2007-08-17 07:40:20 · 49 answers · asked by girlnextdoor409 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You find out everything you do is WRONG.
That goes for both sexes.
Some people get married thinking they can CHANGE the other person.. Wrong ,no you can`t !!!!!
2007-08-17 07:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
i guess i just hit the wrong board today. why does every1 think marriage is bad? communication is the key i've always said that. mistakes are made and if you cant look past the mistakes then u have no business being in a marriage. i've messed around and he's still here. I must have done something right to keep him here. he's not being forced to stay and neither am I. yeah theres times we dont get along, but i honestly cant remember the last time we fought. we dont fight we talk things out. nothing is ever perfect but marriage isnt that bad. i'm happy and so is he, what do you think the worst part about being married is?
2007-08-17 07:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you have been married for a while things sometimes get boring or you go through a rough patch and you loose the thrill of each others touch... You begin to take each other for granted and if your not care-full you can easily fall into another relationship.
Marriage is work.... no doubt about it... It takes effort on both part.... It requires maintenance just like anything else... Time warps things and if you want to keep something nice it is gonna cost you.
But isn't love and companionship worth it the cost? Of course it is.... But question is .... Do you both feel that way....
Always remember... Life happens, feelings change and if you decide to be married it should ONLY be with someone you are willing to stay with for the rest of your life (and someone who feels the same way about you).... Through thick and thin... A lot of people give up.... It is always easier to do that... But know this... Do you have the same morals? That will also play into it... Everyone comes into a relationship with baggage.... Question is... Who's baggage are you gonna put up with? The one you already know and understand or someone Else's that could even be worse.
2007-08-17 07:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is something bad about being married? Geez, I've been married 24 years and nobody told me there was a bad part to it!! LOL
If you take the time to become best friends before you rush into a marriage, your gonna love being married. If you rush into a marriage, your gonna find all kinds of "worst things" about the relationship. The ulltimate "worst" thing in that case is gonna be the divorce itself.
2007-08-17 07:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by randy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seeing all the sides that you never saw before, whether it be the person not cleaning up after their self to that person being abusive only after you say I do. It is the unknowns that you will keep finding out slowly but surely after you get married. Some you will be able to over look and some will make you want to run for the hills!!! But if it gets abusive, no matter how much you love that person, you have to leave, Life with happiness is better than love always hurting.
2007-08-17 08:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by nicelydunn2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worst thing about being married is only when you've married the wrong person.
2007-08-17 07:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Valentina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess having to integrate all your stuff. Even though I was only 24 when I got married, I was already sort of set in how I wanted things, and to have someone else bringing in their stuff was a little annoying, but certainly couldn't be helped.
If that's the biggest problem I have, I'll count myself very lucky!
2007-08-17 08:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ahni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a great thing! Just like every other relationship you have to work at it. Living under the same roof, meshing two lives together, one is going to be messier, one is going to be more opinionated, everyone has quirks. I think the hardest part is working things out the first year and then down the road to keep the relationship going good and not get boring.
2007-08-17 07:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by RSJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In-laws... Do not move near your in-laws or near your parents.. you are asking for an instant divorce. Ultimately, family problems may arise but if not taken care of immediately with both you and your spouse working as a team, you will divorce and hard feelings will begin to develop. Also, you have to remember to let the little things go and face the big things head on..
2007-08-17 07:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by MurphysGirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well there is lots of bad in being married but lots of good to ,
You just have to take to the good with the bad and work on it. I was married when I was 18 and 7 years later still married. You both have to be willing to work on it together or it will never last
2007-08-17 07:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lil lady 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it's a great marriage built on love and communication, there's nothing bad about it....however if you cannot communicate and be honest with each other....there's not enough room on this page to list all the problems that can develop!!!
Just remember you want to be his wife...not his mom....you are a partner..not a caregiver. You may find yourself doing things that his mother would do for him like picking up after him and taking care of some of his responsibilities...but do it because you want to...not because he expects it out of you!!
2007-08-17 07:45:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋