Marriage & Divorce - 23 August 2007

we agreed on 300 a peice so she goes and spends 840 and now she thinks i need to give her 120.00 to cover half of what she went over!!

she was suppost to spend 600 not 840!!!

do you think i should pay the extra even though she did not call me to tell me she was going to go over?

2007-08-23 23:17:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have been married nearly 4yrs and have 4 children. It didn't present itself in the beggining but my MIL is very dependant on my husband(eldest son) My family isn't perfect but they mind their own business and dont bring problems into my marriage. My in laws are what u would call dissfunctional. Great people individually but as a fam there is always an arguement and a problem. 95% of these problems are instituted by my MIL, though she cant see it. Anyway, when i was first married she lived 15 minutes away from husband and i, and i didn't think anything of it. When i was pregnant with baby no 2 we moved 45mins out of the city. About a year later she moved 20mins from us, which process forced my husband and i to separate for a while. Now we have moved interstate my husband tells me that "mum will be moving here in about 6 months. She is a bloody infestation. She cant fill out a rental form so my husband has to, and my husband has to look for a house for her to live in, b

2007-08-23 22:38:07 · 10 answers · asked by MGS 1

What is wrong with that woman in Russia who set her ex husbands little man alight?? wow do you think she still hold a grudge??

2007-08-23 22:28:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Personal Famelier Relations meens Relation between your parents,between your wife,Friends,Grand Fathers and other social Persons.

2007-08-23 22:22:54 · 6 answers · asked by Analyst 2

They are all so fat! Is there a law about them becoming so fat, or what?

2007-08-23 21:51:44 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have heard the rumors and gossip. I have stumbled upon photos that can or can not be truth... My husband says she is crazy and taking medication and has altered pictures to look like something is going on. I have since then gathered other small pieces of information, but nothing absolutely concrete. Till this day he still maintains that he has never been with her. He is also not the confrontational type and is not one to be public about his life. I am not sure what to think? Any thoughts?

2007-08-23 21:32:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has had several extra-marital affairs, we broke up for the last four months but now we are back together. She wants to have a girls night out everythree weeks, but I dont even know her friends. I get left at home looking after the two (young) kids, I could always go and party with the boys as often
as she goes out but it wouldn't be fair on the kids. She usually always gets really drunk and comes home late and takes speed. I am 30 she is 27 and I thought this sort of life was behind us. If I leave I'll have the kids cause she won't want the
responsibility. Thanks for your listening

2007-08-23 21:31:04 · 43 answers · asked by The Master Of Knowledge 2

The advocate from husband's side raised the following question :
1. Can any question of reconciliation be raised after she took back all her shridhan properties?

2. Can she asked for reconciliation after her husband paid her whole life maintenance?

Advocate told that she didn't wear good saree and gold ornaments in sister in laws' marriage, red and white bangle, iron bangle according to the Hindu custom. Can allthe things come to consideration for separation or divorce?

2007-08-23 21:20:01 · 3 answers · asked by sanjukta 1

it's about 6 months i got married and unfortunately i'm 4 months pregnent...
in months before i had an argument with my husband and i went to my daddy's house with this hope which he'll come to me but he didn't come, but once he called me and said we should divorce, now i really don't know what should i do and what should i do with this inocent child i really like to have my child with myself but i really don't know what should i do, plz tell me...

2007-08-23 20:16:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

There used to be a trend that black men were marrying white women, but now the trend is turning heavily toward white men marrying black women. What is causing this change in our society?

2007-08-23 20:14:44 · 24 answers · asked by Kimberly Sue 2

I don't want to get too deep before I know for sure, because I would rather end it before I get really really hurt. Please respond, even if maybe you know how to get the info personally.

2007-08-23 20:10:38 · 8 answers · asked by somerandomgirl 1

2007-08-23 20:00:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex hubby MIA now wants to see me and my son?
My hubby and I were 2gether for 5 yrs..and was hooked on crack after his mom passed away...

I got pregnant, he was MIA, saw our son when he was 1 month, dissapeared, never supported me in any way, and got shipped off to another country by his parents..

Now 6 yrs has passed, he decides to call me and says "hey"..

I was shocked and p*ssed off, surprised and then I hung up...

What should I do now? Please advice..
My son has never seen his dad, but has a great family established already consisting of my mom, dad, 3 bros...

2007-08-23 19:58:38 · 4 answers · asked by contessa 4

My parents have had a complicated marriage,my dad cheated like 4 times in the past but is now determined to make it right again I know in my heart he will never cheat but him and my my mom got seperated for a month. They got back together trying to work out there marriage but my mom is now in love with another guy and my dad is slowly finding more and more about what's going on. On there anniversery my dad got her a big gift,steak dinner,baloons,flowers and cards but my mom brought him nothing while on that other guys birthday she sent him a email wishing him happy birhtday. What should I do to help(don't say divorce).

2007-08-23 19:55:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you do with a manipulative husband. he works on the road. i have heard from his friends that he is not faithful but the main problem is that he has told his family and his new found friends how miserable his life is cuz all he does is works for his family. and all his wife does is sits on her you know wat. i take 12 hrs of school have a 4 yr old and a 13 yr old. i cant take him anymore and i dont know wat to do. he has threated that if i leave him he will take the kids and blah blah blah. i just want to know how to beat a manipulator at his own pathetic game.. Any Ideas?

2007-08-23 19:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by jalaney_delaney 1

I broke up with my fiancée and it is very painful I couldn't sleep and I couldn't eat I couldn't think my life just stop. What is the way to recover myself

2007-08-23 19:29:26 · 11 answers · asked by supshumrani 1

I'm so confused about my marriage, i try to do whatever i can for my husband, he works long hours to support our family. i just don't know how to communicate my feelings very well, whenever things bother me about our relationship i have a hard time talking to him about it. more often than not i feel like I'm part of a debate and losing, my husband is very good at turning anythings i say into something against me. he is aware of this and says he tries not to. i believe he needs to be right in whatever we discuss and i get frustrated because our conversations start out fine then i get the run around until we aren't even on the same subject anymore. in the end i talk to my brother (my best friend in the world) more easily than my husband. i just want to be able to explain myself without causing more argueing. any advice.

2007-08-23 19:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by paula t. 3

2007-08-23 19:18:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my ex of 7 years never officially broke up.. she didn't bother to talk to me about it, or even end it really. I figured we were just having some problems so we didn't talk for about 2 days. Well come to find out she is already in a relationship with another guy. Literally, 2 days later. We had a 7 year relationship, and we have a 4 year old daughter.

This is the second time she did this. She did it about 5 years ago, same thing, didn't talk for 2 days and she was with another guy, but I took her back for some reason..

Anyway, what comes next? How do I deal with this?

2007-08-23 19:09:48 · 8 answers · asked by aa 1

I've been in a relationship for 5 years in which we have a 2 yr old son. He has always had a problem when he drinks, starts trouble and emotionally completely abandons me. He has humiliated me, came at me like he was gonna hurt me, brakes items, runs out of the house overnight, this is all when he's drunk. The most recent time this happened was about 2 weeks ago I ended crying myself to sleep. I know he has a problem, we've been trying to work out the relationship but he always wants to drink, not a lot, he says a beer maybe two but I know that always leads to 3 then 4 and then out of control. He thinks I want to control him, but it's not a control thing it's a trust thing, I'm traumatized by the things he has done, and I don't feel comfortable when he drinks... he always ens up breaking my heart. Me imposing with his drinking has made him distance himself from me. Does he really have a problem, is he an alcoholic? What should I do, leave? Are my reasons justified?

2007-08-23 18:56:07 · 16 answers · asked by Sweetie85 1

My Boyfriend just turned 21 and wants to get married. Right now I am only 17 but will be turning 18 in a month. I love him but I don't want him to be a mistake if anything does happen between us. He has a kid and the mother is counting on us splitting so she can get back with him...

2007-08-23 18:42:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Cheating isn't the issue. It's the alcohol. He likes good times with friends and the party never stops. He never misses work, and he never leaves me without money for the bills and stuff. That doesn't mean I'm happy. I'm just somebody that lives with him. I'm considering leaving him. Just move to a studio apartment, where all I have to deal with is myself. I've told him all this, how much it hurts me. But, it's to the point I just want to walk out the door and never come back. And he gets it...as long as he is sober. I've given him the alcohol or me choice..guess who won! Of course initially he chooses me and quits drinking, but four or five months down the road it's right back to staying out all night on drunken binges. I can't take it anymore. What do I do? Leave? And if I leave, what happens next? Do I need to file for Divorce and prove ownership of certain property? Also I have to add that he was arrested for two DUI's in one month!

2007-08-23 18:34:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband took a nude picture of me face down and passed out (not from being in a drunken state, just sleeping). I was wearing a garter and stockings and nothing else. He has it on his cell phone. We had a discussion a week ago regarding the subject and he said that he would never do that without my knowledge. And I expressed very boldly that I oppose that very much. Yesterday a.m. his phone was ringing for work, I picked it up and there was the picture. Am I wrong for feeling violated?

2007-08-23 18:33:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for two years, I knew coming into the marriage his "best friend" was a girl. I think before we go any further its important to mention they did sleep together prior to our marriage. I never have met the "best friend", though I have made several attempts. My husband says she hates other girls, and I should'nt force the issue. However my problem is, she always calls him at work, on his cell and never on our home phone. If she finds out I'm within distance of him she'll tell him she has to go or let him go. He started including me in some of thier emails,after me demanding to be included and I couldn't believe what I was reading, he told her over and over again how beautiful she was, that he loved her and they were going to act as the other ones personal assitant. My husband has compared her to me physically alot. Can someone please advise me how to handle this? I feel that I'm reasonable, but at this point it's her or me.

2007-08-23 18:30:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everything I try to put the effort in mending my lack of relationship with my mom, it goes well in the beginning and she slips back into her old self where she manages to "emotionally abuse" but she states that she's looking out for. Everytime I start to have a relationship with her again after periods of silence, she just starts to make me feel bad about myself like I'm less and not good enough. Talking to her does not work, i tried.she think she's right and doing the best for me. should I distant myself from her emotionally? The thought of it is sad.

2007-08-23 18:25:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have joint custody of my children but they relocated out of State with their Mother so I only have them holidays and summer. My ex has been very difficult and made all visits and contact a real struggle. When it comes down to it she has no backing or justification, so she can not stop my visitation. Her actions just cause a lot of undue stress & distress to everyone and most importantly the kids. I have tried to keep it out of Court so we do not lose our choice of how to deal with things but I think I need the Court's help. While they were here this summer I became aware that she was to move out of where they were living w/ her boyfriend. I contacted her and her lawyer to have this issue discussed with me in the first place and second get the address of where she was to move. I was not given any of this. I reluctently sent the kids home and have demanded the lawyer or her to give me the address. They won't respond. What can I turn into the court to make them tell me a.s.a.p. ?

2007-08-23 18:21:12 · 16 answers · asked by Bonnie&Clyde 1

If If, If a married man and you are in love, first wife knows it but cant do much about it. Their relationship was cold for some time,but for any reason he cant divorce his wife;

Do you rather have your man marry you and you become a second wife and have children with him, or you prefer to be just a mistress all your life and have children with him.

Both ways you still share him w first wife.
Which one you choose?

2007-08-23 17:59:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just need some words of wisdom - my hubby recently told me that he no longer wants to be married because he is not happy. He says he only wants to be a good father to our 2 kids. He has agreed to go to marriage counseling to see of our marriage can be saved. My problem is that I am so hurt by what he said to me that I don't know how to live my daily life without those words going thru my head. What do I do?

2007-08-23 17:58:51 · 23 answers · asked by seashells74 1

i'm so upset and sad over my recent breakup with my boyfriend. we were together for 7 years. i havent spoke to him in only 2 months but it feels like forever. im so hurt that he is seeing a girl that is within our circle of friends. i cant stop crying and thinking and re-thinking it all. this wound is so deep with him and my others friends not telling me anything. i wanna see a doctor to make me feel better. please help me let go.

2007-08-23 17:53:21 · 30 answers · asked by 1212 2

He was a great guy. The only man I had ever dated, got serious with and wanted to have children with.Things have been extraordinarily difficult over the years but we made it through. In 1996 he broke his back, and again in 2001. He is in constant pain now and he is no longer sociable. He hates our kids, doesn't even converse with me unless it can be answered with a yes, no or I dunno. It's come down to 'I love you but I can't live with you anymore'. But how do you say it and not feel like a crumb?

2007-08-23 17:50:06 · 23 answers · asked by *{luna}* 2