... but only want to seriously date model types?
2007-09-02 19:08:07 · 21 answers · asked by What? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure, nothing wrong with that
2007-09-02 19:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband had a normal woman at home (me--size 10) while sleeping with women between a size 18 and 32 on his time off. When he left me I was 2 sizes bigger (a 14) and he has done nothing other than point out how small his new wife is (she's 5'9 and 120#).
From a psychological standpoint, you are attracted to women with curves, but find yourself wanting to date women more socially acceptable, ie skinny women. My ex was the same way. The only reason his current wife is acceptable to his desires is that she is totally skinny, flat chested and bony on her upper half but she has a wide, bubble butt *** on her lower half. The only reason I have an issue with this is on her myspace account she has something she posted on MY birthday (and yes, she knew it was my birthday) that 'fat chicks give better head because they're hungry'. The thing is, it was my ex who said things about head, not me, and it was just mean that she did that, knowing I would see it.
You need to decide what it is that you want. Do you want to date model types because it is 'accepted'? Do you fantasize about 'larger' women because you find them sexier? Do you mean larger by 14+ or larger by 6+???? These are things you need to ask yourself.
2007-09-03 02:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by navy_brat913 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be denying your true preference. Or this could be another form of stereotyping. The media puts this image out there that larger women are sooo desperate, therefore, overly sexual. Maybe you should try to date a BBW. You won't know how you truly feel unless you try. If your too afraid to try, theres your answer. YOu could be dating models because it's considered acceptable..
2007-09-03 02:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank God there are men like you.A large lover is a good lover. They are kind and considerate and let you be a man.They are soft and cuddly and make good wives. So, why do you date the model types?Go with your fantasy,and give a large chick a chance. There are alot of beautiful girls waiting to meet there prince.So, shine up your armour and get going.
2007-09-03 02:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you lying to yourself? You care so much about what others think of you that you will date women that don't do it for you? Be real with yourself. If you love the bigger ladies, then really love them.
2007-09-03 02:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by jill48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ...your real attraction is not for what you are dating, probably because it embarrasses you....but some cultures especially like woman that are bigger...it is more a cultural thing.
So why don't you just date the one that attracts you?
2007-09-03 02:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by samantha 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's normal to have fanatsies. you dont have to want to date someone, in order to fantasize about them. sometimes people have fantasies that they never even pursue...it's up to you to do what your heart tells you
2007-09-03 02:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by made it to the top 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal to fantasize
2007-09-03 02:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by Drippn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the only thing you really need to be "gettin on" is your clothes. you dont need to fantisize that crap about anyone but your wife, which it sounds like you dont have. so get your mind out of the flippen gutter.
2007-09-03 02:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by simple stuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. Most of my fantasies I would never wish to actually fulfill. For me it's more thrilling to not act on them. : )
2007-09-03 02:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋