Marriage & Divorce - 23 August 2007

2007-08-23 03:28:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it just my guy I swear it's like a bad movie one day sweet next day a totole jerk. then he text's me that he loves me very much then calls me on his way from work being an *** why can't men just be up front and to the point?????

2007-08-23 03:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by manda 1

i was laid off 5 or 6 months ago, i got a job it starts in 2 weeks (been married 6 years with 2 kids) and my husband has been paying the bills but he has been complaining the whole time he says he is tired of it that i should be paying for everything cause a woman should not the man, he says when i get my paychecks i am back to paying everything and i will have to pay him back all that he has calculated he has paid for those months! our son had to go to school with shoes that dont even fit him cause he said i should learn my lesson for not working. we dont have any food in the fridge either, just some hotdogs cause he said this is another lesson. what do you all think i should do?

2007-08-23 03:19:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Anyone have any ideas to get hubby more interested in helping with the baby? We have a 7 mo old that he ADORES, however it seems to be my responsibility to take care of her. We BOTH work full-time, we don't have the funds to hire a maid or quit our jobs. But he will get home, say he's tired and retreats to the tv all night to leave me to change, feed, bathe, etc the baby. If I ask him to watch her he will but he leaves her in dirty diapers (he didn't notice). Also she's eating solids and if she gets hungry while he's watching her he just hands her a bottle so he can finish his video games. He does a few cleaning things around the house when I don't have time but then he jumps on me about how I don't help out with cleaning enough. His parents where nothing like this, honestly his dad did more around the house than his mom. So I don't know where he's getting this example. Please help! I'm so tired and getting very resentful.

2007-08-23 03:16:14 · 8 answers · asked by brigirl_00 2

My husband has recently started frequenting a strip club for the first time in his life (he is 23). We just moved to a town where literally the only place here to "go out" is this strip club. I know he is not cheating on me because he has before and I know the signs. He enjoys going out and has told me I can go with him to "check it out" and see that there really is nothing that bad going on there. He really does not give the stippers much money, and basically he only buys drinks and admission in. This whole thing upsets me and he understands that, however I also understand that he has never been and probably never will be the type of guy who can sit in the house and watch tv everynight. We have an appointment next week for marriage counseling and do not believe in divorce. Any suggesions?

2007-08-23 03:13:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

e.g. at foreplay would you dirty 'talk' about having another woman in the bed 'giving you a little lick' or maybe 'giving him a suck' or 'letting him have a go on her etc but only keep it strictly as a fantasy.

2007-08-23 03:06:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-23 03:06:02 · 17 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5

I talked my boyfriend into going to court, and getting partial custody of his daughter. He hasn't seen her in three years, and paying child support. He listened to me, and now he's been going to court for it for about five months.

Even if I don't think its right for me to get involved (which I do), I realized he hasn't asked me to go to court with him for support, once.

I'm not upset over it or anything, but now i'm wondering, why

2007-08-23 03:01:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hubby got big into porn 6 years ago,blew $10,000 between porn and fees/bank charges from hiding it and being financially iresponsible.I paid it off.He dabbled in work,then we got a business-his dream.I put all my savings,borrowed...into this cause I knew he'd be good at it.He was,loved it,was happy...for the 1st 6 months,then got cocky and got addicted to cocaine-said he deserved it.That was 3 years ago.We bankrupted,he went thru rehab (but he's confessed that he has used drugs as recently as a few months ago).When doing drugs,he was physically abusive and I reacted by getting counseling.but also buried my pain by drinking excessively.I haven't drunk or wanted to for 6 months.I filed for divorce and he moved out in May.I like him out,but we see alot of each other because of the kids,he is being great about helping to run them to practices.He has worked steadily for 11/2 years and claims that he is working on himself.I care about him,not love love-should he get another chance?

2007-08-23 02:59:47 · 18 answers · asked by Angie07 1

I have a friend who is a little upset with me right now because I tell her the truth as a real friend is supposed to do right? She is always complaining to me about her husband-she says:
he is lazy and won't clean up after himself-leaves hair in bathroom after her cuts his hair, makes dishes but leaves them in sink for her to wash, etc. He doesn't work-he says he is trying to get something of his own business started but in meantime he is doing nothing but making up excuses as to why he shouldn't work(he'll say how am i supposed to figure out how to start my own business if I'm working all day)-(mind you this has been going on for 2yrs now, I mean come on!!!) She works fulltime and has baby in daycare cause he is to lazy to look after THEIR BABY!!!!!!!!! She has to work, go get baby and tend to baby all night, cook, clean- EVERYTHING. Any errands-she does it-alone! She always asks my opinion but gets mad when I tell her she needs to change her situation and that he is using her.Agree?

2007-08-23 02:54:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are we trying to EARN their affection?

It seems that women will go to the end of their sanity to give their husband affection and joy, but the man will make little to no effort (sometimes negative effort) to give their wife affection. Maybe a man can answer this...maybe the women can affirm it?

2007-08-23 02:34:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-23 01:42:10 · 3 answers · asked by bday_hunter 1

2007-08-23 00:29:40 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 2

I found out my partner played around behind my back 6 months ago. Well since then we've started seeing each other again & he states he is truley sorry & wants us to be together again. Well i'm wanting to leave my options open & not commit to anything just yet because i'm not sure what i want. I'm chatting to other guys on the internet but haven't had any other contact with men. My ex knows all of this as i've been 100% honest about it all. Thing is i'm just wondering if anybody feels i'm doing the wrong thing?? I just don't want to rush back into a relationship with a man i'm not sure i can trust. Any feedback is welcome. for the record, we were in a very long relationship & have 2 young children together.

2007-08-23 00:16:47 · 16 answers · asked by Mishell 4

2007-08-23 00:15:53 · 8 answers · asked by jadhav 1

And long term significant others do the same, I'm sure.
For ex. my husband wants a fit skinny wife, but scoffs when I need to go to the gym. He wants a sparkly clean house but is soooo messy. You can't have it all. Why can't people be consistent? Vent and answer!

2007-08-23 00:03:44 · 9 answers · asked by Sleek 7