Marriage & Divorce - 22 August 2007

My husband and I planned a baby together. We got pregnant. I am 31 weeks along now. And now he doesnt want it. I dont understand. He doesnt even want to get anything for the baby.

2007-08-22 10:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by ck_crumb 1

Okay my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Todays my birthday and he got me nothing. Not even a card. He said he just couldn't think of anything to get me and that he'll make it up to me later. Should I be mad or am I being petty?

2007-08-22 10:19:09 · 15 answers · asked by Princess 1

I want to try something new with my Fiance. So I was thinking of video taping us when we have sex but I want it to look good and I don't want to just prop it up on top of the TV. How can I make it look good? With good lighting, too. Would candles flickering look good or dimmed light? Would it be better if he or I held the camera and just video taped what we want? Plz don't say get someone to video tape it for us because nobody is invited in the bedroom with us..lol.

2007-08-22 09:59:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

this man is not from my country i even dont know him much but he says he loves me n dis n dat

2007-08-22 09:42:18 · 20 answers · asked by fkmsfgm 1

2007-08-22 09:40:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 09:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this is it. I got remarried. After a few years he stopped wanting sex. And I wanted it...alot. But when I would try with him he would say I am too tired. Then I would wake up in the middle of the night and I would catch him watching porn and pleasing himself. well after awhile of this I started talking to guys on the online game I played. I started talking to them on the game and on the phone. Phone sex actually. I was going to leave cus I felt like because he didn't want to have sex with me or do anything with me or go out we had a chance to buy a house twice and he didn't want to. But I didn't leave he asked me not to. I stayed. He continued to get better and I did to. He aventually left and said it was cus I cheated on him (online) two weeks later I found a email from his coworker saying I love you. they broke up. This was all a year ago. He says hes not comin back but is over every day. Was I totally bad wife? I am sorry for what I did. and yes I love him

2007-08-22 09:37:50 · 25 answers · asked by youcandoit 4

DONT FORGET MY STARS, THANKS

2007-08-22 09:34:17 · 63 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2

Ladies,when you get married are you

a) changing your lastname
b) keeping your lastname
c) hypenating your last name.


I don't want to part with my lastname, I like it too much. I think I might hyphenate it though. =) I'm too loyal to my family to drop it entirely.

2007-08-22 09:18:22 · 14 answers · asked by Megegie 5

We get along OK now. 5 yrs. ago when we divorced he was very bitter for a while and occasionally still gets a little snotty with me from time to time. which impacts our sensitive daughter. I have tried very hard to be polite and keep peace for her sake and he is a decent person. Things have been quite peaceful lately. I dread telling him of my re-marriage as I fear he will start being a jerk to me again. Should I write him a letter, tell him in person or tell him over the phone? Although he is in a relationship he seems to still harbor some feelings for me apparent in some of the tasteful compliments he occasionally gives of which I simply say "thank you" It will be wierd no matter what as it is forced closure for him . How can I handle this ever so tactfully? Just want to keep the peace for my daughter's sake.

Thanks
Ms. Just Want To Move On

2007-08-22 09:15:02 · 15 answers · asked by verypolish1 1

IS it just me, but I am having seperation anxiety with changing my name after getting married in May. Seriously I didn't care before I got married about my name but now I seem very attached to it. Everytime I see my new last name on anything I seem to get all weird! I love my husband and know it will take time, I just want to know if I am alone in these feeelings.

2007-08-22 09:13:38 · 19 answers · asked by pryncyzz 1

2007-08-22 09:12:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My neighbor has a husband in El salvador and she recently married another guy here in the US. Isn't this illegal? Even if it's two different countries?

2007-08-22 09:03:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I are both 35.I just got him his first Credit Card and it came 2 days before school started, which was perfect because I had no money to get my kids school stuff (we moved last month and the move-in fees came from my paychk) and I have 2 kids from my previous marriage. But when I called him to ask if I can open it he said no, that he would (since he's never had one before...WTF?) Anyway, he NEVER even offered to help me with the school stuff. He just let it sit there on the nightstand. I am so hurt because I earn most of the money and pay all the big bills, so I am always paying for things when we go out...etc. This really makes me not want to marry him. Why would he do that?

2007-08-22 08:44:29 · 24 answers · asked by mchsm2004 1

My husband wants me to call him dirty in bed while we are having sex. He said its upto me to call him. He told me that he think about dirty words when i give him pleasure or when we have S**. I don't know what to say. He told me to say I love his Big **** but I don't know what else to say . I want to come up with something new. Help me.

2007-08-22 08:40:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents are very traditional, and always wanted me to finish my graduate degree before I got married. My fiance and I are both 20 years old, in our third year of college. We've already been together 3 years. We plan to marry after we graduate from college in 1 year. How should I tell my parents? His parents approve and are very happy for us, but up to now my parents have refused to even MEET my boyfriend because they know that if they meet him they'll have to discuss marriage... and they just don't think I'm old enough to do that yet. How should I tell them that he is now my fiance, and that he wants to meet them to tell them our plans for marriage?

I just know that my dad will get really mad and refuse to speak to me or something... I know they can't PREVENT us from getting married, but I'd like to have their blessing! My parents live a 4 hour plane ride from us, so we can't really get to them easily or just invite them out to ea

2007-08-22 08:35:04 · 14 answers · asked by reba 1

2007-08-22 08:28:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am turning 21 next Friday and my ex husband ( we seperated two weeks ago and we've been together for 6 years not legally married but he's like my husband) asked me to go out and celebrate it with him. The only thing is that i have no clue of where i want to go. I live in Dallas, TX and i have no idea of where a romantic place we could go to also make up and get back together...Help me any ideas of where to go or what i should do instead....Thank you'll i would really appreciate it...

2007-08-22 08:28:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thinking back over the past year,i ignored the signs that my wife may be in contact with another man.She asked for a divorce this past April.She said it just wasn't working out. I asked her for the truth and she swore on a bible in front of me there was no one else.Last week i found out she has reconected with a man from 20 years ago.He moved her to his city,rented her a town house for her to live in.Problem is that he is married and has 8 kids.His wife left him around the time i started being suspicious about her behaivior.All the subtle clues she gave me know make sense.I have spoken to this guys wife and she says my wife and her husband had been texting up to ten times a day going back some 10 months.While i was still married.His wife didn't know he was paying all her expenses.I guess i blew the cover on that secret...All i ever asked of my wife was the truth,she couldn't do it.How can she live with herself,does she have no shame or guilt about what she is doing,to me.Makes me sick.

2007-08-22 08:27:08 · 28 answers · asked by Rodger M 1

How does it affect your relationship with your spouse? I would like to hear some stories...thanks.

2007-08-22 08:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Wonder Woman 3

Should I be careful? I met this guy online in June.We have been dating eachother ever since.Lately he has?
began telling me that he wants me to move to his city. We live only 30 min away from each other.I dont have my own apartment because I have to help my grandmother,she wants me here.He has been looking for apartments in his city for me.The rent is really high where he lives.Why does he want me to just pick up and move there to be with him.The only help that he has offered is to rent a car and help move my belongings from here to there.He said that I am always coming to his place and he doesnt want to come to mine because it is too far.Could he be abusive?
Is this a warning?
Should I be carefull?
Does this mean that he wants to get married?Should I be carefull?
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be careful

2007-08-22 08:18:34 · 24 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2

i have already gone out with him twice and i want to be with him!!!!!

2007-08-22 08:08:19 · 43 answers · asked by jaja 1

we live together and no we didn't meet until after we seperated from our sig others. But it is fun to here her say lets get married and I respond but we are or did you mean to each other

2007-08-22 08:06:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you say, "I love you" - what does that mean to you?

2007-08-22 07:55:25 · 17 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5

Are happier than children IN broken homes. True or false?

2007-08-22 07:54:05 · 11 answers · asked by meagain 4

If you are a guy, have you dated single mothers? Was the experience good and did you see a future or was it just too much work? In your opininon would you continue to date single moms or rather go after someone without kids? Did you notice that the kids were spoiled because they were the momma's whole world? Did you notice that the single mom's parents were always in your life? I'm not making a judgement on single mom's just want some people's experiences with it. I've experienced some of these and have met a lot of great single moms, others i have horror stories.

2007-08-22 07:53:07 · 14 answers · asked by survivor 1

I recently, while putting some clothes away for my girl, found a small bottle of KY and 3 condoms (the ones you get in a three pack)...now we do not use a condom EVER when we have sex (yes, i know, you are saying DUMBASS)...but we don't. ...nonetheless...a little bit of the KY was used...it is in her bottom drawer next to her bed...is this something to be worried about...could they be from a long time ago and just forgot about them?....we have been together for 3 months and i see her everyday (meaning i see her everynight and weekends)...could she be saving them for OTHER sexual activities for us?...or do you think that they could have been for someone else...RECENTLY?...any thoughts...this is killing me...thanks guys!

2007-08-22 07:49:23 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

keep trying or just give up, especially when you truly love that person and have three children with them?

2007-08-22 07:45:16 · 19 answers · asked by beba 1

Soon after we got married, my husband began losing interest in sex and intimacy, to the point where he got used to just holding hands and quick kisses. Now 2 years later, I feel I live with a roommate, sharing bills and household chores. He has no interest in being intimate and I feel like he's not attracted to me anymore. I know I haven't changed -- I still brush my teeth, gone back to the weight pre-pregnancy, which is slim...For the many times I felt rejected, just a touch and him pushing me away, I stopped trying, and feel that we have lost the spark. He needs to be reminded of how I feel, goes fine for a week, then he retreats to himself. He's nice all other ways, helping in the house, rubbing my feet, but that's it. I don't understand it. Any ideas? We started seeing a counselor but I'm angry at this point that he can't provide the basic needs of even a boyfriend. I'm thinking we're heading towards a divorce.

2007-08-22 07:40:32 · 12 answers · asked by Alyse 3

Does anyone know if a wife can bring a civil suit against the woman who knowingly went into an adulterous relationship with her husband? Has it been done before that anyone knows of?

2007-08-22 07:34:44 · 19 answers · asked by jimmiejohnsoncar_48 1