I am happily married for 2 years. When my husband and I have sexual intercourse we can last for about 30-45 mins. or sometimes on hour. When is time to for me to be on top, I don't last long and I try my best NOT to *** so quickly. As soon as I am on top, it only takes me less than 2 mins and sometimes less than 1 min depending how hot I am. I try to slow down but by the time I do ... that's when I ***. My husband doesn't complain but I know he likes it more when I am on top ... so I need to know what can I do to make it up for him. Thanks a lot for your help!
2007-08-26 19:49:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im the type of person that finish quick, and won't able get back into it until 30 mins later. I noticed once I'm on top I am mooooore sensitive than any other position I get into. But I guess I can try forplay AGAIN ... lol thanks for the advice!
2007-08-26 19:57:03 · update #1
Do what my wife does..when on top, make a mental list of what you need on your next visit to Walmart, then think about a chores list for a week in advance, then think about problems you may have with kids, then think about what you may have forgot to do...then you will last for 2 months
2007-08-26 19:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by dutara 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Damn I wish a guy could make me *** in 2 minutes or less!!! What's your secret? Okay let me tell you, the secret to lasting longer is just the same as for guys, try not to think about coming, think about non-sexual things, things that don't get you hot and bothered. But if you do ***, just keep riding, even though I know it'ss hard when it's sensitive down there after orgasm, but try and maybe you'll have multiples and your body can adjust to the changes.
2007-08-26 19:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by Crazed Chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing would be for you to continue after your first orgasm, which gives him more time and could possibly bring you another orgasm. If you are simply too sensitive, have him stay inside of you but not move around, and then spend some time with some more "foreplay" such as kissing & petting. Once you're heated up again, go for it with wild abandon!
You finish easily in this position because he is hitting your g-spot, which is incredible for you! I'm sure he's happier about it than you think!!
2007-08-26 19:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by devyl gyrl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the angle of his member entering you is pressing forwards on your G spot so Try scooting forwards a few inches to take the pressure away from your very sensitive area .
the other thing about this position is the amount of penetration that the male can access because of your sexual organs being totally exposed , so Id suggest that you raise up a little to keep his penetration a little shallower into your sex.
Try theses I hope they help . but tell him that you are close and ask if he can slow down to extend the pleasure .. I know he will get a thrill from your discussing it with him all the best . Slick
2007-08-26 23:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On top is the way God meant it to be Good for you.The only thing I can suggest to you is you practice hanging in there a little longer till he comes.Nothing beats knowing that you have what it takes to make your partner pop.That tells you that when she thinks sex it's you she thinks of.
2007-08-26 20:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no harm in **** when on top some woman do more than once anyway enjoy it to the fullest because I am sure your hubby is.
2007-08-26 19:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by mnhsgurl4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what's the problem? If you finish fast on top, just keep going and have more orgasms.
2007-08-26 19:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Switch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a woman, your not limited to just one orgasm.. Keep riding him and you will *** and *** and *** again.
2007-08-26 19:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by chevyraceman_383 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and really do not see a problem. I try to make sure "she" is happy before I please myself.............that way she may have me back. he he When on top, you are in total control of where you like it.........keep on pleasing yourself if your hubby doesn't mind!!!
2007-08-26 20:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by lone_lee_days 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most men wouldn't care that you'd had an orgasm first. You can keep going, can't you? I'm not sure what the problem is...
2007-08-26 19:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by madamemeisha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋