i messed up a few months ago,i fessed up to my man about it. he made the dumbest comment about how white women dont cheat on black men. women cheat period black, white, asian whatever i just need to hear what yall say. I know i fucked up, cause im kinda fucked up on men (daddy issues)no matter what color, but thats no excuse for what i did. please tell this man ,women of all colors cheat (i worked at a bank for nine years everyone was doing everyone married or not so i know) for some reason they would tell me
2007-08-17 05:40:40 · 27 answers · asked by iamchinarain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to answer american beauty, im not a good liar he asked and tried to lie but i suck at it so i dont do it much cause i'll always get caught so i just came out with it
2007-08-17 06:03:08 · update #1
sweet ididnt say just white women i know everybody has done it . iv'e worked with white women who cheated on their black husbands so i know white women, but not just them women of other races cheat(just watch maury) i know i was wrong . he's admitted to sleeping with this stripper in a school parking lot( which he lied about when i asked him b4 any of this came up) but he has permission so im not mad cause i did my dirt
2007-08-17 08:17:36 · update #2
The best way to answer this I think, is to remember that people are people, no matter what color they are. Human nature is just that, human nature, white, black, brown, yellow or red......
2007-08-17 05:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Rein 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Anyone cheats who is unhappy in the relationship, insecure for many reasons. I am a White girl and I have cheated before and am not proud of it but it is life. The thing that gets me is that if he is black I could say that all black men cheat, I dated on and he was living with a girl dating me and sleeping with another. So I would say grow up it is just the type of person not the color.
2007-08-17 05:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that he is VERY IGNORANT !!! And this perfect world that he being living is only for bedtime story. I agree with everyone else its doesn't matter what race, skin color, etc. that we all are human and both men and women cheat the same. The reason can be same as well, not happy at home, find out their spouse/companion turn out to be a pain in the rear after a while, what they thought was real but turn out to be a mirage. Tell him to grow up
2007-08-17 06:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
funny you have women calling men dogs and saying how they all cheat, and then you have guys like you talking about how all women cheat. the bottom line is you can't say all do this or that, and there are no rules for this stuff. yeah, some white women cheat. some black women cheat, and you can go on filling in whatever race you want. some do, some dont. you just have to find one that loves you, give her your trust, and dive in. there are no gaurentees in love. it comes with risks, but when you find the right one, the rewards are worth it all.
2007-08-17 05:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by ohiojeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what race you or your man is. However being white has nothing to do with cheating. You can let your man know that woman in general cheat same as men. He sounds VERY IGNORANT by making it a race thing.
2007-08-17 05:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AHAHAHAAHAH... you've got to give it to him for imagination! Your husband was just mad and said the first thing that popped into his head. I'm sorry what he said hurt you so much, but he was just trying to get a rise out of you (at least he didn't say "I should have stayed with my ex..she was so much better in bed") it was just his pathetic attempt to make you as mad as he was. ALL PEOPLE CHEAT, regardless of race, gender, age, people are all the same on the inside.
2007-08-17 07:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by sweetheart88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's true...women of all races cheat. It doesn't matter the background, class, or financial status...women do cheat just like men do.
Of course it's wrong, like you said. So you do have some work to do to get back...but his statement was just way off on that one.
2007-08-17 05:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Tina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men and women are cheating around the planet earth right now.This happen does not matter the culture,country or race.But not all women and all men cheat.Good question.
2007-08-17 05:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding I would have asked him then do all white never cheat then?? Every culture women or men cheat on one time or another
2007-08-17 05:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do women have this ridiculous need to confess? You were foolish to tell your man this information. He's not going to let you forget it. You also need to clean up your filthy mouth. Buy yourself a dictionary; so you can develop a better vocabulary. I'm not going to respond to the question about white women cheating, because it's a stupid question. Both you and your man need to grow up.
2007-08-17 05:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋