Cheating -Definition....?

Question

Would you consider kissing someone, with some passion, cheating? I know emotional cheating is horrible, almost worse then physical cheating. BUT if your spouse was just attracted to a woman, had a few too many, acted on impulse, but the result was a kiss...would you be as hard on them as if it were emotional cheating or actual sex?

Answer 1

Everyone tries to find a definition that excludes themselves from the list. How about this?

Anything you do in secret from your spouse.

Answer 2

I actually did that once. I was at a Thanksgiving "party" and this woman there had the hots for me. I'd had way too much to drink (and so had she) and she and I did some smooching that we didn't really even try to hide. I was so drunk, I barely remembered the kissing, and I didn't remember the ride home with my wife (who drove) later at all! Lucky for me, my wife didn't get more than a little annoyed about it. I think it helped that she knew I didn't mean anything by it. We actually were able to laugh about it later.

Later edit: For those who say if he did it once he'd do it again? That was about 15 years ago, and I never did it again. My wife and I have been married for 21 years and we are quite happy together, thank you.

Answer 3

Kissing another? Yes were going to say that this is cheating. Using liq. as an excuse is played! He's full of it and you need to be prepared for what is to come. You can forgive him, but trust he will do it again! Hey but if you cant beat em, join em'. I tell my husband that all the time and have yet to get my chance to "act on impulse". Good luck with that.....

Answer 4

Straying from your loved one in more ways then one.
Whether it’s physical or emotional it’s cheating.
Your spouse/partner should be the one that you truly
Share everything with. When you choose to seek that
Championship from another, it’s cheating.
Computer, in person….whatever it’s cheating.

Kissing another is wrong...having a few drinks...is just an excuse...and its also a Bright Warning light...for your future.
However if you are communicating about it....you got something right.

Best wishes

Answer 5

Yes, kissing is very intimate and leads to full blown intercourse most of the time. There should be no physical contact in a sexual way when you are married to anyone but your spouse.

Answer 6

I would personally get very very upset and need to have a long talk and a mutual understanding with my husband.

However, I don't think that a simple kiss is anything that a married couple can't work out together and move on from.

Answer 7

I think the emotional cheating would be the worst for me to handle; not that I would condone any cheating at all.

If she had sex with another woman I would leave and that would be the end of it. You don't slip and sleep with some one. "oops" I got laid and I can't get up.

Answer 8

yes I think kissing is cheating even looking at some one with a sex thought is I feel

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Anything that you wouldn't normally do in front of your spouse is considered cheating.