Do relationships have sudden conclusions?
(This is not personal for me, it's a scenario that has just came into my mind because of what I'm observing from life).
I see all these situations of people cheating on each other. Why do people take these chances? I have seen people who have nothing wrong in their marriage and have just gone astray for unexplainable reasons they just lost interest in the other person.
My Question is If you had to choose and somebody becomes special in your life Which would it be......
A. Leave your marriage to start a new life.
B. Stay married and cheat.
Only choose A or B otherwise do not comment.
I'm looking for character content here if you were faced with only one option!
2007-08-17 07:26:20 · 23 answers · asked by Ophiuchus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If these were my only two options, I would leave my marrige and start new. If I have met someone that makes me consider either option, then obviously I am not in love with my spouse and don't need to pretend that I am. Why put them through that? It isn't a great place to be, in a relationship where you aren't really wanted. Cut them loose so that they can move on with their life also. If I am not happy with the person I am with, I am not going to stay with that person. Likewise, if I know that person is not happy with me, I will not stay. Be true to yourself, and the people you love.
2007-08-17 07:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Irishgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would pick A. You should never put someone through this constant cheating it can only hurt everyone involved more than leaving and starting over. And if kids are involved this is a strong case because they should not grow up in an environment that condones cheating. I also think though that people should realize relationships sometimes take work and can not always be like a fairy tale. Too often nowadays people just give up it seems once it gets hard or when something happens. Working through the hard times brings couples closer together because it makes your bond stronger. My family is a good example of these two scenarios. My grandparents have been married for over 50 years now and they are still in love like a pair of newlyweds. My mom is remarried and about to go through another divorce and my father is on his third marriage. People seem to be too quick to run into marriage and then to quick to throw in the towel and sleep around. Best to be honest. So best to leave and stop pretending.
2007-08-17 07:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by angelsmooth23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some relationships have sudden conclusions, some do not. It depends on the couple and their situation.
I don't want the bad karma from cheating, nor is it a kewl thing to do...so if I felt there was someone else I couldn't be without, I'd definitely end one relationship before getting involved in a different one. Do unto others and all that...y'know?
I commented anyway...I stopped answering "A" or "B" back in school.
2007-08-17 07:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't always two choices but between the two it would completely depend, it would depend if children were involved and how happy or unhappy I was in my relationship and where my current marriage seemed to be going. I think most people would cheat but that's because I think the worst in people when it comes to such things.
2007-08-17 07:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take A. If I wanted to cheat, I'd just leave my marriage. It would have to be bad enough for me to cheat, so why would I want to keep going back after leaving my wonderful lover all the time???
2007-08-17 07:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is under no circumstances offensive while taken for what that is well worth. maximum all and sundry has a prior and conversing approximately it in a mature courting should not be a concern. that's the present that counts. I even have befriended my existence-companion's ex's because of fact i understand he loves me and in basic terms because of fact they're in hi previous does not recommend they may well be friends in the present.
2016-10-02 13:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by cris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you didn't leave me any option but to do something wrong. Feelings come and go. Marriage is forever
C. Stay Married and aviod the person to whom I am attracted
2007-08-17 07:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Dr 8'lls 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Always A. Never cheat.
2007-08-17 07:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by ↓ ♥мǝow♥ ↑ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell me, how is it possible to answer a hypothetical question? The answer depends on so many variables! There is absolutely no way of knowing! Think about it!
2007-08-17 07:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
B. I love my wife but I am human so I want to eat my cake and have it too.
2007-08-17 07:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋