Marriage & Divorce - 5 September 2007

What do you think is the appropriate time for a person to enter into a relationship? why? and do u believe that sex should be involved in a relationship without the foundation of marriage? why? why not?

2007-09-05 01:57:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm the man.. and she's perfect despite what I need from emotional stuff and desires.

2007-09-05 01:50:50 · 3 answers · asked by amiRanoZz..! 1

My husband and I were married for a short while before he was sent off to prison for 4 years. Now he has been out for a few weeks. He is adapting pretty good, he has already found a job and wants to do better this time.
My problem is that as his wife, I know he is having some psychological issues, but I dont know how to deal with him. How can I help to "re-build" his self esteem without hurting his feelings or insulting his manhood.
Can someone please tell me how to deal with this, I am becoming very stressed, because I feel that I need to be there for him.

2007-09-05 01:47:19 · 19 answers · asked by Peanut2007 2

My friend recently got married after she found out she was expecting their first child! Her now husband is filthy rich, its been 9 months after the couple big church wedding! and I cant seem to find their state marriage licenses on file! She would never admit to me! but is it possible to have a church wedding ceremony infront of a priest, and never file for a marriage licenses in the state??? I guess they are married infront of God, not infront of the Government! they are married, but maybe not legally???. . . Maybe it was his way of having a wife in the public eye, but keeping his money!

2007-09-05 01:36:59 · 9 answers · asked by Tam 1

2007-09-05 00:39:45 · 3 answers · asked by carol k 1

Even we had sex during morost fertile days...

2007-09-05 00:32:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 00:32:03 · 37 answers · asked by gajjet87 1

I have written before about my wife of thirty years, who abruptly threw me out, although very, very calmly. It had something to do with extreme delays in my *!!* doctoral thesis (now a shambles). I am surrounded by couples breaking up at about the same stage in life: after twenty or thirty years, the wife calmly announces (among the standard lines that came up in EVERY case I know) that

a) she wants to do something else with her life (something, hum, creative);
b) he decision has nothing to do with him (he must not feel so important...), it all proceeds from a deep evolutionary change inside her.

I am devastated. It has been nine months now, and she NEVER calls, and has forbidden me to discuss reconciliation.

One fellow tells me that 'they' (the jilting wives) usually come back after a while (his took two or three years; he refused her). I am at the end of my rope.

Does anyone out there know of just one example of a marriage that healed after the wife had broken it up in this way?

2007-09-05 00:31:10 · 12 answers · asked by hindisikhnewaalaa 5

My litlle cousin he is three my baby daughter is 10 months he was playing with his toys at his house and she wanted to play with a couple of toys he wasn't using.He was pissed and said "NO"!Then he came over and started playing with her toys.I asked him if my daughter could play with his toys at his house if this was the case,He said no.Is it wrong for me tonot let him play with her toys?

2007-09-05 00:22:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 00:16:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean in terms of the other partner's attitude, feelings, responsibility, cheating, parental duties, etc. What is you expect from your boyfriend which you don't from your future husband and vice versa. Is a husband conceptually different from a boyfriend (except in legislative affairs)?

2007-09-05 00:05:44 · 10 answers · asked by Copol 1

When I was divorced in 1989, I grabbed the "bull by the horns" so to speak and went to college, graduated with a nursing degree and have worked full time to raise 2 kids for the last 13 yrs. My ex did not pay child support or help me.
Now I date a 54 yr old man who has a daughter who literally sits on her rear end, doesnt work, can never pay her bills, mooches off her dad and thinks she has the authority as his daughter to treat me like a dog. I stand up for myself unequivacably and refuse to let this 25 yr old mooching, unable to pay her bills, never worked a full time job in her life kind of nobody treat me bad. She talks to her dad like I am a dog and has never been successful at anything except pregnancy and sitting on her rear and letting other people supervise her children.
Am I being sensible or should I let it go? I dont intend to marry him, but I do intend to stick up for myself and what I have accomplished in life. No one especially not her is going to treat me bad.

2007-09-05 00:03:08 · 20 answers · asked by happydawg 6

We are married fro 6months now. Ours si a love marriage. He lied for everything and cheated me.He gave me nothing from time of marriage.He showed me imaginary married life and world to me before marrying me.He doesnt earn he has no home so My parents supported us and gave a home to live. I am from very rich and high class family with masters in education. I started working also and he takes all my money and spends it of.He has never given me anything but knows how to take it from me. He made me sell my gold and ask money from my parents all the time coz i love him.He smokes, watches blue films, tv and playing cards and snookers on yahoo.he enjoys his life. He slaps me on my face if I argue.I love him and I am suffering. His family left him never supported him financially also at time we got married. My parents are my strenght.But now he is cheating and lying to me and meeting his family and giving them my money if they ask.Which is not accepted by me. Please advice.

2007-09-05 00:01:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Divorced for 2 months. Haven't seen her. Been together for 10 years before that. I am a recovering addict. I went to rehab when she divorced me. We love each other. That's not in question. She wanted me to be responsible. She wants children. I've been sober 40 days. I know that's not long. I don't expect her to trust me right now. I'm Not trying to jump back into a relationship. I just want her to see me trying. Her family is a problem. I understand their feelings. I don't blame them. I have a good job. I don't want to know whether I should try to get her back. I already know that I'm going to try. I'm willing to do whatever it takes and wait. I'm patient and I love her. I just want a unique way to make first contact. I don't want to seem like I'm coming on too strong, but I do want her to know that I still love her and want her to see the actions I'm taking to make myself a better person and someone who can meet her needs and start a family. What should I do to get her attention?

2007-09-05 00:00:39 · 3 answers · asked by B. Nowlin 2