Marriage & Divorce - 5 September 2007

My niece who is 18 year old turning 19 years old in the upcoming weeks wants to get pregnant so her 15 year old boyfriend he turns 16 i think at the end of the school year will have to marry her?I am very concerned her parents are divorced have been since she was 10 yrs old .Since then she has gotten kicked out of 3 different boarding schools and caused so much trouble failing classes,getting arrested for assulting her step mother, and a DUI neither of her parents want to deal with her.I was asked by her mom (my sister) to take her in for her senior year of highschool.Its been a year and half since she's been living with me. I got her to graduate HS through a lot of nagging and even got her to sign up for classes at the local community college.She seemed to be turning around till i found the ovulation kit and when i confronted her she said she wanted to ensure her bf would have to marry her?Saying he was a good catch and already promised to marry her when he turns 18.What do i do?

2007-09-05 04:35:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

made you fall in love?

-when did you realize this was the one?

-what were the circumstances behind the relationship? (just got out of another, met through friends, etc)

- What makes them different than the others?

2007-09-05 04:32:15 · 16 answers · asked by Stuey 6

My husband is obsessed with the show and now has been reading the book. Is this strange behavior for a married man of 11 years? Is it strange that he would take up such an interest in the art of picking up women? We have had problems in the past with going out with random women and almost divorced because of it. But is he now on his way to attemt to live the best of both worlds, again? or is it just a book and just a show? should i be concerned? i think it's wierd...what do you think?

What would it say about me if I were so deeply interested in the art of picking up men?

oh, he also plays in a band and play at the bars every so often.

is he just an attention whore?!

2007-09-05 04:31:32 · 3 answers · asked by goodtalkin' 1

in turn lead to infidelity?Since you don't know what you're missing and aren't happy with what you've got aren't you even more likely to stray than if you had something to compare your spouse's performance to?I'm really glad than I didn't wait and "shopped around" so to say before settling down.Why anyone would willigly deprive themselves of one f the best things in life is beyond me.

2007-09-05 04:27:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

54 year old woman now homeless. Left my guy several weeks ago. I have tried the Mission, 1 night at a time with different friends and the Mission for woman in S,F., California. Was told I would have to stay 6 months getting to stay three nights a week then onto the streets of the city the other 4 nights a week. Wow I vote every year,am a good person just ran into hard times.Spent the night in a BED at a friends last night now off to find a safe campsite for the next 2 months. Winter is coming, lots of snow here. Does anyone have a clue what or where I can go? Thank You all very much for reading my story on my scarry life. I know things could be worst, it's just so hard getting myself together and causes MUCH depression! Well like people say...such is life!

2007-09-05 04:26:13 · 8 answers · asked by Rukeann 2

How to live with this kind of marriage?Cant allow blue films.I dont want divorce him as I love him.?
We are married fro 6months now. Ours si a love marriage. He lied for everything and cheated me.He gave me nothing from time of marriage.He showed me imaginary married life and world to me before marrying me.He doesnt earn he has no home so My parents supported us and gave a home to live. I am from very rich and high class family with masters in education. I started working also and he takes all my money and spends it of.He has never given me anything but knows how to take it from me. He made me sell my gold and ask money from my parents all the time coz i love him.He smokes, watches blue films, tv and playing cards and snookers on yahoo.he enjoys his life. He slaps me on my face if I argue.I love him and I am suffering. His family left him never supported him financially also at time we got married. My parents are my strenght.But now he is cheating and lying to me and meeting his family and giving them my money if they ask.Which is not accepted by me. Please advice.

2007-09-05 04:24:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 04:17:04 · 15 answers · asked by North Carolina 2

My husband has started walking in the afternoons. I could use some exercise myself so I thought that he would not mind if I tagged along, though he always would get up to go at times when I was in the middle of something - cooking, bathing, helping with homework. And then the times that I did get into my exercise attire, he made up some reason why he was not planning on walking that day. Anyway, one afternoon after he left, I glanced out the window and he and another woman were walking right in front of the house! I realized at that point why he was not enthusiastic about me walking with him. I let him know that I was not happy about it. They stopped walking together and he stopped walking completely. I tried to get him to walk with me but he says he is tired. Anyway, I told him he should start walking again and he went yesterday and came back and said that another woman neighbor asked if she could start walking with him. Should I be concerned that he does not want to walk with me?

2007-09-05 04:15:30 · 23 answers · asked by emily1980 2

A young man was walking through a supermarket to pick up a few things when he noticed an old lady following him around. Thinking nothing of it, he ignored her and continued on. Finally he went to the checkout line, but she got in front of him. "Pardon me," she said, "I'm sorry if my staring at you has made you feel uncomfortable. It's just that you look just like my son, who just died recently." "I'm very sorry," replied the young man, "is there anything I can do for you?" "Yes," she said, "As I'm leaving, can you say 'Good bye, Mother'? It would make me feel so much better." "Sure," answered the young man.
As the old woman was leaving, he called out, "Goodbye, Mother!" As he stepped up to the checkout counter, he saw that his total was $127.50. "How can that be?" He asked, "I only purchased a few things!" "Your mother said that you would pay for her," said the clerk.

2007-09-05 04:14:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have kid and would do anything for them but when if any time are marrages (are sposes) to became more important is there a time? you are soppost to spend the rest of your life with them so are they (your spose) ever more important than anyone else in your life?

2007-09-05 04:13:41 · 8 answers · asked by Jene 1

My husband just got me my own Xbox Live account so we could play against each other. Well now when i play everyone knows that I am a Girl so a ton of guys keep requesting to be my friend. My husband is way mad, but i dont think he should be cause i decline all there requests. Do you think he has the right to be upset?? What should i do?

2007-09-05 04:10:33 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 03:48:16 · 19 answers · asked by Kat T. 2

If you've told your husband that you dreamed of being an at home mom, raising your kids, with a nice house...do you then complain and give your husband a hard time about what it takes to provide for that dream? When he says I have to work, do you complain about the extra hours and missed events at school or are these losses balanced by the fulfillment of living life as you wished?

2007-09-05 03:47:10 · 10 answers · asked by bigitalyguy 2

He is very clever -- the only time he could possiblly be cheating is during the day when he is doing "field work"; he is a Project Manager and has to visit all the work sites. He has two cell phones (the second one is suppose to be for his project field work - but I have no access); I use to have access to the other cell phone details, but recently haven't been able to access them. Then there is the computer - I am an above average user and I work partly from home. Routinely I have to clean the house computer and I find things he has attempted to conceal (i.e. his profile with statements regarding our personal sex life); saved profiles of women 1/2 his age; and fore a most of 2006 and part of 2007 he had to work late the same night each week. Make me wonder about the annual trips for 3-5 days two times a year.

2007-09-05 03:46:46 · 15 answers · asked by TEXAS LADY 2

all my in laws do is start trouble, they are a bunch of troublemakers what should I do to keep them away. they are ruining my marriage

2007-09-05 03:40:35 · 20 answers · asked by kris 1

my husbnd, started to live with another girl only 5 months after our marriage,he openly admits that he is living with her, but at the same time claims that he doesnt have the same feelings for that girl that he had 8 months back and is planning to leave her in 2-3 months, i've been waiting for him since past 8 months.he doesnt feel guilty for any thing,never opologized.but since i loved him, should i give him some more time, or in other words try my luck again. in our culture marriage and divorce are very important events ,having strong impact on future life

2007-09-05 03:08:45 · 39 answers · asked by jenny 2

..can anyone tell me how you know your done trying to work out a marriage? When everything seems like a one way street and the other party doesn't try/ accuses you of cheating/ works late and is never around/ or when they are around they'd rather watch tv than be with you and your children/ Your sex life sucks..or is non existant.... I'm begining to feel like I could do this and be happier alone..b/c I'm bascially alone all the time anyways. Should I work harder??..When I'm the only one working at this anyways???

2007-09-05 02:57:31 · 26 answers · asked by Leigh08 4

My hubby has children that live about 2 hours away, I have children who live close and have shared custody of. Every year his one son plays football and we have to drive 4 hours RT to pick them up on Fridays, 4 hours RT on Sat to games and 4 hours RT on Sunday to take them home. Either I go with him to the games or he feels neglected, we leave all of the other children at home, because they don't want to go. This summer he said that he was not going to do all of the driving and work out an alternative arrangement. Last night his son called and sure enough we are back on the same schedule. I am upset because he just jumped in to this without letting me know that it was going back to the same old routine. There are plans that have been made by the other kids during this football season and now they have to be told that they can't do these things, or I have to tell my husband that I don't want to go with him because the other children need me. He likes me to go with him to support

2007-09-05 02:55:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know he does not have any affair, only thing is he is very egoistic, and does not like to compromise. The reason for our seperation is because he hates my parents and I cannot accept that. But i still miss him. Not for my sake but for my kids, what are the chances he will call me back.

2007-09-05 02:46:32 · 12 answers · asked by smr 1

I have been married to a good but cold and sometimes selfish man for 12 years. I worked my but off for the first 6 years and got not much in return. Recently I told him I was done and wanted to leave. Now he has turned over a new leaf and is trying to fix everything and doing the things now that he would not do in the past. 90% of me says to little to late. We have kids 6 and 2. But the other 10% says stay maybe the feelings will come back in time because he is now trying to change the things that made me not love him anymore. I am feeling torn because I don't want to lead him on by staying and trying to love him again and have it not work. But I also don't want to walk away without knowing for sure because of my kids.

2007-09-05 02:42:44 · 10 answers · asked by golfinggoddess 2

This is referrance to my previous question .I came back India on 01.04.07, but I didn't inform her. She called my mom on 06.04.07 to know my whereabouts. At the first instance my mom denied to talk about on this thing. Then as per my opinion my mom called her and told that I was here. She started from Mumbai on 07.04.07 and reached to my home on 09.04.07 along with her father and uncle. That time even she was suffering from viral fever. She told me that she was on bed rest on 05.04.07. We didn't accept her, that's why she left the home. Then she again fell sick and was on bed rest for 3 days. But still she came to my advocate chamber and signed on all the papers of mutual divorce which states that she received her stridhan properties and 1 lac 25 thousand as her whole life maintenance. After she got well she started calling me and telling me for reconcile. Even over email she expressed her willingness for reconciliation.

2007-09-05 02:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've not went with another guy nor would I but I have in the past (before we met) and I still think about it, I don't long to do it or anything but I think about it when I masturbate sometimes - should I tell her that I've had experiences in the past with guys?

2007-09-05 02:28:54 · 35 answers · asked by threecraws 1

Noone has that perfect spouse, my husband doesn't do drugs, is not abusive, doesn't hang out all night he just goes out with me and the boys, 1 & 5, he's a hard worker, does the housework , even more of it than I do, takes care of the boys, diapers, baths etc. I work part-time he works full-time. However, I cannot say say we are the best of friends. In fact we have the worst of fights some time. Our personalities clash., We both have tempers, however mine is worse. Whatever he does I do 10 fold. I tend to be verbally abusive, but only if he does something to really hurt me. He's not so much unless I hit him. Don't get me wrong sometimes we do have happy times my husband gets over things quicker & is very affectionate sometimes overly, but when it gets bad it gets bad. I tend to, use info that I have on him against him,like something from the past, so I make sure that I don't tell him everything so he won't use it against me. Please no mean answers we ARE in counselling.

2007-09-05 02:28:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

it has been almost a year since my wife left me. she rejected me 'n' number of times and are soon going to be divorced (after 18 mths of marriage). whenever we have a talk she talks about herself and asks me what i am doing these days. since i feel rejected i don't talk much except ask for her wellbeing.

Whenever we talk she says she came to know what i am upto from other friends and hammers me by telling i am not sharing anything with her. If she is so much concerned she can come back to me but that she doesn't want to.

Please help me know what does she want from me? how can she expect this from me?

2007-09-05 02:20:20 · 25 answers · asked by bebe 3

She don't like sex. She's always busy. Should I dump her or just find a sex buddy?

2007-09-05 02:19:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, Spiritual connection is my question.
I have a good Idea of what it is but I'd like opinions from you guys.

Anywho, what would you consider a Spiritual connection?
Can you only have a spiritual connection with somebody you are with like a GF/BF, Husband/Wife ect... or can you have a deep spiritual connection with a friend?

(wondering myself cause I feel I have a deep spiritual connection with a really close friend of mine, her and me get along great and when she is away my heart aches but her and me aren't together as man/wife, BF/GF or whatever name a person would give people who are intimate lol)

2007-09-05 02:11:55 · 5 answers · asked by demirall 2

Men will be men.....

2007-09-05 02:09:30 · 16 answers · asked by sweetemtation_123 4

hi can anyone reccommend a good honset attorney in west plam beach florida to represent me in child support custody and visitaion matters need someone who is honest and will hold the interest of my daughter in there heart please help

2007-09-05 02:08:09 · 4 answers · asked by vallygirl123us 1

2007-09-05 02:06:54 · 12 answers · asked by bluecrush2016 1

i just cant help getting upset

2007-09-05 02:03:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous