is my wife cheating on me? n #1 she don want to have sex as often as she was. #2 she is taken so much time t

Question

like i said she is wearing more atractive under wear . she used perfumes. and she looks like she is in another world. she buoght a cell.

Answer 1

I don't know your wife but those are warning signs of cheating.

Answer 2

You can tell if she is cheating on you if she does not lay the phone down around you.And if she does not answer it or talk on it when you are around.Do you have the number to the phone.You said she was in a different world,which means she is cheating sorry to tell you .She is thinking of someone else.Try and remember when she leaves the house,how she looks.When she come back,do not stare at her but check her out does her hair really look the same as when she left.Look to see if her clothing look like they did when she left.When she come back does she seem distant and quiet.That will tell you she is not thinking of you.You probably already know she is and you just do not want come to grips with it.

Answer 3

Of course she is god-damned cheating on you. To hell with those who say 'open the lines of communication', what would you get out of that? "Alright, you caught me, I'm ******* around on you"? Of course not.

If she has made all these changes (I assume recently) and you've noticed and she still doesn't want to have sex with you, then she is absolutely cheating on you. The worst part is you can't even return the favor without a lot of work. For every woman that wants to go out and cheat, there are 800 men waiting to lay down some pipe.

You're SOL, and that sucks. About the only thing you can do is try to jack off a load on her while she is sleeping in those new panties.

Answer 4

It's possible but it could be hormonal or medications that's lowering her sex drive ,has she been her normal self lately or has she been under stress or feeling down?
She could be buying the sexy panties and perfumes to give herself a pickup and try to get back in the mood ,do you give her attention?
Have you even discussed any of this with her?
You should really try to talk to her without accusing her of cheating that won't make the conversation go well.

Answer 5

Maybe she's trying to get your attention, but I think that it could be a warning sign of it. Especially with getting the cell phone. I personally believe that for a husband and wife to have a good, happy marriage, they need to be transparent with each other and not keep secrets from each other, because when you start keeping secrets is when things can start going down hill.

Answer 6

Maybe it is you she is trying to get attention from! When a women cheats she has more sex with her husband, not less. This is a game we sometimes play to gain control and get what we want.

Pay more attention to her. Flirt and play. Tell her how beautiful she is. Sometimes women do all these things you said, to feel good about themselves. Sometimes, just to not feel left out with other women. You really could be very wrong. Don't assume anything.

Answer 7

Yes she is, or she is on the way. If buying sexy underwear is totally out of character for her, there is a reason. And if she isn't wanting sex with you, then you aren't the reason. She is feeling desired, sensous, and appealing.
If you are concerned, why don't you open the lines of communication and ask her? Maybe she's hoping you'll notice what's going on and stop her before it's too late.

Answer 8

If she is showing off her new underwear to you then you don't have anything to worry about. If she is just buying them and not showing them to you, then worry. Why did she buy the cell?

If she's not getting enough attention and intimacy from you, she may be looking elsewhere. You had better pay a lot more attention to your lady!

Answer 9

less sex was my sign. and getting all dolled up at freaking 5:30am in the morning. btw, the job i was at was casual, i could have worn sweats to work!
i would say she is cheating. i did the same thing. but then at the same time the guy i was cheating on didn't want to have sex with me anyway. so i definitely stopped nagging him for sex.
ask her if she is missing something from her marriage. then ask her if she wants to fix it and how she would like it to be fixed.

Answer 10

If YOU don't pay attention to the underwear, perfumes and the way she is trying to draw attention to herself, she will be cheating because she will think you aren't interested anymore. Someone else will be!

Answer 11

My guess would be YES! She is cheating. A cellphone is a dead giveaway.

Try coming on to her and see how she reacts, if she's responsive maybe she's not cheating BUT try to look at her cellphone one time. If she protects it like the crown jewels, she's cheating.