How many of you married couples swing and why?
2007-08-17 05:58:16 · 14 answers · asked by Simple Life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We haven't done it (yet) but are thinking about it and starting to plan for it.
In our case its just about wanting a little more spark and sizzle in our sex lives. Its just sex.
I think this is something you have to be a little older to get into. If you are really young (20's say) its harder to understand. But turn 40 and you start getting bored and are also emotionally mature enough to take some chances.
2007-08-17 06:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
It's how we met. We've been together now for three years.
We play with others (very close friends) monthly or less. It's an exciting part of our relationship, but we don't live our lives around it. If either of us decided to stop, we would. We love each other more than anything. Playing with others is just something we do for excitement.
2007-08-17 14:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by danielz_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know 5 couples that have or are doing it. At some point they all have ended up divorced or are having serious problems.
2007-08-17 13:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by jungljn 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, that is disgusting. I think any couples who did that should be ashamed with themselves. They are de-meaning marriage. Why if you're going to have sex with other couples, get married? Where you have to stand in church and make vows.
Stay single if you want that kind of lifestyle I think.
*Edit* C- You don't respect your husband or wife if you allow them to be ****** by someone else infront of you.... and you don't respect marriage either. Not that I need to ask, but do you have respect for yourself?
2007-08-17 13:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by kl 1 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I would not know how many, but what you get to read in the press , it is a modern metro mania and some bored couples are into it.
To my mind those who indulge in such activity are perverse people who do not know how to live life purposefully. Their mind circuits are closed to the real life around.
2007-08-17 13:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by jittender k 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
We have a swing, but hardly ever use it.
2007-08-17 13:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not swing but some friends of mine do. I think it adds excitement to their marriage.
2007-08-17 13:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by Welcome to Colorful Colorado 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I would like to know why people do this too, seems like it would be purely selfish reasons.
2007-08-17 13:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i would never do anyting to disrespect god. i mean come on we stood if his house and vowed to be with only each other till death due us part. i think that says it all. the sex i have with my husband is awesome i dont feel the need to wander and neither does he
2007-08-17 13:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by CHERISH 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No my hubby won't let another man touch me (besides I don't want one to anyway).
2007-08-17 13:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by Spring 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋