We are married fro 6months now. Ours si a love marriage. He lied for everything and cheated me.He gave me nothing from time of marriage.He showed me imaginary married life and world to me before marrying me.He doesnt earn he has no home so My parents supported us and gave a home to live. I am from very rich and high class family with masters in education. I started working also and he takes all my money and spends it of.He has never given me anything but knows how to take it from me. He made me sell my gold and ask money from my parents all the time coz i love him.He smokes, watches blue films, tv and playing cards and snookers on yahoo.he enjoys his life. He slaps me on my face if I argue.I love him and I am suffering. His family left him never supported him financially also at time we got married. My parents are my strenght.But now he is cheating and lying to me and meeting his family and giving them my money if they ask.Which is not accepted by me. Please advice.
2007-09-05 00:01:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
O MY GOD how can u spend days with such person i mean fine u love but in all your writing u never said whther he loves u or not plz get rid of him if i was in your place i would have filed a case against him wake love has made u blind open your eyes and see what is reality
2007-09-05 00:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by S S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce Him... Your Marriage Is Based On A Lie. He Does Nothing The Bible Says Is Expected of A Husband And He Beats On You... Kick Him To The Curb With Just The Clothes On His Back Since He Doesn't Have Anything.
2007-09-05 00:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Ello♥Vee♥E♥ says Shut Up, Take Notes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should divorce him and then get yourself into counseling. He's a lazy, good-for-nothing freeloader who is using you for your money. It is NEVER EVER okay to hit your spouse and you should kick him out of your parents' house NOW. It sounds like you're lucky enough to have a good support system and don't even need him to be happy. you're better off without him and he's a fool for cheating on you and treating you poorly. He seems to think that once you got married, that you would be stuck with him but that's not the case. Get an annulment if it's only been 6 months.
2016-05-17 07:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by ashli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you.
You are better off without him, and you can find a man who will love YOU and not your money. There is never a reason for abuse in a relationship. If he is slapping you after only 6 months of marriage... imagine what he will be doing to you in a couple years.
Get away.
2007-09-05 00:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you love him...Leave his sorry ass. He is hurting and disrespecting you. I don't know you but you sound like a nice person and you don't derserve that kind of treatment. It also sounds like he abuses you by hitting you...that is not the kind of life to lead....There is always someone better than that out there for you. If you need help getting away look into domestic violence shelters and they will help and protect you. Good luck and may God be with you always!
2007-09-05 00:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by shannonskinner24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take responsibility for enabling this behavior. Stop giving him money and if he abuses you leave him. This doesnt sound like a very loving marriage, actually not much of a marriage at all. You need to do the adult thing and take responsibility for your part in this.
2007-09-05 00:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce, it seems he married you for your riches. He is using, and will continue to as long as you let him. Besides that, once a man lays a hand on you to intentionally hurt, it won't be the last. GET OUT before it gets worst.
2007-09-05 00:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sahara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, wake up plz, love make a lover blind, open your eyes and divorce him. I have a problem with my wife too but here in our country if I divorce her, she will fall down, so I can't divorce her. But if you can help yourself and be free and happy for the rest of your life.
hope you a very happy life
2007-09-05 00:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce.
2007-09-05 00:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by Divalicious Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being seriously used. This guy is a leech. He will not change. How you can love him when all he does is take from you, lie to you and hit you is scary. Cut him out of your life now.
2007-09-05 02:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by MickyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋