjoy seeing their questions answered by people from all over.

2007-09-06 18:07:05 · 46 answers · asked by red baron 2

I have been married for 6 years. Up until recently I have had 2 instances where I drank too much and said mean things and don't remember anything.. Both times we agreed I would work on it. Last weekend was my 30th b-day and my husband could not be with me he had too work so I was up north with my kids and sister.. I got really drunk again, did not intend too and I feel awful..this time I just acted like a goofy drunk but the kids saw and my husband is really upset and is giving me one more chance? I feel like I don't know where to start I am hurt because nothing was done for by birthday but that is no excuse for what I did.. I feel terrible and I don't like that I have one more chance it feels like I am on trial(I plan to never drink again) I just need some advice on how to feel better about myself and for my husband to support me more

2007-09-06 17:16:03 · 27 answers · asked by sonya 1

I been marryed for 9 months and its falling apart. I love him but he doset belive it. He dosent care anymore. To be honest i dont think he really truly ever did. I want to be with him and happy with him but if you ask him thats not what i want what do you do when one has givin up but you didnt?

2007-09-06 17:14:40 · 15 answers · asked by bacardi 2

i live and were married in the united states what i want to know is there a way he could have started the divorce in kuwait or will it has to be done in the usa.

2007-09-06 17:10:49 · 12 answers · asked by sty 1

If so why they already have money?
Just wondering

2007-09-06 17:06:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think are some of the greatest obstacles?

2007-09-06 16:50:31 · 13 answers · asked by Dominus 5