Marriage & Divorce - 17 August 2007

Is it when you want to forgive and forget when the person has done something wrong?

What are some characteristics of this?

Is this the aim of love? for it to be unconditional..?
Not between parent and child. RELATIONSHIP

2007-08-17 10:46:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this ex, (don't we all) and my family and I invited him and his family to our son's football game, but he will not come because we will all be there, he says we should take turns going, but I don't want to miss any of his games, it would break our son's heart, do I give in and let him go, or do I go anyways and let him deal with his problems his self?

2007-08-17 10:18:17 · 17 answers · asked by Life should come w/ instructions 1

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2007-08-17 10:14:32 · 6 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2

2007-08-17 10:04:58 · 18 answers · asked by Marolua 1

so can you have all things in the world and be happy

2007-08-17 10:00:52 · 20 answers · asked by rocketman 3

2007-08-17 09:51:05 · 69 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2

He's turning 48 and I don't know what to get him, HELP!!!

2007-08-17 09:46:54 · 15 answers · asked by Alisha 3

My wife is Asian and as such is fairly hairless.... in fact she has no hair what so ever around her B-hole. I told her that I think that is so cool because most women do have hair there. She doesn't believe me she thinks all women are hair free in that area...... PLEASE set her straight.

2007-08-17 09:39:34 · 36 answers · asked by DavidV 3

My fiance lives in USA while I live in another country...I always see him on the webcamera not wearing his engagement ring, our relationship is serious, and we want to marry soon...
But it's very disturbing seeing him not wearing it...when I ask him about it, he always gives excuses...he also says that girls there like to get married or engaged guys....but actually I don't believe that.....by the way I started taking it off too, because i feel silly to wear it while he doesn't...I was very comitted to it before.....and I hate that....I really don't want that to stay like this....so what to do?

2007-08-17 09:34:37 · 17 answers · asked by Diana 2

We have been separated two years and I am not happy, but have two beautiful children. He is a self-centered man, but has a kind heart. I am just not 'in-love' anymore after all the deception. He owns a business and pays my bills, I own a business, too, which will pay my bills when our tourist season starts. Anyone else feel the hopelessness? I have worked hard all my life, but fear losing everything if I walk away for good. I have thought of getting a second job, but I really can't afford to be away from the kids any longer than I am. He works 7 days a week right now. Not really a question on advice, but just is anyone else going through the agony of staying for money?

2007-08-17 09:34:05 · 31 answers · asked by CRAZYMOMTO2 2

I have dated this woman for a year
We are COMPLETLY IN LOVE and are talking marriage when the time is right and both have mentioned next year...
THAT BEING SAID... i have yet to meet her parents.
given their conservative nature i will have to ask her father first for his blessing. I just dont see how im going to get an ok given that she was just offically divorced (has been seperated for 3yrs) and the fact by when i want to ask her they will only think i have been with her for 6 or so months....

I honestly do love this woman to death but this is really starting to get difficult.

any advice on what to do or ways to handle this
thanks

2007-08-17 09:28:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you think help

2007-08-17 09:26:38 · 80 answers · asked by blade lady 2

Accidentally stumbled across some information that equates to my brother-in-law cheating on his wife (they have 3 young children). He has 3 mistresses in 3 different states (he travelsf or work). And one of them, he has booked a long weekend trip to Aruba in november.

Anyways, I need some advice on how to handle. Tell my wife (his sister)? Go straight to him? Confront the women (i have their email addresses)? Address his wife?

Thanx in advance.

2007-08-17 09:24:45 · 16 answers · asked by layin_the_smackdownnn 2

My husband and I are Christians we read our Bibles every night before bed and my husbands Bible is a really old cheap Bible. For his birthday this year i bought him a really nice new black leather Bible, but I also want to write a really meaningful letter to him in it.

Does anyone have any ideas of what I could write him?

2007-08-17 09:19:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 09:17:27 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you consider kissing someone, with some passion, cheating? I know emotional cheating is horrible, almost worse then physical cheating. BUT if your spouse was just attracted to a woman, had a few too many, acted on impulse, but the result was a kiss...would you be as hard on them as if it were emotional cheating or actual sex?

2007-08-17 09:15:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My now ex husband had an affair and left for the other woman. After some time, he apologized. He said he was very sorry that he hurt me and that he truly wants me to be happy in the future. He says he feels disappointment, sadness and guilt that our marriage ended the way it did. Although I deal with him for our son' sake and never say/do anything that would impact their relationship - I do not know if I can accept his apology. I am a forgiving person. My mother always told me I let people walk over me because I always forgive too easily. I just can't seem to accept this apology however. Maybe in time? Has anyone out there truly fogiven their ex-spouse for hurting them this way?

2007-08-17 09:15:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

please give me some advise, i split with my ex 12 months ago in 12 months she as stopped me from seeing our daughter 6 times , ive been to court and court order in place but shes broke it 2 times its cost me loads of money now im broke, i have to pay my solicitor she gets it free , iv made 1 last attempt to sort this with my solicitor but i can not go back to court iv no money left all this is over i have to work and sometimes i can not pick her up when court order says ,sometimes later some time early but i always tell her then its well dont borther picking her up,yes there as been a lot of arguments on both sides and it always ends up in me not seeing her i feel like im in a no win situation and shes just using our daughter to get back at me , its been a month since i last saw her and the hurt is so much i feel like im dieing inside the pain of not seeing her is so bad , but what of the pain shes feeling ? i can not let her mum keep doing this to her shes only 3 as much as it hurts

2007-08-17 09:11:21 · 27 answers · asked by mark h 1

2007-08-17 09:08:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm probably making more of a big deal then it actually is but, I remarried about 2 years ago and have a 16 year old stepdaughter that has her mom wrapped around her finger.

Everynight and I mean Everynight, when my wife gets home from work, she has my wife drive her and her friends all over town (mall, restaurant gatherings, pick friends up, take home...Not to even mention the weekends) I made a comment to my wife that it would be nice if the parents of all the other friends could at least once in a while either take them or pick them up rather than my wife or I doing both. This hit a nerve with my wife and that she doesn't mind doing this, but I can tell that's she is physically run down. My stepdaughter out of the group is the "activity planner" so's she first to call us. I get home 3 hours before my wife during the work week and I commute them at least 3-4 days a week, so my real issue is if I'm tired on having to do this 3-4 days, why isn't my wife?

2007-08-17 09:04:53 · 21 answers · asked by Mr Neutron 3

say something nice, pay me a compliment

2007-08-17 09:04:09 · 32 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2

2007-08-17 09:01:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 08:57:35 · 19 answers · asked by back2future 5

stay out all night, curse you out and acuse you of a man

2007-08-17 08:57:26 · 17 answers · asked by nshorty38 1

ok i got married in february of 06' in vegas (doesnt everyone get married their?) we spilt up the next month she had bi polar and got pregnant not long after that and was using meth with other people {im not the father) im wondering am i gonna be financially responsible for her she is a total whack job and she calls me with threats all the time and im at my witts end.... any help with this matter would be great thanks so much in advance.

2007-08-17 08:57:10 · 7 answers · asked by Wonderingplz 3

I mean a serious boyfriend relationship; better yet a marriage relationship. What should the MAN be expected to do in terms of caring for his wife?

2007-08-17 08:55:12 · 13 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

and get something totally wrong in a relationship? i.e. Did you ever think your spouse was cheating on you and he/she was not? Did you ever think someone was very interested in you and he/she was not? How many of you make relationship decisions based on your intuition?

2007-08-17 08:47:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,

What i'd like to know are different viewpoints on this.

I happen to be involved with 2 different woman. They are both beautiful (to me at least), both can be understanding and wonderful to be around.

But they are different personalities.

One has children, the other doesn't.

Ones more aggressive, ones more submissive.

I've known them both for alittle over a year now.

And they both believe in marriage, as I do.

But, both appeal to me... I care about them both. So i'd like to know if you had to pick the right one, what would you pick as the most "important" aspects in a relationship to define the right woman. (Taking in consideration the you possibly love both equally, and they love you, but just can't decide which)

Hope that makes sense... thanks!

P.S. I don't have any children of my own, and never have (i'm 38) but do love them.

2007-08-17 08:45:24 · 25 answers · asked by Commander Peter Quincy Taggart 2

I never changed my name after the first divorce. I kept my ex's last name. I getting divorced again. Am i able to go back to the first marriage name legally or do I have to go back to my original maiden name.

2007-08-17 08:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need a great lawyer that helps non custodial parents rights. I have benn fighting my exgirlfriend in cook county court for the 6 years of me son life. I amjust fed up with her and her always winning. It's bad enough that she dousn't provide for my son like she should bit on top of that she always takes me back for money when it's not needed. I buy my sons school supplies and extra stuff during the year and thats not even court ordered. I just sick of being the sperm doner and not having any rights. I should have to support my son not his mother and new child when I have a wife and three more young daughters. Please help me find a lawyer that won't settle for anything less then fair. I would also like feed back on anyone that is or dealing with custodial parents just wanting more money in cook county. The best laywer needed

2007-08-17 08:41:22 · 7 answers · asked by Elvis D 2