Marriage & Divorce - 1 September 2007

His wife found out, my question: he is still telling me he doesn't know whats going to happen w/ him and her, but he can't leave right now (because of pending business ownership) and he still loves me and will alway help me if I need it. Will he be back? Why won't he just say goodbye?? Please help me be strong, I am physically ill over this.

2007-09-01 12:21:02 · 26 answers · asked by italy9 2

and not just sit in front of the computer most of the time off that he have i would like he dedicate more time to my baby tht is 3 months and me

2007-09-01 12:07:28 · 8 answers · asked by Monica C 1

me and my wife have been together for 3 yrs (married for 10 months), and have a 2 yr old daughter. two weeks ago, she told me that she loves me, but isn't in love with me anymore. she said that she doesn't want a divorce, but just some time to think. she said it was because i would never go out with her anywhere, because she wanted to go out and drink. i wouldn't go. i realize that i was very selfish by not going out with her. i miss her and my child dearly. i want to talk to her about it, but she says that there is nothing to talk about.

when we talk, sometimes she is very sweet, and other times she is very cold towards me. i don't know what to do. i don't want to lose her. i want to give her sometime, because i want us to be a family again. but this is killing me. i don't know if i should hold out hope that we will get back together, or give up.

PLEASE HELP ME...

2007-09-01 11:51:05 · 19 answers · asked by confused 1

my wife just died and she has a court notice to appear in December and now she isnt here to go anymore. Idont know what to do. I think she has some debit in credit card. Should I call the court and let they know or should I go there???? Or I shouldnt do anything because is her no me?

2007-09-01 11:48:13 · 34 answers · asked by nick 1

Where/how is a 60 year old man going to find a new love??? I don't attend church, I don't go to bars, and my workplace is not appropriate. Although a lot of young girls have hit on me, I am not interested in one night stands. I am looking for a partner, not just sex!

2007-09-01 11:45:18 · 10 answers · asked by BillyBob 1

If a divorce decree states that if parent A moves over 200 miles away from parent B, then parent A is responsible for bringing/picking up the kids at parent B's residence. Who decides the route to be taken if on way takes 4.5hrs and is 194 miles and the other way is 3hrs and is 205 miles? THe most logical way to go is the interstate, which is only three hours, give or take the traffic. Of course she wants to do things the hard way. She put our halfway mark going down a road that isn't too far off from the interstate, but we'd have to go through seven little towns. Who decides???

2007-09-01 11:42:34 · 5 answers · asked by jennymo 1

, i feel bad but confused is because he is younger then i or it is a race thing.

2007-09-01 11:39:57 · 14 answers · asked by javier m 1

If a divorce decree states that if parent A moves over 200 miles away from parent B, then parent A is responsible for bringing/picking up the kids at parent B's residence. Who decides the route to be taken if on way takes 4.5hrs and is 194 miles and the other way is 3hrs and is 205 miles? THe most logical way to go is the interstate, which is only three hours, give or take the traffic. Of course she wants to do things the hard way. She put our halfway mark going down a road that isn't too far off from the interstate, but we'd have to go through seven little towns. Who decides???

2007-09-01 11:39:47 · 2 answers · asked by jennymo 1

HOWED THIS HAPPEN?
Okay people I have one for you here it is.

My GRAND MOTHER got married before she married my grandfather and abandon her 1st daughter at 3 yrs old. Grand mother would latter at the age of 38 marry and have 3 more kid my father being the youngest of them.

Her daughter from her first marriage also got married young but unlike my Grandmother raised
(good for her) all 4 of her daughters!

One of her girls got PREGNANT at 14 and had a child, and child who had a son making my GRANDMOTHER a GREAT, GREAT Grandmother (confusing isn't) to a little boy who would grow up and without knowing anything one day find me crying over how messed up my life was!
We fell in love and would get married, with all the ups and downs that come with marriage but still very happy and full of LOVE.

NOW ONE KNEW ANYTHING ABOUT THIS
His Great Grandmother came over one day 5 months ago and found out her mother was my grandmother and well you guessed it all hit the fan!

2007-09-01 11:26:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my hubby up and left a year ago no word letter phone call nothing all of a sudden he shows up today demanding a pile of tires he threw in the back yard and some model(hot whell motorcyles)he up and left.says he is going to go to his lawyer for that does he have any legal ground to stand on.and he claims he up and left cause i got this computer.Yet he seems to forget leaving his family high and dry is not as bad for some reason.

2007-09-01 11:25:05 · 13 answers · asked by rsl1222 2

I've been chating with other people and watching their web cam while they do dirty stuff, but no harm is it? I'm married.

2007-09-01 10:59:52 · 17 answers · asked by skyfly 1

My best friends husband passed away and she's really sad what can i do to make her fill better she’s like a sister to me.

2007-09-01 10:40:02 · 10 answers · asked by lilprincesss2005 1

It stems from me being unable to help her finish school overseas and being divorced she can get more loans.I 'm against divorce and I 'll be deployed soon so she can pretty much have access to my paycheck and finish school. DO you think I should go along with her or stick to my values.?
It's actually depressing and it's keeping me from focusing on Iraq.

2007-09-01 10:06:26 · 37 answers · asked by bulldog 3

my husband always find a way to fighr with me so he can take off in the car for hours he is even letting his mom ruin my kids life any advice

2007-09-01 09:40:27 · 14 answers · asked by thomas f 3

They just don't appreciate it when they have it. What are your views?

2007-09-01 08:59:49 · 13 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7

2007-09-01 08:46:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently married to a man that decided over a year ago to go back and live with his mother. I have been alone now for over a year. He just went through De-tox to get off of drugs and alcohol and still wants to remain at home with her. He dislikes my chihuahua/rat terrier and seems to havea problem coming home. I have met anoher man who would do anything for me and absolutely loves me unconditionally. We just recently started back at church and I love him. Do I just walk away or do I give him more time to work through his differences. Desperate

2007-09-01 08:23:56 · 9 answers · asked by carole bostic 1

2007-09-01 08:21:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-01 07:38:38 · 30 answers · asked by Knot 1

2007-09-01 07:37:24 · 10 answers · asked by Knot 1

Well..my mom and step dad fight alot. Sometimes they are just little fights. It seems like they only get along during movies when they sit together and he puts his arm around her.
Anyway, there are these big fights. Like my step dad said to me one night, "I feel like I just don't want to come home anymore". and today he shouted at mom, "Just go leave so you can find another man, I don't care!!"
What should I do? Do couples fight like this and is it normal?
Advice plz..thanks..:]

2007-09-01 05:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

see the next door nabore wont let us have a pet what hind of pet will be ok. it can not be big and a snake,bired,mice

2007-09-01 04:33:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a 22 year old muslim guy living in usa and this girl she is 22 as well lives in bangladesh.. we really love each other. and want each other, but unfortunely she got nikah (married) without her will, it was arranged and she couldnt do anything. she and the person who got nikah with, not living together yet. but now after 2 weeks she will have to leave from her house officially and live with that guy. at this point we dont know what to do, want to elope but cant elope , its connected with family respects and more to it. people will get hurt, but we cant live without each other. i love her so much. she is going crazy and i am dying for her. at this point tell me what should we do. oh god guys plzzz help us out. plzzz pllzzz, we r dying guysl

2007-09-01 04:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by ray 1

2007-09-01 04:28:33 · 1 answers · asked by nafnaf342000 1

My wife and I have an argument again and yelled at me as usual.
My male friend of mine whom we owed him a lot asked me a favor to drive for him this morning to look for a sofa & to run some errand. My wife approves it so we drove off. We gone for 3 hours and when I came back the house is a mess and the kids as well. So I asked her... she was talking to her mother the whole time I'm gone which she usually do... and it's ok to me. I told her she should excuse herself for a while to prepare the breakfast for the kids which is included to my daily task. Then she blow her top and start shouting to the kids and to me while were having the discussion..
I feel so upset up to now, coz she didn't even talk and kiss when I drop her to her work a while a go.
She's always like that whenever we have an argument and I'm the one who always cools down & not to answer back just to end the it bcoz If I don't she can go on 4ever yelling. I can't go out of this marriage coz I value the kids so much. SIGH

2007-09-01 04:11:03 · 7 answers · asked by Blue Angel 3

I'm 13. My mum and dad have been divorsed 4 years ago. And my mum take us (my brothere and I) to her house where she was growing
I was thinking that I'm not going to have problems but I have.The worst thing is that she live in the same place with my dad. Only 7 houses are between them. And when she will hear something abouth my dad EX: that he was on vacation with his other GF (The worst thing it that she is with other religion) She don't let us to go in my dad's house to see my grandma and my grandad because my dad always says that he don't have money to give her (but he give us money always). And when my dad will do something wrong she is not leting us to go in my dad's house. But she is not understanding that I like that place because I'm born there there are all my friends, And I feel happy when I'm there. I can't live in that house where she was born I hate that place. What should I do ?? I try to talk with her but she is not understanding me. I just like to have normal life.

2007-09-01 03:13:12 · 25 answers · asked by Puffy 1

Just to the people who don't believe in marriage.

I already know why people believe in marriage, I am one of them so I don't want to hear those responses.

2007-09-01 03:10:39 · 21 answers · asked by Lindsay 3

He's a sleazy married guy already dating another one of his employees and frequently tells my wife about his sexual conquests and even shows her pictures. He gets jealous and mad at her when she's more friendly to the only other guy in the office... Yesterday was the last straw - he invited her (alone) to go to a strip because his girlfriend was out of town! My wife refuses to admit he's into her because he's told her he could never sleep with her... Yeah right, what guy who expects to get laid tells his intentions to the girl who's trust he's trying to win?... I trust my wife (I'm better looking than he is, for one thing), but just wish she'd stop bitching me out every time I try to convince her he's trying to get in her pants. Any advice? (Yes, another job would be ideal, it's just difficult at the moment)

2007-09-01 03:00:13 · 14 answers · asked by Scatter 1

Wierd question but how can i get an annulment? In 2001 I thought I was madly in love and got married 9 months later I had had enough of the way he treated our child and me and told him to get lost. now 6 years later and I am still married to him . i started the divorce procedure and he dissappered off the face of the planet. I met a wonderful guy 4 years ago and would like to marry him but cant. the husband has nothing to do with my child. Can anyone out there help me end this nightmare?

2007-09-01 02:54:37 · 6 answers · asked by butterfly02012001 2

For my wife and I we are about a year and a half apart in age, she was born in Dec. of 74, and I was born in May of 76.

2007-09-01 02:51:40 · 25 answers · asked by Bryan M 6