Marriage & Divorce - 18 August 2007

i am a hindu (indian citizen) who wants to be married to a belgium citizen. our advocate has advised us to marry at the indian embassy at belgium as that is the fastest way. kindly let us know the required document and step by step procedure to be married under special marriage act in indian embassy at belgium

2007-08-18 23:20:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I left my husband a couple of weeks ago because I think he's cheating. Here's why:

1. He works late with his pretty assistant who dresses like a tramp sometimes and flirts with him

2. He smells like perfume when he comes home and it's definetly not the kind I use

3. I found a matchbook with a hotel name on it in his pants pocket

4. One of my friends saw him at a restuarant with the trampy assistant.

5. The trampy assistant is very pretty and yet has no boyfriend.

What do you think?

2007-08-18 21:30:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello,

I am Hindu adult male intending to marry a Muslim adult female. We are currently residing with our respective parents. We would like to get married without parent's knowledge since we do not have their consent.

We went to DC's office to submit application under Special Marriage Act. We had all paperwork ready. However the clerk said that registered letters would be sent within 5-10 days to our permanent residence (parent's residence) to notify them of our application in case they have any objection. Since we do not want our parents to know, this created an problem. So we decided not to apply that day and first check if this true.

Is this true that our residences would be notified of the marriage application? We don't want parents to know, so what should we do? I would be grateful for your help.

Thanks.

2007-08-18 21:29:04 · 3 answers · asked by C.M. 1

My husband comes from a family of cheating women at least 5 generations of them that he knows about!

His great GRANDMOTHER cheated, and got pregnant with 2 other mens baby's, his GRANDMOTHER cheated and had at least on child by another man, his mother cheated, his 4 aunts on mothers side cheated, his sisters cheated and gotten divorced because of it it has in short made my husband "AWARE" of what to look for and can spot a cheater "ANYWERE" at anytime!

I have 2 childhood friends one lives only a mile away from us and the other lives in DENVER, and when we all got together my husband knew they were cheating so he exposed them both it got bad and now both are getting divorced!

My husband wont tolerate a cheat who ever it is and exposes them without mercy, when I asked him why he just said he still sees his father crying after what his mother did to him!

Side note when his mother cheated he found out and exposed her , when she started to yell at her husband he broke her nose!

2007-08-18 20:46:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-08-18 20:22:10 · 14 answers · asked by questionsanswered 1

2007-08-18 20:04:36 · 42 answers · asked by mohomad afzal s 1

Does he need to give special attention or can you love him just as he is? I know you can't buy love! You have to feel it! To be in love with someone else, has to be the greatest feeling in the world. To have someone to talk to, someone to help you, and someone just to be there, when you need it!!

2007-08-18 20:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by Ben 2

I've been married for 3 years now and my husband and I keep separate checking accounts. I dont know how much he makes and he doesnt know how much I make. He pays the mortgage and all the bills and I buy the groceries and pay my own personal bills (the ones he doesn't know I have). Do you think this is healthy? We dont argue over money so I think it's ok, but I'm curious what others think.

2007-08-18 19:21:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so I called my baby's sperm donor and asked him when I get married again would he be opposed to my new husband adopting my son. I am trying to be honest and straightforward with him. He said no. Then I explained that I wanted my child to have a normal life. No going between homes, no being confused. He gave this whole spill about how I am wanting to do this for me and I said, well, name one thing i said that i am wanting to do for myself. He couldn't. I told him this is not about me and it is not about him it is about the child and what is best for him. I asked to atleast think about what I had said and he said he would. Do you think I handled this right since he hasn't called or seen him in two months. Do you think there is a possibility that it will get me anywhere?

2007-08-18 19:06:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I've known my brother in law for 5 years and lately in the past few months I have found myself having these feelings that I have never felt before I love my husband so much we have been threw alot together and he is my bestfriend I will never give him up for anything in the world but I dont know what to do with myself I just get really funny feelings when he is near me and I try so hard to not listen to those feelings but sometimes I wish that he can just grab me and kiss me but then I think about it and fight with that urge I been trying so hard not to let him know about it I guess thats what I should do just keep it to myself I dont want to ruin the only thing thats good in my life Please can anyone say anything to help me feel better Thanks

2007-08-18 19:03:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're separated. My husband helps me financially. He
takes me to movies, dinner. We are seeing a counselor.
We've been separated 4 months now. I don't see him coming
running to me and wanting to live together again. Does he
want to take it slow or is it over.I dont know if to continue and
let it run its course or just end the marriage.

2007-08-18 18:52:23 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Naive 1

Lets say your guy just got a job going into his second paycheck and you both get paid around the same time. He tells you that his broke but your using your money to pay for things. You soon find out that he was not broke. This angers you alot so you kick him out. Giving that their are three kids inbetween you as well, he doesn't put up an argument to stay. Would you be hurt even though you told him to leave? Then he doesn't act hurt leaving the kids? What do you make of this?

2007-08-18 18:49:17 · 5 answers · asked by Promise 2

my best friend is getting a divorce. she's been at our house A LOT lately (as you'd expect). BUT, she keeps saying to my husband "do you have a brother just like you?" (he has no siblings). and we went out to dinner tonight and she said "people will probably think i'm your other wife and we're all a happy morman family". my husband went to bed before she left tonight and when she was leaving she stepped just inside the doorway to my bedroom to see if he was in there... here's the thing, i KNOW she's had affairs with married men before... i know she has some low self esteem because of the relationship she's getting out of... AM I BEING PARANOID? these are not the ONLY things she's said... but that's the things she said TODAY.

2007-08-18 18:49:13 · 16 answers · asked by JayneDoe 5

I am 16 and a senior in H.S. My boyfriend is in the army. I live in Iowa and he is stationed in Texas. We love eachother and have talked about getting married. We are not engaged yet, and we haven't decided when to get engaged. He will be getting deployed in the April-July area and might ask me to marry him then. At that time I will be 17 and may/may not still be in highschool. If not then then he will when he comes back for R&R 6 months into his deployment, he will propose then. He says that after coming back from a war zone, he wants the rest of his life to start as soon as possible. I know that the millitary often causes people to get married too young. I face oppostion from parents and all other adults. I am looking for some positive feedback on ways to overcome that, as well as answers on the age factor.

2007-08-18 18:35:26 · 16 answers · asked by kristinatms 2

well,..
i have a daughter from a Japanese guy,
But he filed an annulment case when our daughter was just 1 month old,
The question is......
Can my daughter still have the right for her visa??
also........
Where can I go to start working on her visa.....
need help please.................
thank you/..........

2007-08-18 18:22:08 · 2 answers · asked by hana... 1

OK well we are separated and have been for almost five months now. We have two kids and one on the way. She is 800 miles away. We talk almost everyday. but when we do she just confuses me more and more into an almost insane state of mind. She says its over and then she will call back and say I'm sorry you know its not. She say im just so confused. i know she isnt cheating because she is pregnant with my baby. recently she sent a discreet pic of herself. its like she has one foot still with me and one foot out the door.

2007-08-18 18:12:59 · 8 answers · asked by jess l 1

What do you define any of these terms?
How much does it cost to marry a wife in your area ?
What is the significants of it as a history ?
How has it enriched the contract of marriage?
What if one changes his mind after years past, are there refunds ?
What is the ratio/rate of marriage between male and female within the ages of 22-30 years.
What is the divorce rate in your locality, please provide name of locality.

2007-08-18 17:59:16 · 4 answers · asked by Prince O 2

I feel so lost. any advice?

2007-08-18 17:51:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father is from country side, narrow minded, very generalized. he works hard and saves money and $hit, but he doesnt care family from 'inside'. he always blame other people, especially my mother, for his faults

my mother is from city, open mined, out going, always cheerful and warm hearted. she's a stereotypical mom. and she's also my role model.

they arent ideal couple, but mother was almost forced to get married to him.
she really had hard life with him but she moved along without fuss. he always verbally attacks mother and i tell him not to. but i guess he think i'm still a kid(im 18)

mom asked me today about my opinion on divorce. and i definitely agreed. she said we need to watch how things go, but i cant take this anymore.
that man made my mother's life into misery, and yet he didnt appologized once

i feel pity for father, since he worked hard on his job to carry his family, but he i wont wanna see my mom unhappy anymore

should they divorce or not?

2007-08-18 17:44:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it soo hard. I feel like my two best friends are soo sick of hearing me whine. But no matter how close I get I chicken out. No job no stability....sometimes here seems better. I would rather live in chaos than move in with relatives and be uncomfortable or cause anyone else discomfort. I feel like why make others suffer for my mistakes. I don't want me or my children to be anyone elses burden. But...I'm sooo tired of carrying this cross. No one knows not family not friends, just my best friends. They say leave...well yeah but why is it soo hard. Why do you wake up wanting that person to just say sorry and mean it this time. To not be selfish! I think it will never happen... but find myself still waiting and wanting.
Aghhh How do I get my nerve up and go! I've never even called the cops on him for the abuse. He's either not let me or I've chickened out. I can't tell you how many police stations I have walked into hiding bruises under my clothes and just couldn't do it! WHY?

2007-08-18 17:43:39 · 62 answers · asked by Beautiful Liar 07 2

With 3 different guys. Last guy she says she is in love with, and not me. BUT, always a but right? She says to everyone including New Love, that I am the Best father in the world. And she says to everyone that I am her BEST friend. affair with new love started july 1 2007. me and wife had had sex, but not made love in a LONG time. She told me all this August 3. On August 11, we started making love! We are also communicating better and actually talking. But she still maintains that she is in love with New Love, and isnt in love with me. Holding her we both say we love each other. We did start talking last night about sleeping apart, and how the lovemaking would only happen when we needed (or wanted) it. she says counseling fine to keep our friendship only. She also says plans on moving in with him in January. we have 2 kids 7 & 5. She is not suppose to have any more kids, medically. Lot more but thats enough for now

2007-08-18 17:24:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking for some married men to help me out on this one..
We both work, I am the bread winner, mother of 2, self employed, he works 2 good jobs, we love each other, but I wear the pants, he hates it, wants to wear the pants, I want to let him, but certain 'beyond our control steps' need to happend first and we are not quite there. But in the meantime, what can I do to build him up???

2007-08-18 16:37:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

If anyone has done this how was it after the deal with your spouse and friend? Wierd or ok?? We have been married for 11 years and are very open minded and our friend is a life long friend. We just dont want any problems after the thing YA Know!

2007-08-18 15:24:02 · 18 answers · asked by parents of 2 girls 1

like i said she is wearing more atractive under wear . she used perfumes. and she looks like she is in another world. she buoght a cell.

2007-08-18 14:48:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother use to be in the Army not to long ago, and while in the Army he chose to get married to a young woman just to make a little bit more money on his check! What a loser! But he has a girlfriend back here at home and what to be with her badly althought his slow butt is married! Now he wants a divorce and the young woman won't give it to him, also she getting ready to be deployed next month. He says that if he gets a divorce that she could take him for everything that he has. But never the less instead of him leaving the good life with his wife he chose to live back at home with his girlfriend and tough it out day after day. Everyone tells him to go live with his wife because she's better off with her than with his girlfriend. The wife has a big beautiful house, three car's and a very happy bank account. To tell you the truth I don't understand why he was to stay with his girlfriend living in a packed house. How can he get this divorce,does he have to wait until she comes back!

2007-08-18 14:42:30 · 6 answers · asked by CrystalTears 1

2007-08-18 14:25:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-18 14:18:06 · 37 answers · asked by Studd69 3

My dad always be so different after he's drunk. Because of him, I promised to myself that I'm not gonna get married with a guy who always drinks and annoys everyone around him.....

2007-08-18 13:50:12 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-18 13:46:43 · 22 answers · asked by ellen 4