Marriage & Divorce - 28 August 2007

It was a somewhat reunion, hadn't seen these guys in many years. While we were all hanging out my "friend" said to me "Man, I can't wait til you go to bed so I can eat your wife's pussy"

It has sent me into a state of insecurity. I am very successfull with 3 kids and a great marriage!! What the hell can I do? How would you react to someone saying that to your spouse?

2007-08-28 23:37:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I would smash her with a giant rock take a giant dump on her cat.

2007-08-28 23:27:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

So we got back from our honeymoon today and sadly the photographer hasn't posted our wedding pictures up yet. I remembered that one of the groomsman had his digital camera at the wedding so I went to his Myspace page to see if I could find any of them. Once there, I see a comment from my husbands ex wife. I know that she is friends with this paticular groomsman and have had absolutely no problem with it until now. The comment from her said " i can not thank you enough for passing along the message from the Inlaws. It really means a lot to me,more than you will ever know. I appreciate you listening to your heart and valuing our friendship. " So what the heck am I supposed to think about this? My new inlaws are giving messages to his ex wife on my wedding day and/or vice versa? I have had a great relationship with his family until now, but I am extremely hurt about this whole thing. Do I confront them? What do I do!? Thanks for your help!

2007-08-28 23:16:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

In a very successfull marriage, 3 kids, great job, great friends, money in the bank, strong love between the both of us.... lots of hugging, kissing, sez blah blah. Ever since I had some friends come in I haven't seen in 15 years I have felt like I have reverted back to the way I was 15 years ago, very insecure..... This is not how I have been at all in the last few years, but now insecurity has readred its ugly head. On top of that, my wife is back to a personal trainer and looking good, my 1st born is going into 3 day a week full day pre school. My 2nd born was just diagnosed with autism so he will be heading into a 5 day a week all day pre school program.

On top of that my wife has been seeing a shrink and her self esteem has gone way up. All of the sudden I am feeling not as important to her, and feeling insecure. Last night I told her and now I think she sees me as weak.

What can I do to get out of this funk? How does she view me now?

2007-08-28 22:35:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i luv a boy, he lives in a different country than i do but we talk everyday online, i cant liv without him i want to marry him and he als wants the same but my family is against it wat do u think i should do?

2007-08-28 22:15:05 · 11 answers · asked by xtReMe GirLZ 1

I’m 50, she 44, at first (for 6mths or so) we would do it every night or so. She was so HOT I mean really Crave this between us. At some point around a year she told me " this will slow down because we had no partners for 5 yrs and we "both" craved it because of the drought, 2 years later we now do it once every 2- 3 months, Well I crave it the same as before with her, I love everything about her and love doing all things together with her, Especially this very personal thing. I really dig her, Iv told how I feel, She’s said she on a skin med that causes low libido but sounds like a excuse, I’m really not pressuring her but I still want to be close in this way, Iv had this talk (about doing it more often) many times, Sometimes I said it perfectly sometimes not, after going to sleep for the 300th time in a sweat, well Its a problem. Today I overheard someone say "no need to bait the hook, fish is in the boat" is that what this is? Someone help me understand this, am i wrong?

2007-08-28 21:41:51 · 19 answers · asked by john g 2

my son has decided not to go into higher education but instead to work for a year then join the army/marines when he is 17yrs. he earns £55 a day and works 5 days a week. we think we should ask him for a contribution as he has decided to join in the big wide world and needs to understand the responsibilties that comes with it.Any suggestions would be appreciated.

2007-08-28 21:24:33 · 13 answers · asked by commando 2

If there was what do you think it would say?

2007-08-28 20:50:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my bf for 6 months and we are in love. We have been fighting and had a massive fight recently. He wants to leave, but lives in england so pretty much i would never see him again. I have told him how much i love him and he says he loves me too but has to do this. I don't know what else to do other than cry. HELP PLEASE

2007-08-28 20:34:20 · 7 answers · asked by curious 1

Do you think that sometimes a marriage is really over even when you dont want it to be. My marriage is struggling at the moment and i am not sure it can be fixed. I have been with my husband for 17 years and we have two kids. We have had our ups and downs like everyone else but got through. My husband has always suffered with bouts of depression when he can be unreasonable and very difficult to live with but i have bit my lip until they have passed as i love him. Over perhaps the last 6 months he has been going through what i can only describe as a mid life crisis, with a 'Is this all life has to offer attitude'. He is rarely happy, everything i or our kids do seems to irritate him and i feel like he would be better giving me a script to work from each day so i dont say the wrong thing! He hates his job and the rat race and feels stilted by conformity. Plays in a band, seems to be the only thing that makes him smile. We shuffle along, thankful for the peaceful times

2007-08-28 20:32:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend has been seing a man for while now. he's still married but has been saperated for awhile now. he told her that he already started to file for a divorce. after a while he told her that everything in on hold and they can't file for anything because his wife refuses to sign the summons. now i didn't believe that was possible and i told her that in that case it would be even easier for him to get a divorce since she won't even be in court. but she doesn't beleive me. and think the guy is just playing with her.
so i would like to know if you guys have any info about this.

2007-08-28 20:30:27 · 5 answers · asked by irkana 3

A co-worker told me today she is scared of her husband. Yesterday, He was supposed to pick her up after work, but never showed up. Our boss had to take her home. Her husband went ot and started yelling at her and our boss. Today she was going to take the car to work so she could have a way home. But he came after her and pushed her down and took the keys from her. Then he kicked gravel at her and called her names. Later her husbands dad called her and to her he was drunk at there house.

She does not have acess to the internet. She asked me to get her some phone numers for help hotlines. I don't know where to look. can someone help me find some for her?

Tonight she is staying with another co-worker.

2007-08-28 20:30:07 · 10 answers · asked by dream catcher 2

About 9 years difference

2007-08-28 20:23:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 20:22:41 · 28 answers · asked by Petunia 4

I am 19, I have 2 children, and my husband is in Iraq. I love my children and I love my husband but I don't know if I can do this army thing any more. We've been married for two years. He joined the army a few months before we got married and he loves it. But it is not for me I just want a nice normal life as selfish as it sounds. But telling him not to reenlist makes me feel terrible. How can I make someone I love choose between a job he loves and the person he loves?

2007-08-28 19:38:17 · 20 answers · asked by Tascha A 1

I am going through a seperation with my spouse of 13yrs. He left me and my children recently. I am very depressed and have tried to save my marriage but please answer this do you believe that it is better to walk away and let things go rather than keeping trying and chasing a man who is pushing me away. I wanted to know if you let someone you love go even though you love them dearly than you can truly see if things were mean't to be

2007-08-28 19:37:16 · 5 answers · asked by danaispeace 2

Plz , tell me

2007-08-28 19:26:20 · 22 answers · asked by Joney B 1

* Is their sex drive dimish at or after the momopause?
* Most of them only like to chat & wasting other Male's time.
* Most of them join the site to see how & how many men will contact them, & when they are being asked to date, they say , they are not ready!, THEN what the hell you are doing on the dating site!!!!
* They are on age of enjoing themselves& satisfy their s*x desire, as every day does count in their short life!
** It is bad & irritating to be a time waster on the dating site , if you are not looking for a male!
WAKE UP TO THE TRUTH LADIES!

2007-08-28 19:11:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would tin-foil be alright?

2007-08-28 19:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I went to a counselor several weeks ago to work on our relationship. One of the suggestions, to improve our sex life, was to open up to eachother about our fantasies. My husband confided in me that he always had a fantasy of watching me shower without me being aware. I thought what the hell, seemd harmless enough. So I fufilled his fantasy and he watched me and later we'd have great sex. Anyway, he travels alot for business, and now has asked me if he can film me showering so he can "still have me" when he's out of town. I don't know, these things always seem to backfire. We've been married 10 years and I want to make him happy sexually, and I'm glad he'd rather "pleasure" himself to me rather than some magazine, but I don't know what to tell him.

2007-08-28 18:49:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother and his wife are looking at getting divorced after two years of marriage.

They bought a House, and as she was unemployed it is in his name. He has made a vast majority of the payments on the mortgage, however she wants the house.

This doesn't seem right. She has done similar before to the guy before my brother, only they weren't married.

He is looking for some kind of get out clause that means he gets the property, or at least the lions share of the proceeds.

One thought is to sell it to me.

What would you guys recommend?

2007-08-28 18:43:20 · 18 answers · asked by sleazer_1 3

Every full moon it seems me and my husband get in huge long fights that are almost uncontrollable. I just wanted to know if anyone else feels the "full moon craziness"

2007-08-28 18:40:46 · 11 answers · asked by keri_ricker 2

I don't think I'm in love with my wife anymore. Just lately everything she does and more importantly lots of things she doesn't do really annoy me. She's the type of person that doesn't really put too much effort into doing things if she doesn't think it's worth while. She's a self proclaimed procrastinator, and only seems to show enthusiasm about her work as a travel agent.

I've tried talking to her but that never works. She just thinks I should lower my expectations and accept her for who she is. It is as if she doesn't want to see things from anyone elses point of view other than her own.

And before anyone thinks I'm being too hard on her, most of her friends and family thinks pretty much the same thing - that sometimes she's lazy!

I know I love her, but I don't feel 'in love' with her anymore...what do I do?

2007-08-28 18:35:51 · 24 answers · asked by Discostu 2

I got married in Michigan then divorced in NC then married in NC then divorced in Ga. All I need to know if the dats I got married and then divorced.

2007-08-28 18:35:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

is visiting porno sites and escort egencies secretly,but ive found out , is this normal, or should i be worried

2007-08-28 18:30:19 · 34 answers · asked by suze 4

my parents tought us that marraige is a sacred union. all my life i beleived in that, til i got married myself.
when divorce is not an option, how can one keep herself from worring and hurting in a one way relationship?.... life is a valuable thing... how do i find joy in it? other than marraige?

2007-08-28 18:29:52 · 5 answers · asked by rekha 1

2007-08-28 18:18:37 · 18 answers · asked by Jenna 1

2007-08-28 18:16:03 · 7 answers · asked by Ruks 1

So I have a friend who wanted my advice, my friend is having second thoughts about getting married (my friend has been engaged for about a year and the wedding is planned for 2008, but lately my friend is having seconds thoughts and I think it might be because there’s someone else). If there is someone else should my friend go through with the marriage (I don’t think that someone else is available so it’s not like my friend can break off the engagement for that other person). Thanks for any help?

2007-08-28 18:13:34 · 17 answers · asked by Dazed and Confused 1

how can you tell your parents that you been living with a married guy also (bf) though his first marriage is a real mistake only (early marriage and due to pregnancy). how can you convince you parents to understand and accept it?

2007-08-28 18:12:48 · 8 answers · asked by Miyakamikague 1