is it just my guy I swear it's like a bad movie one day sweet next day a totole jerk. then he text's me that he loves me very much then calls me on his way from work being an *** why can't men just be up front and to the point?????
2007-08-23 03:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by manda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i say run for the hills! sounds like trouble to me! i was in a relationship like that and i married the guy....2 weeks after we were married the "sweet" went out the door and the "jerk" was there to stay. i ended up pregnant and we stayed together until my son was about 8 months and then he left... thank goodness! don't do it. there are so many other guys out there who are sweet and NOT jerks! you don't have to put up with that...all guys are NOT like that!
2007-08-23 03:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats unusual. It he possibly bi-polar? Or is he trying to play games? Some guys will do the hot/cold attitude because they always heard 'nice guys finish last' and they think it will keep the woman interested in him. Whenever my husband is being a jerk I just nicely tell him that I need to get off the phone, run an errand, etc. Guys hate to be ignored. They learn that they don't get 'rewarded' for the bad behavior. I recommend a book called "Why Men Love B*tches". It's not as literal as it sounds but it did WONDERS for my relationship. Good luck!
2007-08-23 03:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by brigirl_00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? Do you really have to ask that question? Well, ask yourself, because there is something wrong with you if you're going to stay with some idiot that's disrespecting you like that. Of course, he's gonna threaten to kill you if you leave him, because he won't have anyone to abuse, to take out his anger on, or feel like he's in control of when you leave, because he knows deep down, he is a complete failure. Well, you are a complete failure too if you stay with such a loser and if you had at least a tiny bit intelligent, you would go to Police, have him arrested and get a Restraining Order. Get it together! He's just a boyfriend, you don't have to file for divorce! Your letting some stupid boyfriend ruin your life and you only have one life!
2016-05-20 23:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my husband has never acted like this if anything i am the one who gets like this sometimes. My husband is an absolute sweet heart!
Maybe your hubby has bipolar. Have you ever thought about that? They have medication for that you know! All the woman in my family are bipolar, thankfully i do not have it as bad. I use to be very bad but i got it under control, i never really get those moods just once in a while!
2007-08-23 03:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again, you get what you can out of this life. You generalize all men based on your guy, and a real confident lady would never do that because she knows that you evaluate people based on their individual character and attitude.
2007-08-23 03:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. They say that women are moody, but I've had way more than my share of moody men! I hope that you get yours figured out soon, for your sanity!!
2007-08-23 03:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by Momof3inIL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO why do u compare people to movies
and no that not the school from high school muscial its a really school which i need to kno the city
cuz im moving there from ohio
thanx alot dork
2007-08-23 03:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know where you found your man but mine has never ever treated me like this.
2007-08-23 03:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋