Marriage & Divorce - 5 September 2007

I was wanting to know what the consequences would be if to show my disapproval of certain activites my wife wants to include herself in I begin to just wall myself off from her when she does them? Will it get her attention or just put more distance between us?

2007-09-05 09:12:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost my good job, then got another and it's going under so soon I will be out searching again. I can't even be happy about the fact that I live in paradise. My friend is suicidal; he has AIDS. My other friend is so depressed, he doesn't come to work anymore either. WTF is going on?

2007-09-05 08:55:13 · 19 answers · asked by shallytally 4

Cause for concern or no big deal?

2007-09-05 08:49:13 · 20 answers · asked by OOO! I know! I know! 5

i was cheated on and i would like to hear other peoples stories.i want to know how they got over that person and how it turned out for them.thanks! just going through this and wanted to see if there were other people out there who went through this and i can get some strength from.

2007-09-05 08:43:27 · 20 answers · asked by ♥ missing a soldier in Iraq ♥ 4

Ok.This is a continuing from my previous 2 other questions.Now my question is that if you have been divorced,what was the reason,how old were you when u got married and how long did the marraige last?A quick summary of my other 2 questions..Im 20 and she is 19.Im about to be a millionare and i love her and she says yes she would marry me also.We are both virgins,strict about crossing the line when it comes to religion,were not THAT religous but we no when not to cross the line.I want to know that what was the main reason for your divorce because i am about to be a millionare and we love each other and we are young.Thanks.

2007-09-05 08:41:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi all, I am 30 and my husband is 32. We have been married for 6 years. We enjoy our life, we work hard at our jobs, take vacations, travel.
My question is- when do I know that I am ready for a kid? My husband and I tell each other that we might be ready, but I don't know for sure. How do I know? Should I talk to a parenting counselor?

Thanks

2007-09-05 08:33:51 · 14 answers · asked by Happy Chick 123 1

So i'm 21 years old, got married whe i was 18. He went to the Military and asked me to marry him and i was supposed to go live with him, well, i never did. So now he's finally home from his 4 years of active duty and we are finally living together for the first time and we've been married for 3 1/2 years. We dont have anything in common (he drinks, i dont, he bowls, i dont, he LOVES sports, i hate them), we never really have conversations and when i try to have alone time with him (go out to eat) all we do is argue. Please, i dont want to waist my life away being in a failing marriage, what should we do?

2007-09-05 08:29:08 · 20 answers · asked by Curious Girl 2

Is something missing when your man doesnt cross the finish line?

2007-09-05 08:28:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has a spending problem. To give you a litte history, during a six month period during 2006 she alone spent $10,000 with vitually nothing to show for it, but maybe some clothes. If your doing the math that's $1700+ per month. She only make $1400 per month. Since she's working we have to pay $700 per month in day care, so she's really only bringing home $700 per month. Add that all up and she's at negative $1000 per month... now it's 2007 and she's gotten better. I gave her a seperate checking acct and control how much $ goes in. The problem now is that she consistently bounces the acct and every chance she gets she spends money behind my back... what do I do???? we have a kid, I can't leave!

2007-09-05 08:18:59 · 15 answers · asked by nate1013@sbcglobal.net 1

Been married for almost 10 yrs, and Im so sick of my husband not "listening" to me....how do you get a man to actually pay attention, and hear you, instead of "selective" hearing?

2007-09-05 08:16:08 · 34 answers · asked by hasegirl1978 1

Is that grounds to break-up? I dont want to end it, but its making me sexual fustrated and I REFUSE to cheat. I'm thinking its his problem to figure out, whether it be medication or aroma-therapy. But its been some months now and Im losing hope for us. Help please!!

2007-09-05 08:04:55 · 17 answers · asked by Curi-us 2

she wants a car to save her walking the 5 miles to the shops ...i keep telling its nearer if she cuts across the fields as it will save time

2007-09-05 08:03:40 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it normal to take three years off from dating seriously after having heart smashed to bits. only have been going for casual hookups and flings.

2007-09-05 07:56:29 · 11 answers · asked by steveo 1

Hum,my stbx called last night becouse he wanted someone on the phone becouse his little slute girl's boyfriend got out of prison yesterday!!!!!! AND HE CALLED ME!!!!!!!!! I say let his *** get kicked!!!! I am I confused here or what???what is the deal?????

2007-09-05 07:56:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

girl and him twice every six months. do you think this is a good practicle idea?

2007-09-05 07:53:47 · 16 answers · asked by NEMESIS 3

I saw my ex and we were together for five years and i havent seen him in five because i re married but now i saw him all the old feeling came up is that normal i love my husband but i cant stop thinking about him

2007-09-05 07:52:04 · 26 answers · asked by A 1

If a guy and girl who really care and love for each other go through a difficult time - they have't seen or spoken to each other in a while, both kinda shy (usually depend on other people's comments because it's the shortcut rather than going to the person b/c of fear) - when people haven't had any contact with someone they've been involved with but still deeply care for each other, DOES IT BRING OUT INSECURITIES? the fact tha you don't know what's going on between you two (what you've been up to, who you might have been with) - does it get your crazy and insecure?

2007-09-05 07:50:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you girls gocrazy for them?

2007-09-05 07:47:14 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1

he just got marred to a 45yr old lady i dont think its fair if she can get it and what about if they buy a house can we claim it if he passes away

2007-09-05 07:44:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

now that there are so many partnerships and single mothers and so few Weddings to make up a registry..

2007-09-05 07:37:48 · 7 answers · asked by veg_rose 6

Wife mentally harasses her husband and her parents in law, ill treats them, almost all the times preparing food according to her wish, always behaves what her father says without having her own opinion, no respect for elders.

Even the Advocate said if husband approaches for divorce, he has to pay his wife, even when he at no FAULT!

2007-09-05 07:37:35 · 12 answers · asked by indian 1

Was she still attractive to you? Did you want to have sex with her still?

2007-09-05 07:35:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am living with a Swiss guy as of now. We are not married but we live together. We do not plan to some day marry ours is just a short time together. We both do not hope that one day we will end up being husband and wife. I do not want to be alone that is the reason why I accept this kind of relationship that I have now. I some how tried to look for a guy I love and who love me and is welling to have a serious relationship but I have not found one. I am 32 years old now, Filipina and in my situation I do not think I will find a soul mate. I am just born to be alone and to enjoy life for some time and to live the rest of my life in pain, sadness and loneliness.

2007-09-05 07:35:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is what the dictionary states: 1. to quit or leave entirely; abandon; desert , 2. to give up or renounce (a habit, way of life, etc.). What is your definition of the marraige vow, "forsaking all others"?

2007-09-05 07:19:26 · 9 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6

When you have a guy (who is very trusting) and when he gets to be with this girl, he CHANGED he gets a little (or tries not to get) jealous...esp. if the girl tells him all the guys that hit on her or that are interested

he's a shy guy, bloomed late in the love department, never had a girlfriend - this girl was a girl he's liked for a long time (a close friend) and she gave him his first kiss.

guys usually don't get jealous but i've heard that when they do, it's a sign they really love that girl and don't wanna lose her - true?

2007-09-05 07:19:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked a question about 15minutes ago if i shud get married you can go back and check....so this is the situation...I'm 20years old and she is 19.Im about to be a multi-millionare.I like her because she is very beautiful,honest,religous,and down to earth...she isnt a MUM or whateva u call them...We are both virgins.Ive never smoked,drinked,had a girlfriend never been on a date..she has had 1 BF but left him because he wanted to take that next step and wasnt serious and she told me she will only have sex with her husband...the thing is were both young and financially there will be no problem...we shudnt have any problems and drama right because the main reason forr drama,fighting and divorce in a marriage is money right?please let me know if i shud get married or not ever get married becasue since i was 16years old i told myself i will NEVER EVER get married but she has changed my mind...please let me know.thanks.

2007-09-05 07:17:58 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I have to go down to the local court house; tell them I want a divorce, then what happens? we have nothing to divide, it should be over pretty quick. I was just wondering what happens with the paper work, how long it takes in NJ etc.

2007-09-05 07:09:21 · 7 answers · asked by Jersey Style 5

I have been married for 5 1/2 years now & I love my husband to death but all we do is fight, fight, fight!! Over stupid things & i really don't think that things will get any better, I think all the time about leaving him & all of my friends know that I do not want to be there anymore, I try to find any reason to leave the house & not come home from work b/c I know that there will probably be a fight waiting when I get home. But everytime I get ready to leave him, I can not bring my self to leave!!! Why???? This has been going on for months, I will pack up all of my stuff & put it in the car but can not seem to back out of the drive way!!

We have a 5 year old but I know that she will always be in both of our lives so I know that is not what is keeping me there!!

I am only 24 years old & am so tired of crying everyday over this!

2007-09-05 07:06:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dose she have them because she can not can not sudafed buy a man? Ican belive the Toy's she has. All kinds of shapesand sizes.

2007-09-05 07:06:22 · 4 answers · asked by tadm 4

it is exciting to hear; then some wants me to ask every detail of her party single life. She is always bringing fun times up before we met ( parties, casual sex). Since I had very little of these experiances, it makes me feel like i've missed out. I'm newly divorced after boring long marriage. I'm sure its just insecurity on my part, but would like some advice on handling this topic when she brings it up about fun times earlier without me feeling like im asking more detail after detail?

2007-09-05 06:58:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous