Marriage & Divorce - 17 August 2007

"At present time, in a lot of countries, the system of living together has been granted, but in deep sense it hurts the system of marriage." Analyse.

2007-08-17 23:58:47 · 12 answers · asked by abanti 1

2007-08-17 23:50:43 · 24 answers · asked by swapnil s 1

I hate him. For many things. For bringing me here, for ruining my life before this, for never having a wedding, for being an a$$ all the time, being lazy, not wanting to work a real job, complaining constantly, making me do everything, for blowing up whenever I ask him to help me with something, for making me feel like I can't do anything online but make money, for having no cable, for getting rid of the cats, everything I hate everything about him and I wish I could just kill him or beat the cr@p out of him. I flip him off behind his back all the time, I make faces at him, I do nothing but talk smack about him while he is gone. I just hate him so much! We have a 1 yr old son together too. It's complicated. I don't know if these are normal feelings, what should I do? Counseling is out of the question. Inside I just want to run away and never see him again. It's the worse hate I've ever felt towards someone.

2007-08-17 23:11:07 · 23 answers · asked by VanillaRoses7 1

I am really confused with wether my boss is flirting with me or just being friendly:
He winks at me
He walks past me, looks me in the eye and then smiles
I passed him a recept the other day and he practically took my hand with it (Slid his hand down my hand)as he looked me in the eye and said "Thanks Skyla"
Walked past me the other day and quickly dragged hus hand across my shoulder
Another co-worker who my boss has been friends with for a long time said my boss told her he cares alot about me
Asked me to come up to his office and had a huge chat with me about random things like if i use protection, what would i do if i got pregnant, What i do in my spare time, Would i like more responsibilites with my job? is everythign alright?
Said when they sell the buisness one day that they are taking me with them
Always commenting me, saying im a bloody good worker.
Whne i went on holiday, he told me to be naughty but be carefull.

Sooooo is he flirting?

2007-08-17 23:03:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How much sex should a married couple have a week before somebody steps outside to get their fill. I mean is it fair to have to wait for the other person to come around??

2007-08-17 21:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by WestCoastin4Life 7

2007-08-17 21:53:22 · 4 answers · asked by chubby 1

When a women talk the men seem to interupt and think they know what she is saying but he takes it wrong and then there is the fighting. Why?

2007-08-17 21:09:27 · 14 answers · asked by Lonesome 1

Is it possible for the guy to take the woman's surname instead of the woman to take the man's surname

2007-08-17 20:54:50 · 15 answers · asked by questionaire 1

i got this party to go to sun ....& i will see him at a party on sat....and i work sunday night

2007-08-17 20:39:39 · 3 answers · asked by greckel 2

my husband & i hav bn married 4 almost 6yrs our relationship is really good but he never does anythin even remotly romantic is there a way i can get through 2 him???

2007-08-17 20:32:19 · 11 answers · asked by b_t_e_b 1

i am 31 yr old lady married with 50 yr old man before seven yr by my uncle & brother in absence of my expiered parents. i considered it as my luck & worked hard for studies along with teaching job& home tution.as his earning was 1500 only. meanwhile i devloped inrelationship with my distant relative. now i am living separetly and my husband is denying to give me my acadmic document and son. pls advice.

2007-08-17 20:18:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 31 yr old lady married with 50 yr old man before seven yr by my uncle & brother in absence of my expiered parents. i considered it as my luck & worked hard for studies along with teaching job& home tution.as his earning was 1500 only. meanwhile i devloped inrelationship with my distant relative. now i am living separetly and my husband is denying to give me my acadmic document and son. pls advice.

2007-08-17 20:15:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for 5 years and have a daughter that is 4 and a son that is two. I love my wife and my kids. But I found out last month that my wife cheated on me twice when I was in the Marine Corps overseas. I want to work it out but she is saying that she doesn't see the point. I have been out for a year and this happened withe her 2 and 3 years ago. I know that I love her and I can get through it. She left for a family emergency 2 weeks ago but it seems that she just wants to be away. She has pretty much said that it is over. I dont want to keep on convincing her to stay with me. I am so confused. What should I do. If it is over than ok but I am worried about my kids.

2007-08-17 19:41:17 · 9 answers · asked by usmc20dc 1

I have been married for 18 years this monday. A few years ago my husband slipped and said he loved a girl from work to me during sex. I am 19 years younger than him and she is younger than our oldest daughter. He dreams about having sex with the girl from work among many others and has called out thier names. He looks at others no stares when we are out together. Should I let him go. I am obviously not who he wants to be with and I can't ignore this. I have tryed to talk to him many times, but nothing much changes. I don't want to be cheated on but most of all I don't want to be lied to. I feel like a fool for still loving him and wanting him to be happy. I just don't know what to do. Any advise?

2007-08-17 19:35:54 · 13 answers · asked by lovesfool 1

2007-08-17 19:35:27 · 20 answers · asked by Pineapple Princess 3

2007-08-17 19:21:23 · 21 answers · asked by Papa Johnathan 4

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now and would like to go ahead and get married. She is from Mexico and has been in the States about 4 years- legally with a Visa I might add. She has heard from some of her friends that it will be very difficult to get married because she is mexican. I want to clear everything up for her and I one way or another. Any information is appreciated and helpful.

2007-08-17 19:05:47 · 7 answers · asked by Jason T 1

shes been mad at me since I bought her a dust pan and broom for her birthday. i also noticed that my life insurance went up $80,000. should i be sleeping in the shed with the dog?

2007-08-17 19:02:59 · 12 answers · asked by just hanging around 5

I'm dating this fantastic guy, who also happens to be divorced. Just for the record, he is older than me, as he is 31 and I'm 24. He was married a little over two years and was with his ex for about 7. Now, I also just came out of a long term relationship also- 6 years. His ex-wife is 25, and wants her and I to be 'good friends'. She also said that she wanted my boyfriend and I to 'be another couple Emmanuel and I hang out with'. Emmanuel is her boyfriend, by the way. Those two have only been officially divorced since July, though they called it off back in November. How odd is it that she expects me to be friends with her? I don't want to be her friend, to be honest. I'm trying so hard to get my boyfriend to empathize with me and understand why I don't particuarly want her around that often, let alone be friends. I'm not insecure in our relationship in the least, or that they'll somehow get back together, but I don't want her in my face all the time trying to be my friend.

2007-08-17 18:58:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

been together for 1 month.. had an amazing date already and he took me flying(he's a pilot). watched the sun set & had dinner then had a scenic view of ATL. what can we do for our 1 month? ideas please??!?!

2007-08-17 18:56:51 · 7 answers · asked by goldengirl9 1

12 years marriage.
ONE, repeat that ONE act of intercourse.
To cement her claim.
In the hotel after our wedding of course.
I'm leaving, but how do I do enough damage to make up for being a complete fool for these 12 years?

2007-08-17 18:55:01 · 12 answers · asked by Blatherscaipe 2

He also gives no foreplay and just lies there. Am I lousy in bed or something? Maybe he isn't attracted to me? Could that be the problem? He used to be good - he knows what to do. What happened?
Another thing I find strange, when with friends he'll brag about what he's gonna do to me, then, when we get home, he doesn't want to do anything but go to sleep! Could he be gay?

2007-08-17 18:48:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 18:44:32 · 15 answers · asked by chapped lips 5

Been together for 6 years and married 5 months. we have a one year old daughter. I am in my 20's and he is as well. we have a "paper" perfect relationship. he is a great dad and a great husband. Technically everything is perfect. except it feels like we are on 2 different wave lengths and we can't get to each other. Everytime we talk we get annoyed with eachother and end with an argument. Nothign major.. its more of a "i need a break from you cause you are annoying me" type. I ask myself if i am still "in" love with him and i don;t know. I love him very much but am i in love with him... there is no spark... does that happen after 6 years? or have we just burned out our flame.... i feel like i live with a roommate rather then a sexy man. . . i treat him like a roommate rather then a sexy man...

2007-08-17 18:42:10 · 8 answers · asked by lalalala 2

I think i may have lost my girl for good. I've been going out with my girl for over a year. I'm 25 and she is 20. When we first started going out I was a virgin and made a vow to wait for marriage to have sex.Within 2 months i had broken that vow. I pretty much moved in with her after that. We were fine for a while, then we started arguing. I had my own place and sometimes i'd go back there when we were arguing. And every once and a while i'd want to take a break from her because i would get tired of always being sad. I was not very good to her. I didn't treat her as good as she deserved. I realised this and wanted to break up a few times. But she would always come back to me, never me to her. This last time i stopped calling her about a month ago, I wanted it to be over. I wanted to move on. But i realised about 3 weeks into the break(I never even told her we were on a break, I just stopped talking to her. I realise now how foolish that was.) I didn't want to be without her.

2007-08-17 18:39:56 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I've been with my husband for 7 years. Sex is good, but it's never as great as when you're younger ;). When I have sex with my husband and even when I don't, I always fantasize about sleeping with other men.

The most recent guilty pleasure is that I've been fantasizing about someone at work because I've noticed him eyeing on me. That coworker is also married. I'm having bad thoughts! Is this wrong? I tell my husband that I think of other men when we're having sex, but he doesn't seem to mind as long as it turns me on and get me in the mood. However, the thing with the coworker is something I never had before. I'm starting to look forward to going to work and see him, starting to look better, etc. These are all signs of when I was younger and I was falling for someone. Help! What do to do?

2007-08-17 18:33:29 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean he always says 'I love you' and 'I love you' ... but he told me that he doesn't like it when I stretch, exercise or dance in front of him, he doesn't like when I talk about myself, he said: "...you talk about yourself it's getting very boring" and he said :can't you stop breathing into peoples faces?" - this one was weird...And one very strange occurence, we went to a picnic and I was wearing a pretty sexy spaghetti straps top and a mini skirt which was also white and a white pair of sandals, so the next day he said he needs to buy "white-out" - I just can't believe this was a coincidence, someone put him up to this.
But he always wants the best for me at the same time ... I am so confused. (married for 15 years! kids and all..)

2007-08-17 18:27:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel uneasy when my wife tells me that
her male friend make him laugh hard.
I told her about my uneasiness feeling when she tells me about him.
Than she thinks that I am controlling her freedom?
Please advise me whether I am controlling her freedom?

2007-08-17 17:51:28 · 13 answers · asked by alok s 1

I have always heard over the years that men want sex more than woman, but as i get older i hear my friends say that they want it more than there husbands. I also see weman getting younger men mearly for sex? So who really wants sex more? Men or weman?

2007-08-17 17:39:19 · 26 answers · asked by Mrs. J 2

I met my husband when I was 17 and was married and pregnant by 19. He is 14 years older than me. In the past he has cheated on me many times, physically abused me and put our family in financial ruin (didnt work for years while I always had to work full time). He is now 52 and seems to be changing just a little bit. After 20 years of abuse I dont want to be married to him anymore and I feel so guilty. I love him but I want to be by myself with my 4 kids. I have a good job and I can support myself but I dont have the heart to leave him. There is so much damage from the past that I just dont want him anymore. My heart is not into my marraige and I am sure my husband feels the same but neither one of us will make the first move. How can I just get out of this? My kids know I am not happy and they love their dad but they want to move also. We are his only family, He never knew his parents so we are all he has.

2007-08-17 17:31:11 · 47 answers · asked by Ms K 2