Marriage & Divorce - 2 September 2007

2007-09-02 23:43:29 · 4 answers · asked by janifer d 1

Can he get his first marraige dissolved and get his second marraige a valid status. Then please let me know how fast can he get his first marriage dissolved and also the rights of the child born out of second marriage.

2007-09-02 21:56:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-02 21:51:19 · 33 answers · asked by Faith Walker 4

i'm in this situation where we were close friends that fell hard for each other (decided not to rush) but alot of "life" things happened and he pushed me away and it hurt me. Rumors/assumptions, people's ideas got the best of us and the last we spoke, we misunderstood each other and we haven't talked in a month. I want to clarify things and reassure him and hope things are okay so i wrote him a letter. I felt that w. the letter, i had a good chance of putting it out there b/c if we were to talk we would get our emotions to get the best of us, esp. since we haven't talked/seen in each other in months...
i'm the type of girl that feels that if we need to talk about it, then we should...when both side are COMPLETLY okay about it, then it's good and we should NEVER BRING IT UP AGAIN...

I told him the truth in the letter but didn't blame him or give excuses - i told him, "you hurt me when..." and told him the truth that i cared about him...I read the letter again tonight and i found some "misunderstanding errors" so i felt i had to talk to him about it before something else happens...it's been about 3-4 days so i txted him tonight to say, "what's up" and he never responded back...is he done with me and doesn't wanna be friends anymore?

2007-09-02 20:43:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-02 20:20:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-02 20:10:57 · 27 answers · asked by Rakas 1

My in-laws want carte blanch on having my son spend the night. The problem is, no one tells ME until effing 10-11PM if that. I think my husband is going to get our son and he's spending the night. I told my husband how I feel and he just keep quiet. This is really making me mad because my mother in law also keeps her other grandson who she expects ME to baby sit one day. I don't want to do that. I want to keep MY OWN CHILDREN! Is there something wrong with me? Any suggestions? BTW, my son is only 18 months old!

2007-09-02 20:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by Sky Fire 2

is 35 and has been married 6 times and says it's all the other person's fault, not thiers. And stupid people keep marrying this person? Is it narcissism?

2007-09-02 19:49:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubbys x is a real peice of work. She has done some awful things in the past like lying to try and get us put in jail and fired she threatened my daughter. Well every thing has been quiet or so we thought But today I found out different. The kids come home and the girl failed everything she did at school last week I asked her if anyone helped her she said no. Well the boy missed alot of assighments and the x wrote the teacher a note saying she'd like to met with her because he was having trouble at his dads and school. I asked him mom about it and she snapped at me and said it was between him and her. His mother has been staying at her house keeping the kids for her. That was suppose to be a secret to. What do you think. What would you do. My hubby feels his x is stabbing him in the back and his mom is helping.

2007-09-02 19:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by lyttledarlin 4

... but only want to seriously date model types?

2007-09-02 19:08:07 · 21 answers · asked by What? 1

My husband just told me today that when his friend gets married he is going to attend the wedding along. He said the ticket price to fly is $1,100.00 and since I don't know his friend that well he just wants to go alone. The thing is I do know his friend, maybe not as good as him but he was my husbands roommate for a year that we dated. He was also in our wedding 3 years ago. I feel so hurt knowing that my husband does not want me to go with him. I feel like husbands should bring there wifes to wedding no matter how well they know the person getting married. Do you think my husband is justified for saying he is going alone?

2007-09-02 19:07:55 · 67 answers · asked by dohm84 4

DH and I were talking about life after the military(he's deployed) and he brought up moving to AZ. I asked why we'd do that. He said he had a friend who we could live with down there. I told him I'm not going to live with somebody.

DH wants to get out and us go to FT college and live with whoever offers. I'm not going to raise a child while mooching off people. At least one of us has to work and we can do nightschool/weekend classes. And we need to get our own place.

He doesn't want a mortgage at all as he put it tonight. He wants to own a house but doesn't want a mortgage? I hope somebody rich really likes us when they die.

Before we got married we talked about family and he was ok with the fact I wanted a big family and live near my folks.

He's DECIDED we'll wait 5yrs for another kid and NOW we are living with people until we have saved up enough to straight out buy a house.

I told him he wasn't making any FINAL decisions and he got mad and hung up................

2007-09-02 19:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did not know he set the speargun on the side of my raft, I was laying on my stomach facing forward and i took off down stream and he never said a word about his speargun being in a compromised position. I was never aware it was even there. I stop down stream and he comes up a little while later asking where his speargun was. I said I had no idea it had ever been there, he proceeded to scream at me the whole rest of the trip saying i was responsible for his speargun falling off the raft. I am upset because he failed to mention it at all.I do not believe it is my fault at all. he keeps saying i should be more aware of my surroundings what do you think?

2007-09-02 18:46:21 · 4 answers · asked by sweetpea 3

His corporation which is under his mother's name nets millions/year. For years he had me on a weekly cash budget with no access to any accts or c/cs. He said he'd give me an amound in cash to end the marriage, in June. The last 2 months, I've used the speratic cash amounts to start a new business. We each leased a seperate home in August. That's when he stopped giving me the remaining of what he calls a settlement agreement.
He wanted a form signed by me previous attorney that he is no longer my attorney, before giving me any additional funds. I gave him that. Still no money.
He wanted me to sign WHAT HE CALLED A PIECE OF PAPER THAT outlined the verbal settlement, before giving me more money. At this point I have $0. When I met him to sign that paper in order to get a check, he had 40 pages of divorce papers, obviously prepared by a very shrude lawyer. He was holding the check in the other hand. I signed. Do the papers hold up in a court of law?

2007-09-02 18:41:01 · 5 answers · asked by bluegarden 1

My husband was married before for 7 years although for the last 3 years before they got divorced they weren't actually together. He was her third husband and she had kids by them, she never had any with my husband.
He was in the Army and will be entitled to a pension when he turns 60 and he is under the impression that she will be entitled to some of this. Is this right? Why should she? I'm his wife now so shouldn't I share it with him?
I could understand if they had kids together that they should be entitled to some but there is nothing that connects them now apart from the fact that she still uses his name which I find annoying too.
What if she were to remarry? Surely she wouldn't be entitled to any then.
My husband doesn't turn 60 for a long time but i just want to be sure of the facts before then!

2007-09-02 18:35:03 · 10 answers · asked by ChocLover 7

2007-09-02 18:30:13 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband's daughter is rude and demanding with my husband she is thirteen yrs old and blames me for notspending time with him I don't think is about time with him is the fact that he's now married to me and doesn't get the money that he used to spend on only her I am pregnant and we just can't provide the life style she wasb used to. yesterday she said she was going to kill herself and that she hates him . my husband cried on my shoulder and was all sad all day.today she is been all nice like nothing happen and he is ok with that he talks to her too. I am in the middle I am upset at her for hurting my husband how cani put on a happpy face at her after what she done

2007-09-02 18:27:46 · 12 answers · asked by Ortega'swife 1

2007-09-02 18:15:06 · 4 answers · asked by da da 1

2007-09-02 17:52:44 · 11 answers · asked by mindy w 2

A big old black man named BUCK. She works in a hospital. She said he had a back injury and needs round the clock medical care, yet he doesnt have any insurance thus she brought him home so she could take care of him. She is telling me that i must sleep out in the garage, so he can have our bed as he needs a regular bed to sleep in due to his bad back. She sleeps in the same room with him so she can massage his back as needed at night.
My friends and family say im being used like a sucker. I dont think so. I think my wife is just a very good hearted person. What do you think?

2007-09-02 17:39:43 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hadnt spoke to him in about 3 months but he calls me to tell me about his wreck.Its other drivers fault. we dated 6 years and then split up. I have known him for at least 15 years.When he called I said I would visit him.He had to have surgery he wanted to make amends with me so we talked alot then after that I went to check on him and he lives alone but his 65 year old mother lives across the street and she checks on him alot but I became worried when I realized he was in constant pain and the meds made him groggy so his mom started doling out the meds to make sure he didnt OD but sometimes she would forget and give him his meds hours late by which time he was in horrid pain and crying so Ive used a system so they write it down and Ive started being there every day so I could make sure he gets them and of course I cook and clean for an hour a day there and try to visit with him and I love him but not like b4.The very day he called a guy from work asked me out .Can I date now? ? ?

2007-09-02 17:27:25 · 13 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5

hi everyone,

I've been married for over 3 years now. I married the guy for the wrong reasons. (married him because i told everyone here that im going to europe to get married..when i got there i didnt really like him, got married and i think i kinda fell in love with him).

He came to canada and things started to change. His attitude wasnt the same. love making was once in a blue moon. after w few months i fell into temptation and cheated on him. i was very honest and told him anyway. i cheated on him because i didnt feel like he loved me like he use to and sex was not an option often. im the only person his ever slept with so thats kinda special but hard at the same time.

Currently we have a 1 yr old child. Havent made love in a long time and im afraid of cheating on him again. I have told him this and his not doing anything about it. dont want to get a divorce because of the baby ...but i want to be happy WHAT DO I DO. we argue often..and tried councelling.

2007-09-02 17:26:19 · 18 answers · asked by isabella S 1

I recently left my husband of 7 years because I heard him talking intimately to another woman over his phone. He claims that they have only been flirting but won't let me talk to her. I just think that if he was innocent he would do anything to regain my trust, but he is still being very secretive. We have a 6 year old son together, and I just don't want to be making the biggest mistake of our lives. Should I call her? Please help.

2007-09-02 17:23:55 · 27 answers · asked by Monique 2

My husband used to beat me. He stopped doing that one year ago, when I decided to tell my dad what he was doing to me. Now we are moving further away from my family, and they keep saying he might do that again... Should I be scared?

2007-09-02 17:23:08 · 12 answers · asked by LLN Babe 1

My wife seems to have put on some weight rather rapidly over the last few months (maybe +20 lbs) and it really kind of worries me. I know any kind of rapid weight change, up or down, is not good. I also know for sure there's almost no polite way to tell a woman she's getting big, learned that the hard way. Not sure what to do about this. She seems healthy enough otherwise. I just don't know how to tell her I'm concerned. I would greatly appreciate some incite with this. Thanks.

2007-09-02 17:11:09 · 22 answers · asked by Nathan M 1

33 years old and my wife is 35. No kids and not interested. Married 4 years in November, been together/cohabitating for closer to 10. I've been struggling of thoughts that we are in a marriage of convenience. Sex life is virtually nonexistent, and not for lack of my trying. I am a very caring and attentive lover and ensure she is blessed with an orgasm during each intimate encounter. I have not cheated, but based on the quality of life I am living as a man that status is subject to change.
Many things have changed since we got married. I was always fat, hitting rock bottom on our wedding day. I've went from 6'0 260lbs to 175lbs and am in the best shape of my life. She is 5'5 185 and has opted not to improve herself since we got married, although she has all the tools to do so including my support. I think we got married for wrong reasons. I get looks/vibes from women now I never have before. It's not fair to trade my future happiness for the "sanctity" of marriage.

2007-09-02 17:09:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok.
Im in the process of a divorce - we were married 7 years - and have a 6 1/2 year old son.
The reasons for the breakup were financial difficulties, poor communication - but mainly her infidelity.
For a while things were pretty bad between us - but I decided to just try to remain as civil as possible with her for the sake of our son. So far its been ok.
When I deal with her face to face - in regards to our son - I just get this very uncomfortable feeling inside me . She's friendly but very business-like, in terms of "ok this week you will have him, this is your share of the school expense for our son etc.. "
Its like she's become a completely different person. The fact that she cheated on me and lied about it - still really eats me up inside .
But I try my best to just let it go - to avoid an argument. Not easy.
I hate how her actions has destroyed our marriage - and denied our son a stable family unit.
Has anyone else felt the same way as I do?

2007-09-02 16:59:08 · 10 answers · asked by Cardinal64 2

2007-09-02 16:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by sweetheart_27 1

9 years ago my husband and I got married. I was 17 he was 18. We couldn't afford rings so my mother-in-law bought us some cheap rings to wear at the wedding. For the past 2 years or so I have developed an allergy to my ring. I can't wear anything but 14 caret gold or better. I've told my husband that I would like to have a new wedding ring. Nothing expensive but something I can wear without my finger hurting. He is refusing to buy me one. It makes me mad because he never bought me one in the first place, he didn't even go to help pick them out. I picked out his and paid for it 9 years ago. But he thinks because he doesn't wear his ( due to his job ) that I shouldn't have one either. Am I being unfair by wanting one that I can wear or should I just not wear one?

2007-09-02 16:41:51 · 21 answers · asked by tenthriteen 1

Im currently twenty years old, and I talked to my girlfriend what she thinks about marriage. She basically told me she wants to hold a full time job, and that getting pregnant is not something she wants to do. She is pursuing a law degree, and she says she wants to be the best lawyer, and if her husband can't understand that she might leave him. To be honest my jaw kind of fell down. I want exactly the opposite of what she is looking for. I do like women who can hold on their own financially, but I want a wife that also wants to have a child, raise that child with me, and not put work over family. My mom is a stay at home woman, and my dad is the one that supports the family. So, I haven't exactly seen my plan in action. Anybody have inputs about full time working women?

2007-09-02 16:04:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous