Marriage & Divorce - 1 September 2007

My husband and I have been married for less than a month. before that, my biggest hobby was chatting on the net and now he has told me he does not want me to do so because he feels it distracts my attention and he wants all my attention to himself. At the moment we are living apart for special circumstances and sometimes when I am really bored I am tempted to go online and chat again. what can I do?

2007-09-01 23:54:44 · 7 answers · asked by honey 1

Do you follow arranged marriage system, yourself? If yes, then will you choose one amongst a set of men whom your parents recommend you - or do you blindly obey and agree to marry only the person your parents have decided for you?

2007-09-01 23:53:42 · 11 answers · asked by jazzman 1

what are the necassary documents to get married. not a religious wedding just a regitery marriage.
is a birth certificate necassary?
or is a british passport enough proof?

2007-09-01 23:13:46 · 5 answers · asked by jaya 2

i get really mad they butt in all the time think they know it all should i open my mouth and give em it or should i sit back and take it like i have for the last 6 years any ones advice would be great

2007-09-01 23:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by gemma 2

My husband of 19 years has left me. All of our married life he as enjoyed all porno (this does not bother me) The last 5-7 years a fascination of men dressing as women having sex with other men has escalated to obsession (often 6-8 hours of internet time). I have been very sick for 1.5 years and I regretfully say we have not been intimate, even though I feel like I have tried. He gave me notice he was leaving (2 weeks) but no explanation. Heartbroken, I know I will heal and I love him so much I want him to happy (whether its with me or not). But no explanation was given. But my question is: Is he gay, bi-sexual, midlife crisis (60 yrs). my declining health. I'm just trying to understand. Thank for any & all input

2007-09-01 22:08:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHEN ALL THIS IF PROVE IT PLS GO TO THINK WT IS THE PANSHMENT THERE OF THIS CRIME?

2007-09-01 22:01:07 · 10 answers · asked by only kewal 4

I mean seriously, they always talk about how guys go around and have sex with all the girls and people think it's ok but when a girl goes and fools around with a couple of guys people think it's disgraceful. i wouldn't fool around with heaps of guys but I think if it's ok for guys to, we should b able to too. And they talk about how important a female's virginity is and they should save it for the guy they marry but yet the guy doesn't have to save his virginity for the girl he marries. I think it's stupid!!!!!!!

2007-09-01 21:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by chelly 2

Ok, me and my gf got together about 6 months ago. We are engaged, and she was about 2 months pregnant when we got together. Her ex (the biological father) is trying to get shared custody when it is born, but we don't want to give it to him. If he was a good guy, we would be glad to, however that is not the case. He stocked us when we first got together, he is immature, an alcoholic, and tried forcing us to break up, and forcing her to go back to him on more than one ocasion. My question is: should we still give him shared custody or should we fight for full custody? (We are getting maried next week.) Either way, she wants him to pay child support.

2007-09-01 20:58:13 · 8 answers · asked by crashedata 2

are there such tests online? or some way to check myself.

2007-09-01 19:48:54 · 7 answers · asked by abeer 2

i want a divorce because i am sick and tired of my husband he cheated on me when my babys are five months old and they are now six years old. i stayed with him all this years because my family told me to stay for the sake of my children. but sinced then everything is not the same anymore i lost my trust and love and i suffer everyday.he does'nt even know how to help me with the kids although i know he tried but only for awhile cause he got tired of the kids so easily so i ended up doing the things what he supposed to do. i know he loves our kids and so do i. i will never leave my kids to him cause his got bad temper and does'nt know how to take care of them.financially we are stable. kids goes to a private school. my question is how can i get a divorce while we are here in asia? and my kids are back in school now.please help i'm really going crazy here! were american.

2007-09-01 19:38:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He feels like he cant take care of me any longer. Even so, he cant look after himseft

2007-09-01 19:27:31 · 10 answers · asked by linda t 1

I am married and was asked out by another married man for a date. I agreed to go our with him and we ended up kissing. I am really glad I kissed him and I dont feel bad or have any regrets. We have no intentions of a relationship, we just went out for some fun.
Was it bad of me to go out with this guy? Y dont I feel guilty? Now I feel like I want more kisses from him. Could this get me into trouble?

2007-09-01 19:19:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone besides me think that this is strange?

2007-09-01 19:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my wife are seperated after 17 yrs of marriage since 3 years. We have 2 sons and they are with her. She is too free spirited. My sons are suffering the insecurity of not having a father living with them. I am lonely and I miss them too much.

2007-09-01 18:51:46 · 12 answers · asked by Pinto777 2

If a married couple that have a child are separated, do they have to divorce first for custody to be granted? Also, if the mother doesn't have a job but goes to college and lives with her parents and plans on seeking employment (only part-time so that she can still attend college) and the father has a full time job, not making very much, but still a job and lives with family also will the father be granted custody just because the mother has no income? If the two parents don't have to be divorced first, and can proceed with the custody hearing, about how much will it cost to get custody of the child (or try to) in Georgia?

2007-09-01 18:44:31 · 11 answers · asked by amber_nicolaa 2

Okay so I came home from work a few days ago and my boyfriend of 7 years (and the father of my daughter) casually tells me that one of his ex girlfriends found him on myspace. He went on to tell me that shes married and has a child. I was okay with that, a little bothered by it but no big deal. I went on myspace to check her out and it seems that this girl is a ****, she may be a mother but she is a ****. Her default picture is a picture of her *** wearing a pink thong and white fishnet stockings. Her friends list is filled with all diffrent types of men telling her how good she looks. Well, let me tell you... I flipped out! He told me he needs friends and wants to know what she has been up to he wants to know how her life turned out.
I was really upset I gave him a bad attitude cursed him out and He left. I sent all types of hate messages to him and I told him I dont want nothing to do with him if hes gonna talk to her.
Turns out he deleted his my space page so i assume he's not talking to her but he's not talking to me either I havent heard from him all day. Yesterday he said he doesnt want to be bothered with me and im psycho.
I wish he understood that I flipped out because it hurt that he was intrested in her. I tried to apologize but he wont accept it.
I know I may have over reacted but do I deserve to be ignored by him?
Im just really confussed. I havent spoke with him in over 24 hours. Was I that wrong??

2007-09-01 18:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

To those who have been there....did you feel sad/angry/weird/happy/nonchalant? I know I'm not sad or angry....but it feels kind of odd. I'm kind of happy for them, but it's just.....weird. They've been together just over a year (and yes, they met AFTER the divorce, lol), we've been apart almost 3 years after 12 years together. I just feel kind of off kilter....and at the same time I'm looking for baby gifts, lol.

He always wanted more kids, and she's always been open for more, so I'm not surprised, but I just feel so weird about it.

To those of you who have had a long time spouse or partner with whom you have a child get another person (even another spouse) pregnant, how did you feel about it? Is it normal to feel somewhere between happy and weird???

What I feel more than anything is hope that he is better to her after the baby is born than he was to me after our child was born. He is 10 yrs older and I hope he is wiser, lol.

2007-09-01 18:18:28 · 8 answers · asked by navy_brat913 2

If a relationship or the girl is too good to be true

BUT

if the timing sucks or everything just seems "perfect" (even though there's no drama), would guys freak out and get overwhelmed??

someone answered, "yeah. it happens. if your what hes been looking for his whole life and you show up he wo nt know how to handle it. " ELABORATE - is this true?

2007-09-01 18:13:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It always seems that just after meeting someone and starting a relationship they are perfect, the one, everything you've wanted, etc... then you find out qwirks and how they really are. I know it varies, just wondering about different one's personal experience. thanks

2007-09-01 17:54:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

real love comes within your heart, and marriage comes by legal signed documental papers stating commitment, I son't understand that ritual

2007-09-01 17:51:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

In Dehli, India, on the basis of a TV channel sting operation Uma Khurana, a married school teacher was arrested under the provisions of THE IMMORAL TRAFFIC (PREVENTION) ACT for indulging in sex racket & engaging young school girls or school pass out girls for prostitution. She has a businessman husband & two children. She has failed to get any lawyer to defend her, & none of her kin’s came for her defense. She has not only brought the womanhood but even the noble profession of teaching in shame. After this case against her is over, if she is found guilty & had served the punishment for her offence under the relevant provisions of law how she will face her husband & specially her children? What the women in general think about her act & what severe punishment she deserve for her act, not from legal point of view but from their own prospective what they suggest should be done in her case. My wife had suggested she should be hanged till dead. What you ladies think about this?

2007-09-01 17:48:56 · 24 answers · asked by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7

2007-09-01 17:04:56 · 13 answers · asked by JustWondering 1

Ok, where do I begin?!? I have been married to my husband for 13 years. We have had alot of problems. He just recently left me during my pregnancy for an 18 year old. I had the baby on my own and he wanted to come back. I took him back and he has changed alot. I just got alot of info from the girl that he was with and it was more than he described it to be. I have confronted him with this and he tells me that I deserve it. I did have a relationship with one of our friends when he had left me before. We were not together. We seem to be going in circles with this. I want to know if the feelings of leaving this marriage worth it., or should I put the past in the past and move forward?!?
Thanks for all the help, and please no bad comments about what I did--guys!

2007-09-01 16:58:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need help on getting a divorce. he has told me to move. i am not financial able. he does not want to give me anything. i nwill be broke and homeless. No car etc. He says he will not pay a dime even if a court makes him. I can not find or afford a lawyer. I wnt alimony.medical,his retirement,sell of home,life insurances,social security. any lottery winnings,then and future. he plays faithfully.

2007-09-01 16:55:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is one of the most beautiful women that i have ever met and i love her to death. She had a baby nearly 30 months ago and still dawns a lil baby fat. Now shes really not out of shape but she like 10-15lbs over where SHE wants to be (tho you couldnt tell if you saw). Shes really sensitive and self conscious about it and i dont want to upset her nor do i want to seem like im displeased wit da way she look eitha. But i do want her to be happy and i believe dat if she loses da weight than she wont be as self concious about her body and overall more confident. Da truth be told, im content wit where she at but i can see dat she doesnt exactly feel as sexy as she really is,regardless of how much i tell her. She thinks im just sayin dat becus dats what i think she wanna hear. I do feel dat she wants me to actually come out and say "i want you to lose weight" but im not sure. Plus im scared sh*tless, for real, i ASSUME she wants me to say it, but dont want to hurt her. Any suggestions

2007-09-01 16:52:54 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex is a dead beat father. He owes thousands of dollars in back child support. We have been to court numerous times and he still fails to comply. The court has given him until Dec 21 to make restitution and six months of timely payments. This has not happened thus far. *Tick Tock Tick Tock * I was informed tonight that he has plans of running out of state. He is waiting on his new wife's student financial aide difference check to come and is taking off. The information is reliable and probably very accurate.

My question is, What do I do next? Do federal laws govern deadbeat dads across state lines? Should I call Child Advocate and tell them he is about to run or just let it happen?

Side note.. I work (not on welfare). I pay the bills. I take care of all of the medical and educational needs of my son. I don't need his money and definitely wouldn't depend on it. I have not received one full child support payment if you added everything I have recieved this year together (not 300).

2007-09-01 16:33:46 · 29 answers · asked by Shana N 3

2007-09-01 16:33:15 · 27 answers · asked by smiles 2

i am legally married and am getting a divorce. I have a boyfriend.

2007-09-01 16:25:52 · 30 answers · asked by spuddy3177 2

I live at my mother and father in law's house with my husband, 3 children ages 11 ,4 ,and 6 months. First of all my oldest daughter is being evaluated for bi-polar and asberger's and I spend at least 20 hours a week at appointment' s for my children. I work as a bardtender two to three days a week. The problem is that my mother in law is our daycare provider and seems to think that this gives her rights to control all that evolves our children. Between her and my husband they want me to be superwomen. They exspect me to work 5 days a week and take all my children to appointments, and take full responsibility of all that is needed to care for the children with little help. I am forever listening to them complain about what I'm doing wrong, you don't work enough, you don't make enough money, or the hours I work are not feasible to their schedule. I don't know what to do and how to get them to see that I am tring the very best. I do what I can around the house and for my kids. Any advice

2007-09-01 16:24:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I are dating for over 4 years. I am 25 and she is 23. I gotten my girlfriend pregnant. When she first told me and showed me the test, I got really scared. I ran off. This would be my 3rd month without being with my girlfriend (she is 3 and a half month pregnant). I know that she is feeling sad and depressed that I ran off on her. I realize something after being more than 2 months without her. I need to support her and our newborn kid. I've done the biggest mistake. I want her to take me back. I'm still very much in love with her. I think she told her friends and family that I ran off already. How am I suppose to get a good reputation with her friends and family again and gain my girlfriend's trust again? I am really glad that she isn't seeing anyone as of right now. I really want to be with my girlfriend again and support her. I know I won't run off on her ever again. I know she's the one for me.

2007-09-01 16:19:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous