Okay I left my husband a couple of weeks ago because I think he's cheating. Here's why:
1. He works late with his pretty assistant who dresses like a tramp sometimes and flirts with him
2. He smells like perfume when he comes home and it's definetly not the kind I use
3. I found a matchbook with a hotel name on it in his pants pocket
4. One of my friends saw him at a restuarant with the trampy assistant.
5. The trampy assistant is very pretty and yet has no boyfriend.
What do you think?
2007-08-18 21:30:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ohh i most def. would of done the same thing except i would of made him leave the house because hes the one out with a homewrecker not. Make him decide either you or that skank although in some states it is against the law to fire someone with out a reason tell him to come up with a good one. Go back home make him leave the place after all Im sure your the one that makes it a home. Plus just go back before that skank moves in.
2007-08-18 21:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um yeah id think he was cheating only based on 2 things.. 1. the hotel matchbook.. and 2. the friend that "saw" him at a resturant with the assistant.. your other things really dont hold much water really, but those two do.. although i think even though u left him, i think u should seek proof of this for yourself with ur own eyes...
2007-08-18 21:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. Unless you are always parnoid that you are being cheated on by every man you've ever been with, if you feel hes cheating, hes cheating. Never knew a woman who was wrong about this one.
Next step is to decide what to do about it? I would move back in the house, kick him out and get a lawyer and a private detective.
2007-08-18 21:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK ,SAY HE IS BUT DO YOU HAVE A PLAN ?never jump into conclusions with no evidence.my husband was cheating caught him and ended marriage.I don t want to be insensitive,but you need to work your marriage,study your possibilities are you going to leave him ?can you provide financially?think carefully in all your life sides,DO NOT BE IRRATIONAL THINK OF WHAT IS IN YOUR BEST INTEREST
2007-08-18 21:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by mony y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anything is possible, however I would have spoken to him and cleared the air too. Dotted those i's and crossed those t's type thing.
When our Women's Intuition takes over it is most likely that our gut feelings are true however talking about it and clearing the air is something we need to heal.
best wishes
2007-08-18 21:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious or what, the only thing he hasn't done is bring her home to sleep in the same bed as you. You know dam well he is cheating on you.
2007-08-18 21:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is cheating. Don't make the stupid mistake to go back now that you are out of there. Wish you all the best. Keep your head high.
2007-08-19 00:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5/5 yep
2007-08-18 22:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is probably cheating on u, follow your intuition on this, it is never wrong, if u feel there is something wrong than there usually is. confront him but he may not tell u the truth about it.
2007-08-18 21:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Juliana! I think you already know the answer to that question.
2007-08-18 21:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋