Marriage & Divorce - 22 August 2007

If you saw a picture of your girl at a party and one of her best GUY friends was hugging her from behind, arms under her boobs and her smiling...and him kissing (almost looks like biting her should)...would you think it was innocent?..and that they were just joking around?...FYI, i wasn't at this party because we had a fight...and she didn't want me to come after the fight because she said she needed time...time for what?

...Also, she didn't show me this picture..she left it up on her computer on one of those kodak websites of pics her girlfriend sent to her...and i saw it...

..here's the thing...she cheated on her ex hubby....and i met the guy in the pic..nice guy, but she is SUPER affectionate around him and dresses to kill whenever she is around him...hangs on him, hugging him and touching him, but not like she hangs on me...we are both in our 30's...and she still communicates with her ex's, even though she says its on a friendly level.

2007-08-22 23:54:42 · 13 answers · asked by dude 1

Obviously an extention of my previous Q...What can i do to make this easier....i help around the house...share "baby duties"...try to make life as easy for her as possible. Is there anything else in particular i can do to ease it up for her...How long does it usually last...etc...?

2007-08-22 23:40:29 · 4 answers · asked by dislocated_82 3

From many of these questions this AM I am wondering if anybody really knows what ex means? Do we still see each other, like each other a little, sex when no one else is available? It has been starting to sound like ex is a "on hold" state of life! So, ex. Permanent or Part time separation?
Have fun with this.
Ready, set, go!

2007-08-22 23:34:25 · 13 answers · asked by duanehofner 3

2007-08-22 23:18:52 · 29 answers · asked by lucy a 1

They just talk on the trivial matter like soccer, fishing, weather etc but not personal stuff? So do they then share their personal stuff with their female friends?

2007-08-22 23:16:23 · 22 answers · asked by candie 4

I become cold towards him n did not want to be bothered with what's happening to him. Am I punishing myself? or being just plain stupid to do this.

2007-08-22 23:06:55 · 21 answers · asked by candie 4

is it right for a girl to marry after the age of 35????????

2007-08-22 22:16:32 · 23 answers · asked by goldielamplit 1

I didnt go to college, I married this smart handsome man when I was 19. We've been married for 7 years. I came from a very simple family, my parents are housekeepers and we really didnt have a luxurious lifestyle.

However, as i said, I married this young corporate lawyer. He comes from a very rich family. His dad owns a toy factory, while his mom was a senior accountant in a large auditing firm. He was 26 when we married.

After marraige, ive lived a life of luxury. We live in a 15 bedroom mansion. We have maids and butlers, but we dont have children. My husband has given me everything I want. It has been a fairy tale

My husband has always been respectful of me, but last week he requested that i join him and 2 other couple friends he has in a sexual activity, he called it an orgy. It shocked me. I said no.
For 3 or 4 days he hasnt spoken to me. This is the first time he has ignored me. Should I just let him bring me to the orgy? Is it immoral? will i go to hell?

2007-08-22 21:46:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am disabled and i need his insurance, also it would break up the all family. The finances are all intermixed, and can only run one household.

2007-08-22 21:42:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

close friends for years and he's liked me since then; he's the "shy type" yet comfortable telling me things and never had girlfriend.
Beg of this yr, i fell for him deeply and we "got together" (gave him his first kiss, cuddles, holding hands, 1st base - innocent).
BUT we decided to stay friends and not rush things. After this, he was going through a hard time with tragedy and we haven't really talked.

about a month ago we texted, he heard about a guy liking me and just was asking about him (i think he wanted to hear my reaction) and after i said this line - don't know why:
(i'll try w. someone else, its too bad he's far away) that's when he started acting like an A S S and telling me how to play the game and that i should be with other
guys so they could get with me - very rude.

Someone told me it's because he was jealous and was so hurt and sad, HE THOUGHT i had moved on. The truth is, i never stopped loving him
but i don't want a relationship. If he "didn't care",why would it matter this be such a big deal to him?

2007-08-22 21:41:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

By that question I mean, at what age do women realize they aren't going to get a rich, tall, superfit, passionate, caring, loving, sensitive and tough, exciting, and handsome soulmate? so then they realize they themselves aren't perfect either so they lower their expectations of men and try to have realistic expectations of men.

P.S

I haven't been dumped or anything so dont say "you will find the one! LOL!" im 16 and im just wondering

2007-08-22 21:27:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

A case of good friends that fell in love - drama in and out, challenges, life situations occured, and rumors/assumptions, people's ideas are getting the best of us - the last we spoke, we misunderstood each other and we haven't talked in a month. I want to clarify things and reassure him and hope things are okay

how can i do this?
is email too impersonal?
is a letter the right thing or too girlie?

suggestions please?

2007-08-22 21:19:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im getting bored at home with only kids to comunicate with, then my partner comes in from work and wonders why im bored and have nothing to talk about! then she is often asleep for the night before the kids. which effects our love life! so now im bored and frustrated ( not all the time ). i often feel like giving it all up and clearing off and doing my own thing! not much of a question! any words of advise/ encouragment or any bright ideas ???

2007-08-22 21:19:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 27 and she is 18, we got married 3 months ago, she is my uncle's daughter, bcos of some family problems i have married her, but i feel she is not enough matured in understanding my love or she is scared, i am confused, i love her a lot...please give me some guidance to get her love.

2007-08-22 20:59:44 · 21 answers · asked by Vinny 1

Should I wait for a man I have been with for two years he said he is not happy and dont think I am he says we might get back together and I kinda wanna wait an see because we have a baby together but I dont wanna wait and find out he found somone new .........WHAT CAN I DO...

2007-08-22 20:58:14 · 8 answers · asked by Heather marie 1

I am still married but hanging by a thread...actually to me (and her more than likely) it is only a matter of time...we have only been married since the end of may...i know that sounds bad...but let me explain....wwe started seeing eachother last year around may and fell deeply in love...she then got pregnant in july and we both made the commitment there and then to stay together....sounds naive i know but if u new the circumstabces you would understand...we had our beautiful baby boy last st pattys day and then had the wedding...and up till then things had been wonderful...but since the wedding things have gone quickly down hill...she fights with me constantly and i know she is miserable...i love her more than any words could prove or say...but to no avail...how can i cope when the one person i live my life for chooses to leave? what can i expect afterward? please help me...im so lost and distressed

2007-08-22 20:39:10 · 6 answers · asked by dislocated_82 3

thank you to those who answerd honestly.some was very helpfull...the trust is there.but not as it should be.it has happend that i caught him lieing or not tell me things or telling another woman he loves and mis her..says shes just a friend and shes married.the lies well he says he was wrong and that his sorry.i believe him and trust he wont do it again but the insecurity abt wot his prominsing is knocking on my door and i dont want to open it but damit how can i turn a blind eye to that.or should i.did i open the door.how do i ignore.im i overreacting.im i looking for something thats not there.im i fighting a losing battle.im i pushing.i cant ask him this cause im not sure if his honest or not at the moment.maybe he is maybe its not him its me.i dont know!

2007-08-22 20:33:43 · 12 answers · asked by musicslave 1

All my husband wants to talk about is me having sex with this friend of mine while he watches. He doesn't want to be involved just watch. He also makes comments about watching me get a lap dance from a stripper. I'm not entirely opposed to this, but I am afraid of what else this could bring into the relationship

2007-08-22 20:26:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and I have been together about 5months now we both love each other...i had decided not to have sex with him for the 1st year but somehow everytime i meet him i keep going one step closer to having sex with him (he doesnt push me into it at all its hard for me to stay in limits)...what shall i do??has anyone else gone thru this?

2007-08-22 20:20:43 · 14 answers · asked by kera 2

or engaged for that matter.
even if they are in love and have been together 6+ years.
what do you think?

2007-08-22 20:19:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 20:02:29 · 8 answers · asked by navin sarvanan 1

2007-08-22 19:55:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not saying all arabs do, but it seems a lot are very violent and abusive toward their wives, why is that?

My girlfriends ex-husband was an arab. He would verabally abuse her and threaten to beat her up. He told her he broke his sisters jaw and the same would happen to her if she didn't keep quiet and let him fool around with all the women he wanted to. She was scared to death to divorce the guy.

2007-08-22 19:55:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in a play at a community theater and i am the love interest... i am married with a baby in real life and i have to kiss this guy in the play and i cant get over the awkwardness of it, so i just laugh.... i know we cant progress and be believable if i dont get over my immaturity but this is the first time ive been in a role like this since ive been married, so i have a fine line of innapropriate i have to dance around..... we havnt kissed yet but we have to on friday and i need a trick or something to get my mind off the giggly thing ive been doing......

2007-08-22 19:53:02 · 11 answers · asked by renai0718 2

I've been married for nearly 2 years now and find myself completely frustrated and increasingly growing distant from my husband. He was a very spoiled mama's boy before we got married. Now, I feel like his maid and secretary more than his wife. He never picks up his trash or puts laundry in the hamper although I'd asked him to several times. He constantly demands that I fetch everything for him when he's at home such as a drink, cigarettes, his phone, etc. He never tries to do much of anything for himself, instead demanding that I take care of it. I feel so worn out and used from constantly meeting his demands. My resentment is building everyday until I begin to wonder if i even still love him. I've tried discussing these things with him but he doesn't do talks about emotions and feelings unless he's drunk. In fact, he hasn't even told me he loves me in over 2 months. I want to work it out but am I really just beating a dead horse?

2007-08-22 19:52:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

age difference is the only hesitatation

2007-08-22 19:50:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple of days ago my boyfriend and I went to breakfast and I saw a misterious name in his phone. Not because I was checking but he was goining through his phone in my presence. I asked him about one of his numbers and he claimed he didn't know who she is. He even volunteered to call the number and the person on the other line claim not to know him or me. Today he was really late coming home from work (which is unusual) so I called him. The first two times he didn't answer the phone. The last time he did and said he was right around the corner. Then all of a sudden he called back yelling at me for calling him with a tone of voice I guess he didn't appreciate. I am a worrier and I just wanted to make sure he was okay. I've done this serveral times before and it's never been a problem. In my heart I know something isn't right. But at the same time when I think I see trouble I'm out the door. My instincts tell me to leave. Please I need some serious advice.

2007-08-22 19:36:03 · 13 answers · asked by D 3

because they found there life was dull or think they need a change in lifestyle, would you take them back if there plan went "itts" up.

2007-08-22 19:34:08 · 54 answers · asked by Dibski 3

My husband and I have 2 children and he's going overseas for work and we won't be with him for a while. So I need something from the kids that he could take with him from them (they're 3 and 19 months)
And also I need to give or do something special for him before he goes... I'm very open minded so throw any ideas at me for my present to him.

He's a very simple person, who puts me and the kids before himself... so I want to do something special just to make sure he knows how much he means to us...
Likes: motorbikes, country music, me and the kids!!
Dislikes: jewellry

Any help would be great thanx!!

2007-08-22 19:30:34 · 9 answers · asked by JazzyKat 2

My Husband wants to stay together he says he needs counseling and wants to go to couples counseling,but this man has lied to the point where I am emotionally drained he even went so far as to have his friends lie for him only they are about as smart as he is which isnt good.My thing is he lied alot to be with this other woman and that to me says he wanted to be with her he did anything to get out of the house to see her and disrespected not just me but our babies gone for days at a time no phone call or anything I did my part so why should I stick it out with him,he still resents his ex wife for what she did to him she treated him like he was beneath a pile of dog crap now he finally admits that he needs help and I dont understand just what am I supposed to do I have done my part and I have paid for what she did to him many many times and they were divorced 4 years before I met him my heart says leave what should I do?????

2007-08-22 19:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by CaliMa 3