Marriage & Divorce - 5 September 2007

Weve been together for nealy a year and he asked if we should get engaged, he even talked about it with one of his mates, i hesitated, do u think it might be real??? BUT, now hes called us off all together, well, he just wants a break, ssooooo........... Should i ask him to marry me???

2007-09-05 23:54:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met my ex since we were in 8th grade i had a crush on him since and we dated in my 11th and 12th grade i loved him but at the end it didn't work now i've been married almost a yrs and i still have dream with him and find myself thinking of him but i love my husband so why do i still think of him?????please help

2007-09-05 23:50:41 · 8 answers · asked by rosalinda 1

How come when it comes to r'ship or family problems majority of you would think of Divorce or Separation...isnt there any other solutions to settle the prblm?? no offence... just curious..

Isnt divorce a pain process to all of the individuals involved?? including the innocent children

2007-09-05 23:20:12 · 17 answers · asked by SexyPrincess 3

Some body fall in love with me .He is a very good boy in many character that iagree & believe them for getting married.Advantages that he has:good moral/behavior/so active/so happy/doesnt waste his time /adventurous..etc . I think he is ready to get married, but he doesnt want now.I agree with him in some cases and i give him 60%mark .He said its soon for us to get married. he say his word indirectly &it bother me alittle.He shows his feeling toward me but doesnt say it directly.what should i do?im in dobt.i dont know exactly that i love him too.i prefer not to show my feeling.maybe i will have better situation in the future.im in dobt.i think about his words & behavior but i cant get a absolute decision.

2007-09-05 22:52:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 22:09:15 · 15 answers · asked by mohammed Tariq q 1

I have been married a year. It was good but a few months after I do the passion was gone.He is military and I don't know if it is because of the trauma of war or it's me.He complains all the time about me.Mainly he wants me to change my breast size and I would rather not.I tell him I wont and he insults me and looks at other women.We are not intimate as much as we should and he claims its all my fault and I know it's both of ours.He complains if I hug, hold, or try to get close to him. I try and try and I get pushed away. He checks my e mails and messages to see if I am cheating. If a guy talks to me like a friends and I mean converstations like hi how are you he gets jelouse.He blocks me from getting on his computer and his e mails and I think it's not fair.We currently relocated to a different base and I don't know if I should try and work things out for a few months see if anything changes or just say screw it and leave. We have no kids at all. I just want to know what yall think?

2007-09-05 21:58:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 21:26:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

and my husband-to-be has left to go see his family for a week. I know he needs his space and some time alone with family and friends will be good for him. However, he neglected to mention before he left, that one of the 'friends' he will be visiting is his EX of 7 years. I don't know what to do with myself, please help....
could he fall back in love with what was the love of his life.
HELP

2007-09-05 20:35:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He comes tired from work n we hardly have sex once a week, i dont reach orgasm most of the times, ive told him many times but he does nothing for it. Both of us dont masturbate. Otherwise he is very loving and caring.

2007-09-05 20:24:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married Aug. 4th and I am ready to leave. I have not even slept in bed since a week after we got married. We have a two year old together. I was so happy when we got married now I just want to cry cause i dont want to be with him. Age never bothered me he is38 I am 22 But i want to go find someone younger. Please dont tell me I should have never married him cause of the age. I just want to know if this is a normal feeling or not. I do love him I just dont feel the way i used to. HELP!!!!!

2007-09-05 18:46:58 · 30 answers · asked by doepy_143 2

When some one is your soul mate do they have to be perfect all the time or can it be some one that makes you crazy mad sometimes? I am interested in what others think about this.

2007-09-05 18:31:58 · 33 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7

Any kind of relationships - lovers or friends, if you go through REALLY bad, hard, and challenging times (to the point where you don't know what's going to happen) and OVERCOME it, do you value the relationship more? do you feel closer to the person and feel that your relationship has grown more?

I'm not talking about "oh we had a fight" (for like a week), i'm talking where it's dramatic...it's those hard times you just go through (like a blessing in disguise) - a big misunderstanding...

and w. "relationships", i mean you guys had to have been really close, have a great connection, and there's that mutual respect and understanding to fix things

2007-09-05 18:28:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been together for almost 3 years (will be 3 in Feb). I'm 28, divorced with 3 girls part-time. he's 29-never been married. he comes from large and very close family (6 siblings)

we've had our ups and downs due to me having PMDD that was just diagnosed 3 months ago and is now under control. keep in mind that he's had to adjust to dealing w/my issues along with getting to know my 3 girls (who he loves very much and even watches the 2 older ones for me when i pick up my youngest from school).

we've talked marriage before and the past 8 months he's hinted about a proposal so i know his heart is in the right place. we've discussed me and the kids moving in after xmas of this year.

we talk everyday and he sees the kids at least 1-2 times per week. i'm close w/his whole family and babysit his neices often (they go to same school as my 2 older kids).

i have a key to his house and we tell each other everything.

am i waiting too long or should i be patient?

2007-09-05 18:13:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 18:12:46 · 10 answers · asked by da da 1

I am devastated and torn. How can I keep this from happening again? How could I have thought he was so wonderful when it was not even me he really wanted to be with? I truly thought he was happy with me, he said it and he acted like it. He spoke of how this ex had done him wrong a few times and we talked about what we wanted different in terms of our relationship. Things were great so I thought and I got my heart broken. He is happy having her and could care less. This is what makes people feel they are not good enough.

2007-09-05 18:07:17 · 15 answers · asked by Callie B 1

Has anyone done this? Any unique suggestions on what to do? We want to renew our vowels and celebrate with our kids and family. We've not only been married over 30 years, but we dated for almost 9 before marrying! I want to make this not only special to us, but for our kids and their spouses and to be a role model. Thank you very much.

2007-09-05 18:04:19 · 7 answers · asked by Pilot ~ canine son! 6

I have been dating (FWB) a man for five months that is going thru a divorce. He had his big meeting today and got everything settled on dividing the money and custody. They have court mid Sept.

My question is: how long do I wait before I can expect for him to have a relationship/commitment with me?

He had been so overwhelmed by the divorce, money, kids, etc... it kind of consumed him. I could tell in his voice today - JOY! And I was the first one he called after he walked outt he doors. So I can be patient... but I don't want to wait around for a year for him to decide. Just not me...

Help me out here...

2007-09-05 17:40:26 · 13 answers · asked by Mitch 2

just started a new job, and this guy that works with me, works in another room, and when he passes by , he always looks in the room,(but I guess that might not really mean anything) and everytime he passes by he always come in and chit chats, and he'll ask me what I'm doing(even though there are two people in the room) and he'll sit in my desk, and look at my computer, and ask ME stuff about politics, and news..I mean it's very casual but he always asks me if I went to lunch yet, and today, me and another co -worker sit in the same room and while they were talking I started doing my own thing typing my other friend on the computer, and he stood behind me and kept hitting my chair...and I'm thinking why does he keep doing that, and then he asks me if I know of a good church, because he hasnt been to one...'s been herein the city for almost eight years ...I'm confused as to why he's playing dumb and being nosey.. Well anyhow what do you think

2007-09-05 17:33:37 · 6 answers · asked by Peaches N'Creme 1

I really admired the old couples that took their wedding vows seriously and would marry till "death do us part". I discussed this with my girlfriend and we both don't understand what is wrong with modern society. We both admire the muslim countries for having such low divorce rates and their strict morals.

In marriage couples are promising to always love one another no matter what, but it seems they rarely follow through anymore.

I feel unless the husband is doing something so wrong like beating up his wife or molesting his children that the wife shouldn't leave him and vice versa. My girlfriend and I both feel girls these days are spoiled too much and allowed to get away with way too much. That could be partly do to the mans fault spoiling his wife; they should look to arab women as the ideal household wife.

2007-09-05 17:31:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am really stressed out, to the point I can't sleep and I feel like I'm totally ineffective. I'm 15 weeks pregnant, I have a 2 year old son in the middle of his terrible 2's, my husband has been deployed since June, my house is out of control and I have 2 pets that drive me up the wall.
I just can't seem to keep up with it all. I hate clutter but I don't even know where to start. It's not like I sit on my butt all day, surfing the internet or watching TV, I'm rarely doing either one. When my husband left we had our entire spare room filled with boxes that I now have to go through because we'll need it for the baby. The boxes in there are filled with clothes and I've gone through about half. So now i have tons of clothes to wash and get rid of. UGH!
I know there are hundreds of women out there who manage every day, I don't need to be reminded of that or how I'm not as good as them. I just need some tips or tricks.

2007-09-05 16:52:55 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Informed 5

sin·gle /ˈsɪŋgəl/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[sing-guhl] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation adjective, verb, -gled, -gling, noun
–adjective 1. only one in number; one only; unique; sole: a single example.
2. of, pertaining to, or suitable for one person only: a single room.
3. solitary or sole; lone: He was the single survivor.
4. unmarried: a single man.
5. pertaining to the unmarried state: the single life.
6. of one against one, as combat or fight.
7. consisting of only one part, element, or member: a single lens.
YOU: Divorced with kids from another man. Connected with this man and his family in a relationship that can never end by virtue of the fact you have kids with him, and are probably collecting alimony/child support on top of it. This is in fact the opposite of "single" as defined.

2007-09-05 16:46:08 · 29 answers · asked by What? 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 months now. I know that's not long and it was HIS idea to actually call each other a couple. I dont really know exactly what is going on with us or me or whatever, but he seems distant, and I dont know what to think and he has some sort of problem with talking about how he feels...as do many men I have heard. I cannot seem to feel relaxed around him. I like him a lot and I know he likes me as well but for some reason I'm just exhausting myself with the fear that he is going to break up with me, whether it be because I am not for him or cause he wants another girl or what. In the past I have been screwed with by guys and it's so hard not to think this way but I still am very gaurded with relationships and what they may end up as. I am nothing but nice to people, especially someone I'm dating, yet they seem to **** on me all the time! Why is this happening? I play things cool most of the time...I am a nice, smart, pretty girl.

2007-09-05 16:37:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do people think bein a teen and wanting to get married is a bad thing? if you know you love the person then why not im only 16 and i love my gf more than anythig in the world?? and i want to ask her to marry me but everyone says im too young to ask!! i need some advice so please help!!!!

2007-09-05 16:36:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had two children in 16 months, so let's just say that I'm not the skinny thing that I used to be. I still have about 20 pounds that need to come off. My hubby says that he's fine with it and he loves me just the way I am. Something inside tells me that he's full of it and just telling me what I want to hear. So, fellas, are you really OK with the way your wife looks carrying all the extra baby weight?

2007-09-05 16:33:20 · 9 answers · asked by redpeach_mi 7

ok married for 11 years, 3 girls. Over the last six months we have had a really tough time keeping our marriage together. I have found several text messages, on e-mail and now have a person saying that they seen him being more than freindly with another woman while he was at a conference. That is pretty much the last straw for me. I just don't know what to do now. Where do I start? Or What should be done first? I prefer christian based advice and not the kick him to the curb stuff. This is serious and I have 3 girls to think about and I really want to know how to handel this in a Godly manner.

2007-09-05 16:29:31 · 24 answers · asked by true friend 1

My mom's been talking to me this week about all the stuff she found on my dad cheating on her. He is 60 and she is 58. The cheating has clearly been with another woman for over 5-6 years and continuous lies. My mom told me today she confronted him and he basically still denies it. But he begged and pleaded with my mom on hands and knees asking her for another chance - I love you's etc... He travels all the time and flies this woman to meet him on business trips, texts her, is out all weekend when he's home and so on. He then went online to "cover his tracks"by telling the woman that my mom knows about them so to keep "lying"and making sure no more access goes to my mom for phone bills. My mom has suspected it for some time.

I feel so helpless. I feel sick to my stomach about all of this because I live at home with this so I am seeing this with my own eyes. My mom is clearly deeply hurt just trying to maintain "the peace". A sick poor excuse for a husband -but a good dad.

2007-09-05 16:28:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious to hear what you ladies have to say about what you appriciate about your husbands.

2007-09-05 15:28:33 · 12 answers · asked by Bryan M 6

For all those women who like to emotionally beat up your husbands; Why? Why do you expect him to respect you, or totally be in love with you; When, you have made him feel that time and time again, his worth to you; is nothing more than a paycheck? As long as that paycheck is coming in, the man is great; but OH NO! you let that paycheck stop, and the man is scum? Why do you do this?

2007-09-05 15:18:35 · 19 answers · asked by runner45 3

i usually make a romantic candlelight dinner and wear some sexy lingerie.. but i wanna do something different

i go to college (freshman) during the day, and there's like 4 to 6 hours to prepare for everything before he gets home (he's a stock broker).. he works a lot and sometimes i go the office and surprise him.. any new ideas??

2007-09-05 15:10:22 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4

been going to court and try to get my son i guess all the court battles are over

2007-09-05 15:00:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous