Marriage & Divorce - 1 September 2007

That would be messed up! I'm single with no kids right now, but I plan on naming my kid after the singer Aaliyah, & other people named their kids that, too. People tell me if I decide to name my kid that, he'd have the right to cheat on me.

2007-09-01 16:17:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-01 15:55:01 · 17 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

My husband is out of town on a business trip and I was invted to dinner by this guy at work so I decided to go since it was better then eating alone. Nothing happened we just went to dinner and that's it. I'll admit he bought me a rose at the restuarant and we danced. My sister in law saw us dancing and called my husband and told him I was cheating on him! I told him the truth and he said I shouldn't have went to dinner with the guy in the 1st place and hung up on me.I think he's completely out of line since i didn't cheat at all. Did I cheat and does he have a reason to be mad?

2007-09-01 15:19:51 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

My last question LOL. I know it is the same act but there seems to be a difference......

2007-09-01 15:18:07 · 33 answers · asked by Street Wise 2

People that I have talked to said that because we are both virgins and we love each other our relationship will change.

For the better or something different?

They say that sex changes everything in a relationship but............how so?

2007-09-01 14:58:38 · 19 answers · asked by Street Wise 2

my husband thinks its ok for him to stay out all night and come home at like 7 a.m. he tells me that he was at his friends house and they got drunk and he didnt want to drive. He doesnt think its a big deal becase theyre guy friends and he says "at least im not out cheating". i have given him like 5 chances and he did it again lastnight. i want to fly back home and tell him im taking my 7 month old daughter and were leaving you. im know i really dont want to stay gone but i want to teach him a lesson so he'll stop taking advantage of me. weve been together since we were in 8th grade and i dont want a divorce but i dont know how much more i can take.

2007-09-01 14:56:48 · 13 answers · asked by SamanthaF 1

I asked this question earlier, but didn't post many details of the situation before I got many of the responses, so I want to post it again with the details.

I have a four year old son who lives with me 1/3 of the time (10 nights per month) I pay $1000 per month in support in addition to 1/2 of daycare and copays, and 100% medical/dental costs withheld from my paycheck.

My ex called me up today and told me that she enrolled our son in soccer and asked if I would pay half of the fees (my part is $65).

Financially, I have no problem paying the money. The problem I do have is that I think the money should come out of support. She gets plenty.

It doesn't cost anywhere near $1000 (tax free) per month to raise a child.
BTW, I have 100% custody of my eight year old son from a previous relationship, so I know what it costs to raise a child - and I've received NO support for him since I've had him by myself (6 years).

2007-09-01 14:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by foobarred 3

Im 22 y/o just had a baby August 22 married but separated and most likely getting a divorce sooner than I thought. I left my husband about a month ago because he has a drinkinganger problem. After I left it seems like he got worse he would call in to work using me as an excuse even though I wasnt living w/him anymore he would tell his boss that I was in the hospital etc..He called in3days in a row and got suspended w/no pay. He almost got fired and somehow got a second chance, ever since I got out of the hospital he has not provided our baby with anything@all. My mom had to pay the remainder of the balance that the insurance didnt cover, bcause he didnt have$260. He has w-drawn$from our account like crazy, he gets pissed off when I ask him to give me an explanation about what has he spent the$he came over2my parents home to see our baby stayed 2hrs then left didnt bring any$for the baby and said he would come back2moro with4mula and diapers.Continued below....

2007-09-01 14:43:45 · 11 answers · asked by Juliet 2

Every serious relationship I've had has ended in the girl cheating on me. I'm a nice guy. What gives?

2007-09-01 14:43:00 · 12 answers · asked by K D 1

My husband hasn't worked in 5 months and we are barely scraping by. I work and go to college fulltime, while he does neither. He sits at home and plays computer games and watched DVDs all day long, then expect fast food every day. When I get upset about finances, he feels bad and applies to 1 or 2 crappy, minimum wage jobs like fast food and retail, then goes back into his patterns. He's very sensitive and if I bring it up, he gets really upset. What can I do? I feel like screaming at him to get off his lazy butt almost every day...I love him, but I am so frustrated.

2007-09-01 14:37:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday , My husband came home from work to tell me he wanted to go out with the guys. I didn't mind, thought maybe I could enjoy a night at home with out video games going on 24/7 at my house. He left around 8pm and I encouraged him to have a good time. At 4 am I woke to realize he wasnt home yet. He didnt answer his cell phone from 4 am to 8am, saying he didnt have reception. He showed up at 10 am this morning. His friends wanted to come in to use the restroom, and I said no way. I was so mad, that I worried all night about him, wondering if he was okay, or hurt, or in trouble. He pranced in here as if he did nothing wrong. I told him his behavior was unacceptable. Not that he went out with the guys, but that he never tried to call, or be concerned about me. He has been asleep all day, and I am wondering how to react at this point.
Any ideas?

2007-09-01 14:35:05 · 15 answers · asked by CHRISSY B 1

2007-09-01 14:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-01 14:33:30 · 31 answers · asked by nelppik 3

My son is 17 and an only child. He is a good, sweet kid but doesn't get the best grades(C average). My husband (a straight A student ) doesn't understand my son. My husband never wanted to have children yet he got involved with me and he knew I had a teenager. It is as if he doesn't like it when I spend money on my son, I have to argue for items that he needs. My son would like to join the High School Ski Team and my husband is worried about the cost. We are a two income household and we can afford it. My husband is never mean or abusive to my son- he just avoids him altogether. I feel like I am caught in the middle.

2007-09-01 14:32:27 · 13 answers · asked by Wanderlust 2

Ok, with all realness, here it goes. Briefly, my girlfriend and I of two years just broke up about 3=4 wks ago. With in that 3wk time, she met another guy, and in less than a wk, clinged to him, as sayin she became intimate in spending time with him, they've kissed, and she has introduced him to her family(her children, mother, and siblings), and again, we've only been broken up 3wks and she knew this guy for only a week.
Now, last night I went to her home, because I needed questions answered. I wanted to know how could she in such a short period of time, move on so fast. I've also reaffirmed my love for her and told her 3wks was too short for me to get over you and move on to another.... Well, during the course of the night, her lover called(several times), she never answered the phone, and I ended up staying the night. The next day(today) she and I are in eachother's arm. We're kissing, and I swear it felt so good to hold her again...God it felt good. But anyway, I tried a

2007-09-01 14:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not getting married, I'm not even in love, but my friend is and is totally serious about this.

2007-09-01 14:26:09 · 3 answers · asked by kissaliciousness 1

I don't understand what's wrong with me -I know I am intelligent. I am just after reading some great answers on my question - I realise I don't have a clear judgement. If he hit me once, does it mean that I am in the abusive relationship? Or is it a one-off? You see, I could see how he was controlling and passive-agressive, paranoid. But there were times, when he was nice and thoughtful, - it's sooo confusing. He is smart, loves animals, great at DIY, does not drink, etc. It's like whatever nice he does is cancelled out by his next actions. Say, 5 years later he would finally admit that he was not ready for kid while he was feeding me lies that may be next year we should try for a baby. Plus he never really tells the truth about what's on his mind. How can I stop living in denial? Is there a pill? :)

2007-09-01 14:18:58 · 24 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3

after 6 years of throat cutting we called it quits and now we work together, talk alot and even hang out! my step kids (her kids) like it. crossing the line?????

2007-09-01 14:16:13 · 8 answers · asked by glamorous 1

what is way to find males to marry in mid 20's age group and such? i'm in NYC area, I don't know where my husband is hanging out.... I would like to be married? so many women look like they had no trouble finding husband:( all friends are married already! if it become to late - just settle for any male, okay? I AM RUNNING OUT OF TIME RIGHT!??

2007-09-01 14:03:42 · 9 answers · asked by camillabrightside 4

2007-09-01 13:56:04 · 61 answers · asked by bethy4jesus 5

Ok well their is this person who works with my husband.It is getting out of control now.first she tries to talk my husband into buying a motorcycle and I hate motorcycles.now this person wants me to go to some motorcycle club to try to talk me into letting my husband get a motorcycle. It's really starting to piss me off!!!! Right now I have so much on me and I can't take something like this right now .First my husband and I need to move out of my parents house and I need a car so that I can work.I need to find a day care to put my son in .Also I need to start my sons shots so that he can go to day care. I can't help but think that this person may have some plan up their sleeve because they want my husband to herself

2007-09-01 13:39:01 · 19 answers · asked by KITTY S 2

2007-09-01 13:33:48 · 19 answers · asked by custodiomc 1

My boyfriends wife has been gone for 2 years now. We have been together for over a year. We have alot of fun together and we have a good relationship but he is not very intimate and we dont make love often. He just told me that it feels strange like he is cheating on her. I know he loves me and cares for me so I how do I cope? Do I be patient and wait for him to do something?

2007-09-01 13:28:02 · 8 answers · asked by bossladyjen 2

2007-09-01 13:10:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife left me deserted the kids and left me with a 6 year old son.to raised,which I did.He is 21 now.I do not want anything to do with my daughters.Whatever I have I want to give it to my son .upon my death can i will and leave him everything.I was in the military for 29 years as an engineer.

2007-09-01 12:57:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

amily and friends. Literally, I do not have anybody nor a support system. or much money Where can I go? Do shelters take women without children? I am devastated! Any help???

2007-09-01 12:53:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-01 12:49:40 · 5 answers · asked by burddog68@sbcglobal.net 1

She is taking over my family and wont give me privacy. She doesn't pay for anyting in the house and is living with us for free. My husband is not going to do anything after talking to him numerous times. I really want her out of my home and the only way to get her out is deporting her for being here on an expired tourist visa and is working. Can anyone help me to deport her????

2007-09-01 12:44:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you achieve closure when you can't get answers to the unanswered questions? And how do you move on without closure?

2007-09-01 12:38:41 · 5 answers · asked by babyred 2

I have been a married homemaker for 23 years. I left my abusive husband in April 2007 and filed for child support for my 12 yr old daughter in May. I have no work force skills as a result of being a homemaker/stay at home mom for so long. My 29 yr old daughter bought a house in North Carolina and is willing to help me. San Diego, California is very expensive and I cannot afford housing or food on my own. He has not given me 1cent since I left. I have not filed for divorce and would like to move. Can someone tell me how to do it to avoid getting in trouble?

2007-09-01 12:30:52 · 7 answers · asked by belindaramos21 2