Marriage & Divorce - 17 August 2007

those of you who have worked at a restaurant know why i ask.

all hypothetical of course

2007-08-17 08:34:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 08:32:43 · 14 answers · asked by Joe 6

I'm not talking about women who are abused or neglected.


Do you think women expect too much from their husbands?

Don't you think it's unreasonable to expect that your husband should make you happy? I almost feel like women these days too often blame their partners for their own unhappiness.

2007-08-17 08:27:04 · 18 answers · asked by iblockidiots 2

What do u think of girls who get marriage at a young age like 18?I have this friend who is 18 years old and wants to get married to a boy who's like 31 years old,but her parents don't agree and think that there is a huge age difference between them and that she's young.Do u agree with her parents?

2007-08-17 08:26:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys! I going to try to leave my wife of 15 yrs of going nowhere marriage. I am so tired, of being frustrated, angry, stressed out, miserable, unhappy and somewhat depressed in a relationship that is going nowhere. I am very super scared of the divorce thing! I am scared of LONELINESS, DEPRESSION BECAUSE OF BEING LONELY. I have never in my life done this before, this is my first marriage. I love my kiddos to death, they are extremely beautiful! big time!!! But I cannot stand my wife anymore...I am calling it quits because 15 yrs. I gave her alot of time, to straighten out and she won't change for the better. Its getting worse and worse. I am getting out! to live a single man all over again. I am very extremely scared about doing this!!!!!!!

2007-08-17 08:12:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Assuming he was safe and discreet*...

2007-08-17 08:07:26 · 24 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7

For several years, a man was having an affair with an Italian woman. she confided in him that she was pregnant. Not wanting to ruin his reputation or his marriage, he paid her a large sum of money if she would go to Italy to secretly have the child. If she stayed in Italy to
raise the child, he would also provide child support until the child
turned 18. She agreed, but asked how he would know when the baby was
born. To keep it discrete, he told her to simply mail him a post card,
and write "Spaghetti" on the back. He would then arrange for the child support payments to begin. About 9 months later, he came home to his confused wife.
"Honey," she said, "you received a very strange post card today." "Oh,
just give it to me and I'll explain it later," he said. The wife obeyed
and watched as her husband read the card, turned white, and fainted.
On the card was written: "Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti,
Spaghetti. Three with meat balls, two without send extra sauce!!!

2007-08-17 07:50:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 07:40:20 · 49 answers · asked by girlnextdoor409 5

2007-08-17 07:36:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do relationships have sudden conclusions?
(This is not personal for me, it's a scenario that has just came into my mind because of what I'm observing from life).

I see all these situations of people cheating on each other. Why do people take these chances? I have seen people who have nothing wrong in their marriage and have just gone astray for unexplainable reasons they just lost interest in the other person.

My Question is If you had to choose and somebody becomes special in your life Which would it be......

A. Leave your marriage to start a new life.
B. Stay married and cheat.

Only choose A or B otherwise do not comment.
I'm looking for character content here if you were faced with only one option!

2007-08-17 07:26:20 · 23 answers · asked by Ophiuchus 3

yesterday my wife said she went to a tanning salon with her friend and her friend came in her room naked and rubbed oil on her, going very slowly around her butt.I asked if she liked it and she said she did but felt a little uncomfortable

2007-08-17 07:18:54 · 29 answers · asked by todd t 1

First I stopped shaving my legs, then I stopped changing my clothes once a day. Then I stopped washing my hair. Sometimes I don't even put on my sexy sweats. I just put on the comfy ones that I took from him. Is this necessarily a bad thing? My girlfriends tell me that I need to wake up or else he's gonna drop me like a hot potato. I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to have to start combing my hair and putting on lip gloss again. I got married. I shouldn't have to try anymore, should I??

2007-08-17 07:09:54 · 41 answers · asked by C Deezy McCain 3

We are throwing a party for about 100 people and I am the youngest child (38 yo). I just found out that I am expected to say a few things but I am at a loss. Any advice?

2007-08-17 07:06:53 · 8 answers · asked by Patrick D 2

As a teen, I came against the "no talk" rule and came out and blasted my mom for the abuse she did to us. I have PtSD from then. Now after an abusive marriage where my h. had a prior restraining order with another woman, he is x now,I have to deal with sis and bro and am trying to tell them about my abuse counseling....though they would listen, but sis wanted me to go back and I did not listen and had a fit and ran off into the snow. Now bro says he listened for 2 years to me but I dont see that...I was homeless and he and sis had much money....they say I was the original abuser and that I am self centered. I blew bro away with words and could not listen...now it is confirmed by them....so why is it so hard for me to listen to them and they say I must??I think we had to listen and only as do only as mom wanted. Is this still in practice? WE are now not speaking and I feel so assaulted and it took me 7 days to think straight again and I still doubt myself..not react??how?

2007-08-17 07:06:40 · 7 answers · asked by wildrose7 1

does any know how to love a man with out cheating in this day an age

2007-08-17 07:03:13 · 12 answers · asked by ron j 2

I have a wife and a girlfriend. I know you will all say hateful things to me since I said that. Here's my problem: I am not sure I love my wife anymore but I know I am madly in love with my girlfriend. Do I stay in the marriage and try to work it out or do I leave my wife for my girlfriend? My wife does know about my affair and is very upset about it.

2007-08-17 06:36:22 · 14 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2

To The Christian Man: Are We Loving Our Wife As Christ Loved The Church?
This ruffled my feathers deeply, as I am an avid fisherman, and hunter, yet it brought me to my knees. May it inspire you to love more deeply, your wife.


Now it should work, my apologies.

2007-08-17 06:04:39 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5

Kissing keeps the heart young*...

2007-08-17 06:00:55 · 10 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7

How many of you married couples swing and why?

2007-08-17 05:58:16 · 14 answers · asked by Simple Life 2

Kissing keeps the heart young*...

2007-08-17 05:55:14 · 6 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7

My wife and I have been married for 17 Years and she was rape before I met her at a very young age.
When we got married it was hard to kiss her or get close to her and her eyes when shes kissing kind of like panic mode.

We fought all the time about her be able to make full love and 2 and a half years later I cheated on her nad I did not tell her until we were on our 8 year of marriage.

She said that she forgave me and 17 years later I find that she has not and she also cheated on me butthis past year and feel in love with another kind which he wants nothing to do with her.

She dont feel like we have anything left in our marriage be she is also full of anger and hate from when I cheated.

She says we dont have anything left but she wont call it off and we have 3 wonderful daughters involved.

2007-08-17 05:46:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i messed up a few months ago,i fessed up to my man about it. he made the dumbest comment about how white women dont cheat on black men. women cheat period black, white, asian whatever i just need to hear what yall say. I know i fucked up, cause im kinda fucked up on men (daddy issues)no matter what color, but thats no excuse for what i did. please tell this man ,women of all colors cheat (i worked at a bank for nine years everyone was doing everyone married or not so i know) for some reason they would tell me

2007-08-17 05:40:40 · 27 answers · asked by iamchinarain 1

This ruffled my feathers deeply, as I am an avid fisherman, and hunter, yet it brought me to my knees. May it inspire you to love more deeply, your wife.

http://www.truthforlife.org/site/PageServer?pagename=lst_overview

2007-08-17 05:35:35 · 2 answers · asked by ? 5

Since January of this year, I have been in touch with a male coworker from a job I left in November. It was nothing more than a one or two minute phone call once a week. Maybe twice, but not likely. Simply a check in, all good, great & take care. I did not tell my husband about the contact, he doesn't inform me of his contacts so why should I. He recently became aware of the calls because he checked the cell phone records. Now, since he has been guilty in the past of infidelity he is putting that on me. He thinks the quick phone calls mean I was involved in a physical relationship. Also that I don't know if this person has a girlfriend or not. I didn't care that deeply to ask. I don't think there is anything else. What is your thought on this? I can't be completely off base in thinking his rational is over the edge. Okay, I didn't tell him - but I'm not sleeping with the guy!

2007-08-17 05:28:07 · 17 answers · asked by Mystress L 4

To make the woman seem wrong.
When they know they're wrong.


What should a woman do to counteract this?

2007-08-17 05:25:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 04:56:00 · 41 answers · asked by swtsxybb 1

I have been with my amazing guy for 2 and a half years now. Since the day we met he has been doing everything for me. Even if i want to do it myself. If i'm sitting on the couch and i say "i'm going to get a glass of water, you want anything" he jumps up says "ILL GET IT" and runs into the kitchen and gets my glass of water. If i'm cooking he stands there and watches me and asks if he can stir the food or if i need any help. Now, i know i am lucky to have such a helpful guy but it makes his mother think that i control him and make him do everything. When we are at his family's house he is constantly doing everything for me and i try to do things myself he just doesn't let me. I have a bunch of cats and he always changes their litter and gives them fresh water, he cleans the house while i'm at work. When i talk to him about this he says "i'm just trying to make your life easier" my life is already easy though i'm only 21 w/ no kids and an easy good paying job.

2007-08-17 04:34:49 · 24 answers · asked by Beeg 5

If he cancels a lie detector test, does it imply guilt?

2007-08-17 04:32:13 · 25 answers · asked by getagrip 4

Ever since I've joined answers, I've noticed that when women post questions concerning cheating men, the advice is always "dump the loser".

But when it's a man with a cheating wife, the answer is always "go to marriage therapy"?

I would never forgive a cheating wife. As a matter of fact, I think it's worse if your wife cheats! What say you?

2007-08-17 04:17:23 · 34 answers · asked by iblockidiots 2

I am dating a guy who is 2 years younger than me. He said that sometimes it bothers him that I'm older than him.... is it because it's likely that I have had more experience in relationship/dating? I mean, I'm sure I've dated more people than he has. 2 years difference in early 20's can be quite a big difference in terms of dating experience. Do guys like more innocent type of girl with less experience? I have heard from a guy that older woman is like a used car etc.

2007-08-17 04:12:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous