2007-08-26 19:30:17 · 18 answers · asked by marc_501usa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, it's normal, as long as it does not effect your sex life or work.
2007-08-26 19:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by sword_maker_samurai 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
This is a delicate question for a few reasons. First, viewing it everyday denotes an addiction, be it minor or extensive. Second, hiding it could mean he is either ashamed of his behavior (meaning he knows it is wrong) or truly unaware of his problem, similar to an alcoholic or drug addict. Third, being addicted to porn does not mean the person is not being fulfilled at home or that the spouse is to blame. It simply is a sign of a greater problem.
The unfortunate thing is that because this is a topic not openly discussed, many people don't know enough about the causes and treatments. Which means spouses do feel neglected and hurt even though they are not to blame.
Porn addiction is a real problem, and it doesn't have to effect your sex, personal, or work life to constitute addiction status. There are many therapists that specialize in sexual addition disorders. If you or your spouse suspects a problem, it could save your marriage to seek out help.
2007-08-26 20:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by emilydianemiller 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hiding the use of porn is always a problem. It can cause trust issues if ever found by the other spouse. Honesty is the best policy.
My husband and I have come to enjoy it alone and together. Its out in the open so we don't have to hide it. Be honest with them and they might suprise you! Good Luck
2007-08-26 19:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by kell54329 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously not, if you're hiding it.
My husband was welcome to visit porn sites all he wanted, as long as he didn't try to hook up with any women via the net or in person.
If your wifey is opposed to porn, there's an issue you need to work out ... don't do it behind her back - she'll feel even MORE betrayed!
2007-08-26 20:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by devyl gyrl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyday? Eh, it's a big much, but if it's not interfering with your sex life, no problem.
The problem is that you hide it from your wife. It's either because the husband has a bad attitude about sex or thinks that pornography or masturbation is something to be ashamed of and that's never good or that the wife is insecure, uptight about sex or doesn't understand the nature of pornography and judgemental of her husband's personal time.
2007-08-26 19:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on what you consider porn first. just maybe glancing at naked chicks, I dont think there is anything wrong with that, but its when guys are checkin out the hardcore stuff ALOT and hiding it. Of course this probably dosnt mean much coming from a husband...but thats my 2 cents!
2007-08-26 19:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jopa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. I don't think its right for a husband to ever visit a porn site. You have a wife to look at...there should be no need to lust after others. It's adultery.
2007-08-26 21:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
As long as I'm still getting mine every day, I don't care what you do. But the minute you start choosing the computer screen over me, you're out the door.
2007-08-27 02:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's looking at porn then he must be lacking something. If he can't find it with his wife then the marriage is in trouble.. Unless, of course, they watch it together as entertainment. As an individual it represents deeper desires that he should certainly tell his wife about.
2007-08-26 19:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by impasse 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No it is very wrong, it is called 'On line infidelity' he is cheating on you. Married men should not view porn, he is lusting after the whores who star in them. He should let his own wife intoxicate him.
2007-08-26 19:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope, it's not ok... it's cheating... fantasizing is lusting... people try to doctor it up by calling it "fantasy" to make porn ok... it's not ok... you should be lusting after your wife... not some other naked lady... it makes ladies think they are not enough for their man... I had an ex interest who was addicted to his... and I dumped him...
2007-08-27 00:59:38 · answer #11 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋