because they dont know how to communicate so one little fight and they are ready for divorce
2007-08-17 09:20:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Because they weren't ready to get married in the first place, it was just the thing to do. No one takes (well not no one) but a lot of people don't take the sanctity of marriage seriously anymore. All of these young kids are getting married, and then when things get tough, they just think "well, we'll just get a divorce" rather than working through the tough times.
Also, the younger you are, more than likely you still have a lot of growing and changing to do, and what you like/dislike at 20 may be totally different at 25/30.
I think that the parents need to be paying more attention to their kids too!
2007-08-17 09:29:15
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answer #2
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answered by Lindsay G 4
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One theory is that young people confuse lust and love. When the magic of the sex wears off and looks begin to fade, they find they have nothing in common and so end up splitting up.
Or they don't take the time to get to know one another and just rush off to get married. A few months or years later, they find out they can't STAND each other, and end up divorcing.
Another is again sex related. Young people fool around, don't take adequate contraceptive precautions, and boom! pregnancy. Well, after a while the guy doesn't want to be there or the girl doesn't want to be around the guy, or they aren't ready for a marriage/parenthood situation, and then they divorce.
2007-08-17 09:25:03
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answered by Brutally Honest 7
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Because we live in a "right now" society and if things start getting rocky and aren't solved "right now" people quite. I am at the age where all my friends that got married 2 years ago are starting to get divorced and it is so sad. It makes me mad too because every one of the divorces is because either them or their spouse decided that they just weren't feeling it any more and they met someone new that gave them the tinglies. Everyone wants everything "right now" and is not willing to put in any effort or elbow grease into paving the way for a better marriage in the long run. All everyone is doing is setting themselves up for disaster since any good relationship goes through ups and downs and needs to be worked on.
2007-08-17 09:28:46
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answered by Krissy 3
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Divorce takes place between young ppl because they get married at young age..They don't see family background or never try to think about,they are not matured, responsible, not having knowledge of family life.. That's just infatuation nothing else..when they are fade up, they try to go way from each other.. Being married at the matured age that's the wise decision..and they get happily family life too..
2007-08-17 09:59:15
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answered by Diya 3
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Not all young people get divorced. Not all people that get married young do it for the wrong reasons, or rush into it. Not all young married couples are destined to get divorced. Its just not that simple to lump everyone of these couples into some big group. Every marriage is different!
I got married at 18, my husband was 21. In January we celebrate our 6th anniversary. It has been wonderful being married to him and I wouldnt trade it for anything. I dont think weve had a harder time than any other married couple. I dont think because of our ages that we were destined to have issues.
I dont plan on getting divorced from my husband, nor do i see any reason to. I dont think marrying young prevented me from growing up and experiencing life. I just experienced it in different ways for other people. I still am going to college, go out with my friends, im even in a sorority. Its just different how i choose to participate in those things. My soroity isnt like a greek house i live in, its a group of women who are all studying the same feild and help around the community and share friendship. I go out with friends, but instead of going to nightclubs or bars. I go out to coffee or thrift shopping. I go to college, i take both traditional and online classes. But i dont live in a dorm, i live in our home.
My husband also attends a college, is in a fraternity, and has friends that he spends time with. His buddies come over once a month to play xbox.
2007-08-17 09:26:49
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answered by Cebsme 6
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I do not know i was 15 when I first got mairred and at the age of 16 waspreg and devorced now im 27 and been mairred for 2 almost years I think it is becouse when you are young you are still a child and not at all grown up enough to make a step like that me and my x has talked about that and if we was older then we would of made it
2007-08-17 09:22:14
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answered by michelle_perez_2007 2
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Many reasons:
First, they rush into it.
Second, it gets too hard and they just give up.
Finally, it is so easy to get a divorce these days people opt to do that instead of working hard to work things out. They forget how they felt when they made the commitment of marriage and they are too stubborn and prideful to take any blame so they end it.
I got married at 24 and my husband at 26 and we are so happily in love still even more so when we made the commitment. Neither of us believe in divorce so we just won't consider it so we have to work at it when it gets tough!
2007-08-17 09:22:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Quite often, young people get married, not because they are really in love with each other, but because they are in love with the idea of being in love. It's hard to make a commitment for the long haul when you don't know what you are getting into.
2007-08-17 09:22:51
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answered by kj 7
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Because they get married too young before they had a chance to live as young adults and really grow into the people they're gonna be. They just don't take the time to find themselves before they try to settle down with someone else.
2007-08-17 09:21:55
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answered by BOB C 3
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Yes nowadays only young people go to the divorce court. They do not have patient to run the family. In my opinion they are unfit in the society. If they marry once again, they will find one more reason for divorce. It is the tax you and I pay for their court charges. Who will bell the cat. God has to give them peace and patient for their life. Yours VRVRAO
2007-08-17 09:22:57
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answered by Raghavendra R 5
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