I am living with a Swiss guy as of now. We are not married but we live together. We do not plan to some day marry ours is just a short time together. We both do not hope that one day we will end up being husband and wife. I do not want to be alone that is the reason why I accept this kind of relationship that I have now. I some how tried to look for a guy I love and who love me and is welling to have a serious relationship but I have not found one. I am 32 years old now, Filipina and in my situation I do not think I will find a soul mate. I am just born to be alone and to enjoy life for some time and to live the rest of my life in pain, sadness and loneliness.
2007-09-05 07:35:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kind of hard to find a man while your living with another isn't it?
2007-09-05 07:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by Douglas G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life should not start when you get married. I do believe in soul mates and that there is one out there for you. But beacause of your fear of being alone you get desperate and settle for less. You are not alone though, there are people out there that love you and although they cannot provide you with what a boyfriend does, it will help you temporarily. So try being alone for a while and try to find yourself. You are not going to find your soul mate being with this other guy. What if you where to find him? What are you going to say? "Well I like you but I'm living with someone right now." NO!!! You need to be right with yourself, think positive about your life and good things will come to you, whithout you even looking for him he will come. So remember, think positive thoughts about your life example(being lonely would actually be nice so I can get to know myself and have time for ME), positive thinking brings positive actions, and positive actions brings a positive life with positive people. Don't get desperate. You are young and he will come. Don't worry!!
2007-09-05 14:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by .:*eri*licious*:. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so worried about a soulmate if your already living with someone? And how the heck to you expect to find someone if your not even single. Maybe your're not where you're supposed to be, which would be alone, or do you plan on jumping from guy to guy so you're never "alone & lonely?" Sounds like its not the guys or lack of a soulmate that are making you that way, looks like it's the fact that you're not even happy with yourself... maybe you should worry about that and not a fantasy?
2007-09-05 14:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one i thought i was gonna b with past away...we were together for 7 yrs and we have a 5 yr old son...tell me about findin a soul mate...guess me being with someon wasnt in God's plan...huh? dont feel like ur the only lost soul in the world their are many others that feel like u in different situations...only time will tell..dont go lookin for it...let it find u...while ur kinda waiting for that love ..live life to the fullest ..enjoy it more...smile at the things around u laugh at the silliest stuff ..the more u enjoy life the more u are noticed and appreciated by good people...
2007-09-05 14:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by lil country gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 50% divorce rate indicates that there are not many if any soul mates out there
but since you are a Filipina, you stand a better than average chance
since Filipinas have lower rates of divorce and in fact are better and more beautiful women than most
2007-09-05 14:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok the term soul mate is usually applied to give assurance to those -who keep the only one out of their soul that can fill it and try and find a person to be their god.
Also no guy that would marry a lady would be interested in one living with another man with no regard to honor commitment and marriage.
You were born to live in honor either with someone in marriage or alone-in the mean time your being free milk -when he dont have to go out and pray a pro, or give honor to a princess to marry her for life.
your a princess and deserve the best
Hugs IN JESUS
A hug can be a wondrous thing,
When it's shared it's nice.
A hug can make you feel so good,
And has a low, low price.
A hug will help the feelings grow,
Of love and happiness.
A hug can mean more to a girl,
Than even a new dress.
A hug that's given out of love,
For lust need not be done.
The need to hold and be then held,
Is strong in a every one.
A hug to me is comfort now,
For all my hurts and ails.
It warms my heart and then my soul,
Of this it never fails.
So hug me dear, and hug me long,
And hug me all the day.
And hug me til the cows come home,
I thank you then I'll say.
okay you can have one... i am pretty sure if you have arms you can have a hug... but if youre asking permission yes ..
'HUG'
that feel better??... im not gunna write you a poem or any of the other stuff other people did... ill jus say if youre into songwriting write your feelings on a page and make a song... its my own kind of hug
hope this helps
sweet p
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nO! THERE IS BETTER THAN A HUG-HUGGLES!good
first relax
then get some help from above and you will have the directions you need=a ray of hope too=EVERYDAY SURVIVAL KIT!!!
ToothpickRubberband
Band Aid Pencil
Eraser Chewing Gum
Mint Candy kissMuah
Tea Bag HERESWHY . Toothpick -- to remind you to pick out the good qualities in others. (Matt 7:1)
Rubberband -- to remind you to be flexible, things might not always go the way you want, but it will work out. (Romans 8:28)
Band Aid -- to remind you to heal hurt feelings... yours or someone else's. (Col. 3:12-14)
Pencil -- to remind you to list your blessings everyday. (Eph 1:3)
Eraser -- to remind you that everyone makes mistakes, and its okay.
(Gen. 50:15-21)
Chewing Gum-- to remind you to stick with it and you can accomplish anything. (Phil. 4:13)
Mint -- to remind you that you are worth a mint to your heavenly father. (John 3:16-17)
Candy Kiss -- to remind you that everyone needs a kiss or a hug everyday. (1 John 4:7)
Tea Bag -- to remind you to relax daily and to think about God's Blessings. (1 Thess 5:18)
This is my gift to you. JESUS LOVES YOU -- don't ever forget it.
To the world, you may just be somebody... but to somebody, you may be the world.
old enought to understand sin and let Jesus into their heart to be their friend, amen John 3 & Revelation 3:19&20 " I love you and knock on your heart door to come in deliver from sin -even one lie, if you ask forgiveness and let me in to be your friend."
Send this to anyone who you think needs to know that they are loved by someone in their lives. Make someone's day just a little brighter today!
prayin for you too with this problem.
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wow! awesome answer!
best wishes for you in this situation too
these are a few lol things he may chose to fight with you about
Things We Do To Drive Men Crazy!!
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1. Do not say what we mean. Ever.
2. Be ambiguous. Always.
3 NOT FINISH THE LIST
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Excellent, I do believe your advice was the best, or at least the most fun.
Praying for you and all the best too, David the sweet pea
2007-09-05 14:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah I think mine died or something. Trust me marriage is not the answer. I thought it was and now I'm headed straight down the divorce road and it's the most painful, devestating thing that has ever happened in my life. Just enjoy your time alone with your friends and believe me you dont need to be married to be happy.
2007-09-05 14:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you think things are bad when you not in a marriage. But then you get hitched and find out there is a whole other set of problems.
2007-09-05 14:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found your soulmate yet...besides, living with a man is a HUGE deterrent to other guys.
2007-09-05 14:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off..your shacked with some dude.....kind of hard to get another with that going on too. get shed of him and you'll have a better chance to find someone......then change your attitude about yourself and be more positive about it. then and only then...call me.
2007-09-05 14:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋