Marriage & Divorce - 26 August 2007

My wife (ex)? and I have been split up for the past month now, the marriage has really been rocky for the past 3 years, here is why. I volunteered for duty in Iraq. The entire time I was there she wrote me 5 letters, I was there for a year. While I was gone she cheated, and became pregnant, my decision (rite or wrong) was for her to either loose the kid, or me, she chose to abort the child. I found an email in July on myspace of her talking with her bestfriends brother, flirting and "why didnt we have sex the night that we kissed". She never paid bills, causing us to declare bankruptcy, ruining my credit. She says I treat her like s**t but I tell her it's the effect, of her cause. Now that we're seperated she's "talking" to another guy from her old work, but they're just friends. When I found her email we ended up in a huge fight, yes I lost it, yes I hit her. Im not proud of it. I did get in trouble with the law. I've seen alot in Iraq, and stress from her. Help, what should I do?

2007-08-26 23:54:17 · 20 answers · asked by stevo52979 1

im 28 years old girl.my parents torture me frm last 8 years.now its too much. im self dependent.is there any legal procedure or law by which i can leave their home.plz suggest

2007-08-26 23:52:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am an attractive 28 yr-old woman, married for 2 years. Due to my husband's health, he can't have sex with me. I am dying inside as I love having sex alot even more than once a day. But we haven't had it for almost one year, and before that it was once every month. This problem is killing me, I have a very high libido, and I just can't take it anymore. He has consulted with a doctor and he is due to have an operation in the next 6 months. His problem is Sleep Apnea, where he can't take enough sleep, always tired, sleepy, and he can't breat through his nose. His breathing also stops for a few moments during sleep evey 10 minutes. It's very dangerous, but he is not helping it either. He is very obese and also smokes. He says because he is always tired, he can't even do any excercise. I am still not sure if Sleep Apnea can make you disable to have sex, as I think with the right libido, you can motivate yourself even if you're tired. What do you think?

2007-08-26 23:26:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband wanted me to entertain his sister, husband & 2 kids in a studio apt (I pay bills). Keep in mind that his sister's husband ripped my mom off $5,000 on her household repairs he partially/poorly started leaving incomplete & still wanting another $500 to complete his mess (he told her off on the phone). My mom demanded for them to not stay in my home. My husband told his sister they were denied access and now he is lashing out to me and his sisters about my mom(he lived with my mom rent free with cooked meals for 6yrs). It is funny because my mom had problems with her ex-husbands sister and things were never the same. My mom is now putting all types of ideas in my head encouraging me to leave him. Before this mess I didn't have problems with his family or him since he has started working. What must I do? Still communicate to his in-laws when they visit? Stick around when he has a hissy fit about my mom and speaks badly? I told him I am leaving him - he's been silent since

2007-08-26 23:03:33 · 8 answers · asked by TVStar! 2

I can't find my decree nisci ( divorce papers). What do I do?

2007-08-26 22:53:18 · 4 answers · asked by barbara r 1

2007-08-26 22:28:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Three year ago I had girl friend but she decided to marry some other person and since I love her very much and I though the guy will assist and care her (financialy) in all her life I gave to them my blessing and she married him and two year later she gave birth.But one day she calls me and told me that she devorce him and she is being alone with her one year baby .........Since then I felt sad for her and I started to interest on her because I am still loveing her very much. tell me may I ask her to be my friend again? if I do so do you think she will belive me because I know she so loved me very much when she decided to marry that person and now she feels guilty.

2007-08-26 21:41:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

IF some woman / man HIDES from their would be husband / wife that once he / she had sex with his / her college mate before marriage ;
then after marriage can she / he get jail for CHEATING husband / wife by hiding the fact about
his / her virginity at the time of engagement???

Can that husband / wife apply for divorce because of that cause(India)????

2007-08-26 21:40:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was watching the The good, the bad, and the ugly and the wife stands in front of the wide screen and wants to talk. Normally I have no problem talking to her but........ It’s the end and the three are facing off in the cemetery. What should be the punishment for disrupting the total pay off?

2007-08-26 21:09:13 · 14 answers · asked by Dr Phil 5

what would prompt a woman, while away on say a convention, to toss her marriage vows out the window, for a romp in the sheets with someone else? What ever happened to fidelity? I think there are more cases of women cheating on their hubbies nowadays.

2007-08-26 20:45:36 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

that sort of stuff- but he took away the joint check book and the debit card and I don't have any $$ to speak of and I work only two days a week, no kids under 18, we own our house plus a rental property, but my name is only on one of these, plus a couple of a cars are in my name also, what should I do he also physically assaulted me, throughout our marriage but only when he use to drink- he quit drinking but he slapped me alot tonight because he knows I found out about his "b*itch!"

2007-08-26 20:38:15 · 13 answers · asked by sickofit 1

2007-08-26 20:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by phad_lee 1

the statement that says"if their anyone that feels that these two shall not be joint in holy matrimony
please speak now or forever hold your peace.

2007-08-26 20:12:49 · 5 answers · asked by victoria j 1

I catch him in lies all the time? I.e. we went to my sisters for dinner & his friend calls & says he needs something my hubby has to go, says hell be back in 30 min, tops. An hr. and 15 min. later I call & his friend says hes @ his house but going back then to our house where my husband was waiting. He gets back to my sisters 45 min later. We live 10 min, fr. my sisters. Then after basically forgiving or forgetting the incident we come back home, and a girl friend of ours stops by & casually mentions in conversation stopping by earlier in the day "when you weren't here." after seeing my anger @ him, she added that she had only been 5 or 10 min. Its not even the point that it was a female friend because I figure she did drop in but if that is the case or not I spec. asked him 2-3 times earlier who was there and he told me solemnly "nobody". Now he doesn't understand why I am mad. Its little things like this all of the time....I mean mybe small in big pic, but its driving me NUTS

2007-08-26 19:57:22 · 8 answers · asked by hyphyscwifey 1

i got a question, if you get married by the judge, is there an expiration of being married becuase havent gotten married by a priest?... or is it consider being single not being married by a priest?...

2007-08-26 19:54:40 · 12 answers · asked by sweetcarmel37 1

I am happily married for 2 years. When my husband and I have sexual intercourse we can last for about 30-45 mins. or sometimes on hour. When is time to for me to be on top, I don't last long and I try my best NOT to *** so quickly. As soon as I am on top, it only takes me less than 2 mins and sometimes less than 1 min depending how hot I am. I try to slow down but by the time I do ... that's when I ***. My husband doesn't complain but I know he likes it more when I am on top ... so I need to know what can I do to make it up for him. Thanks a lot for your help!

2007-08-26 19:49:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance is a uk citizen,I want to marry and stay here but dont know what we need to do,and help would be greatly appericated.

2007-08-26 19:42:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-26 19:30:17 · 18 answers · asked by marc_501usa 2

He organised his best mates bucks show the same weekend as our 1st wedding anniversay knowing full well what date it was, he came home and told me and said he didn't think i would mind!! He said he will be back on sunday and will take me out for tea, so he gets home on sunday with a huge hangover and goes straight to bed and that was all i seen of him. Is it wrong of me to expect him to make it up to me this year? It just doesn't feel the same.

2007-08-26 19:24:10 · 12 answers · asked by R 1

I TAKE FULL RESPOCABLITY FOR WHAT HAPPEN AND AM SORRY FOR THE DISASTAR THAT HAPPENS IN MY MARRIAGE AND MY SONS LIFE WHAT CAN I DO?

I had an AFFAIR on my ex. husband before we divorced with his older brother who was my HIGH SCHOOL love, but went to prison before graduation! He got out and got married and went to prison again until a year ago when he got out, and we got together 24 years latter!

My husband caught us and he divorced me and took our son with him and kicked me out took everything saying in court I was unfit mother, judge believed him and I lost completely!

My son lived with him for over a year but I was to get him for 6 week this summer. Well he was with me for a day when I said something POORLY, and salty because my BOYFRIEND was "feeling me up" and when my son caught us , I made a joke at his expense.

My son picked a candle stick holder on the table and struck me in the face and said hows that for a joke, I had to go to the hospital and have many,

2007-08-26 18:58:30 · 21 answers · asked by April Snow 1

2007-08-26 18:55:49 · 22 answers · asked by nomoreiaminthisworld 6

They should be either, where they last put them, or where they shoud be, (because if I have moved them anywhere, that is where I have put them). He does not even bother to look in those two places first!!!

2007-08-26 18:32:40 · 25 answers · asked by chookscc 1

2007-08-26 18:28:34 · 10 answers · asked by Cyndi M 2

I am under the impression you are going through a depression that time has slowed down for you and that you feel helpless waighting for me. hold your bearing it is faithfullness we seek in love and sacrifise and it is hard to live this life styel, and I probley understand that more than enyone being that i am here and I antisipate you, in your loving and hating ways it always comes down to your faith in us and your emotional bearing I am scared of your hate side becase I have seen how unstabel you are and the ignorents that over comes you, that is what I dont trust is the side of you that broke my heart time and time again and it seems you have never lerned to control that side of you it had broght out the wours in me and I know that for a while now
thoughs emotional dramatic times we have had I had a strong part of me that just wanted to pick you up and kiss you and hold you close and tell you I love you and some how it would be alright and we would be content but you know that you were never open to the emoitional side of me were I just needed you to love me back right there that hard moment I dont know if you understand this letter pleas write back

2007-08-26 18:26:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will be in the car with him and he will be driving. When he a pretty girl walks by I know he looks cause its obvious. When I ask him what hes looking at he will make something up and say"oh I was just making sure there wasn't a car on the right side but he won't even go to the right side when its clear and it makes me feel like im not pretty enough to look at and he needs to see more. I feel that Im worthless and he wants something better but all my guy friends tell me that im beautiful without me even asking them and i feel im just not worth being his wife even though he tells me he loves me everyday

2007-08-26 18:13:56 · 25 answers · asked by Southern Cowgirl 2

2007-08-26 18:12:04 · 14 answers · asked by katie r 1

I just found some pictures of my husband with another woman on a website today. we are currently separated but working things out. he has always maintained that there is nothing going on. i have seen these pictures b4 and he always has an answer, but the woman has uploaded them very recently. any ideas on how i should handle this? I need a fool proof way to get the truth. yes, i do think he is cheating. i just want him to stop lying. i want to ensure that when and how i confront him will guarantee me the truth. any ideas?

2007-08-26 18:09:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister recently got married to a man. And that man's sister is a girl I fancy. Are we somehow related?

2007-08-26 18:09:09 · 8 answers · asked by faith2452154 3

2007-08-26 18:01:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife says she is too anxious to move next week. The only problem is we signed a lease and gave a deposit and the house we are in now already has a new renter ready to move in. Plus, our kids still have to register for school. She says she changed her mind. Myself and the kids want move and she says she cant. She loved it and looked forward to it up until about a week ago when she suddenly changed her mind. she says the move is giving her severe anxiety and she just cant do it. If we dont go, we have nowhere to live and the kids have no school. Plus we lose our deposit. any help is appreciated. Thank You

2007-08-26 17:58:40 · 9 answers · asked by Terence M 2