When a women talk the men seem to interupt and think they know what she is saying but he takes it wrong and then there is the fighting. Why?
2007-08-17 21:09:27 · 14 answers · asked by Lonesome 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because they're rude. They think that they know what we're going to say, before we say it. I would stop him and say " wait, let me finish, you don't know what I'm going to say" That usually works. When he does try to turn what I'm saying around, I stop him and say " No, that's not what I said or meant. This is what I meant." You have to be very clear and to the point.
2007-08-17 21:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men and women are very different... Men are Concrete vs Women are abstract.
Women use a lot of words to describe things. While men use as little as possible to get what they're thinking out.
When a women goes on and on its hard for a guy to keep listening because many men have a few simple formulas.
1. Something is wrong = It needs fixing
2. This is what + when + where + how + (and maybe why) something happened = good story
3. Question = Answer
Once the details come in men start coming up with a response they don't wait for your emotions to finish the story.
Men are simple to men and women are simple to women, but mix a man and woman and its like learning a new language.
2007-08-18 04:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Extra Extra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know - but I think men are probably more 'to the point' than women are... If you go the long way around, to make a point, some guys will cut you off - just to speed things up a bit.
2007-08-18 04:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by AlienJoe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF a guy dares to interrupt me, I just stop talking - - if he takes something I've said the wrong way, it's on HIM. I'm not going to waste my time and energy getting angry or being confrontational about it. If he can't figure out by my reaction that interrupting and assuming is WRONG and STOP, then I no longer care to be around him!
I don't find this behavior to be at all common for guys to do - maybe you need to date different guys.
2007-08-18 04:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are programmed to fix things. Women are programmed to make suggestions. That's why.
2007-08-18 04:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by K6 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because women talk too much, period.
JK I love you women, I am a nice guy, I let women talk, as long as they let me talk back!!!
2007-08-18 04:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Randolph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you most likely brought up the subject previously.
2007-08-18 09:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a correct question
you should exchange men & women
2007-08-18 04:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by shantu GARG 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because it usually isn,t worth answering. they already know the response before they ask.
2007-08-18 04:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by moonraze2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they do it because they think that they think for us!! honestly. And most of all because they really are telling us that they can't be bothered, thats what I think anyway.
2007-08-18 04:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Cotton 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋