those of you who have worked at a restaurant know why i ask.
all hypothetical of course
2007-08-17 08:34:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. I would burn the ****** down.....oh, and the restaurant too.
2007-08-17 08:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by AJPierzynskis' 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think cheating had anything to do with the restaurant or the person they cheated with...I think the issues are within your spouse. I wouldn't look at working at a restaurant as the problem it's the fact that your spouse is a cheater that's the real issue.
2007-08-17 15:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, if your spouse cheated, would you trust them again? regardless of the time, place or circumstances.
The restaurant isn't to blame for them cheating...I've never seen an establishment make a person do something. Besides there are deeper issues, look within yourself...maybe you had something to do with it. Were you neglectful? Were you mean? Are they mean or neglectful? Have the two of your grown apart? Or is the whole relationship just not right? Those are the reasons people become weak and give into temptation not because of their occupation.
2007-08-17 15:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the cheating spouse worked at the grocery store, library, or doctor's office? Would you never allow them to have a job in a any of those places either. The job or place of employment isn't the problem, the cheating spouse is. I would say get rid of the cheater.
2014-10-26 18:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what difference does it make where you work? The affair is the issue and not where it happened. I have worked at a restaurant and there was nothing really different about it at all. In fact, I work in an office and well...lets just say that is a whole 'nother issue.
The affair is what the issue is and you need to address that one instead of the restaurant. Obviously she is very insecure and needs your reassurance. If you haven't given it to her, she must make the correlation that its the restaurant and not the man. ;)
2007-08-17 15:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be with them anymore so if they wanted to work at another restaurant, let them cheat on whoever they are seeing now.
2007-08-17 15:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by lmphslaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it has anything to do with the restaurant or any atmosphere/environment you work at. I think it all depends on the person if they're weak and get tempted easily they're bound to cheat, plus they don't love you if they cheat on you. NO EXCUSES!
2007-08-17 15:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, I don't think the problem is the restaurant, it's your cheating spouse. even if she were working at a grocery store, if she's a cheater, she's a cheater!
2007-08-17 15:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you can't trust your wife to work in a restaurant again then you don't trust her and haven't really forgiven her or gotten over the cheating. you shouldn't be in that marriage anymore.
2007-08-17 15:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mary 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on the situation... If it was just one time & not habitual & they really were sorry & wanted to change & never do it again I would stick with her... But if she did & kept on doing it & not care about changing & working on things. Then I would have to just move on.
2007-08-17 15:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's going to stray, she'll stray no matter where she works. It's not difficult for any woman to find a man that will have sex with her. Hell, if we wanted to, we'd have sex with a different man every day. I'm not saying that we're doing that, but we can.
2007-08-17 15:46:51 · answer #11 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋