2007-08-18 20:22:10 · 14 answers · asked by questionsanswered 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You definitely need to be more specific. You can be abuse in more than one way. Do you mean emotionally, physically, sexually, mentally? C'mon, throw us a bone or something to work with.
2007-08-18 20:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by MissKittie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmmmm if u were abused u'd know, there would be no "did he/she do it or not" trust me been there done that.. Its not a "iffy" situation , its cut and dry.. with that said
If ur being abused, you need to get out of that situation NOW, not tomorrow , not next month, NOW.. because it only gets worse, when someone is abusive the more they can get away with the worse they get.. they will appologize, they will promise u the moon and the stars to get u to forgive them.. then turn around and abuse u again, and the more they feel they can "trap" u in a situaton, the worse they get, because they know u have no way out.. if ur being abused call the police, file a restraining order..and leave.. they WILL NOT wake up one day and change, YOU CAN NOT change them, THEY WILL NEVER see the error of their ways while u are still there..
So if ur being abused, now is the time to leave before it gets any worse, stay with a friend, relative, they have battered women shelters , (i know that one doesnt sound pleasant, but ive seen a couple and their not as bad as u think so atleast check into it before u Stay in the situation out of fear or humiliation of the thought of a shelter.. ) ..
2007-08-19 03:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only abused if you allow it. Abuse is allowed if a person make you feel inferior about yourself or question yourself. No is the first step. Stop is the second and the last step is when you take the first step out of the door and he see's your back for the last time. Good luck and do not allow him to smooth talk you. Never go back to a person that has abused you.
2007-08-19 03:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk with them and tell them how you fell and if they get mad then leave the house for a little while but try not to fight aboput it and if they are smart enought they with understand and say sorry and fix the problem and if tjhey don't they are stu[pid and immature but majke sure they have not been drinking before you talk with them it messes everyone up hope these tips help
...P.s. If there is spelling mistakes it is becauase where I live it is 3:00am lol I can't sleep
2007-08-19 03:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would keep pondering the matter first until I made up my mind whether I dreamed it or not. If he had abused me I would leave. If I imagined it or dreamed it I would stay.
2007-08-19 03:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by moondrop000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over with your partner. Tell them how it made you feel. If it becomes something that is constant break it off.
2007-08-19 03:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you not there when it happened? Why do you only think it happened? Either you were physically, or verbally. If you were, contact the authorities. They will take it from there.
2007-08-19 03:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report it to your nearest rape hotline or crisis center or call the police. If you go to the center its less embarresing for you. but report now.
2007-08-19 03:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abuse him back or leave him
2007-08-19 03:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by tanpanjang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a bat with you from now on
2007-08-19 03:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by em 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋