Marriage & Divorce - 13 August 2007

i've lived with my boyfriend for the past 7 years and we got engaged last year. friday night he went to his brothers saying he needs space he came back late saturday for some clothes and took his pasport and car documents. he said he still likes me but for now the love has gone. do you think he could ever love me again?

2007-08-13 23:52:20 · 21 answers · asked by j034nn3 3

unless they don't accept any boyfriend no matter what. they will not have it any other way and they are totally hostile with whomever they consider below their rank. their attitude has affected me also and i think it makes me ruin my personal relationships. I don't know how to deal with that.

2007-08-13 23:46:09 · 20 answers · asked by sarah kay 5

2007-08-13 23:29:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-13 23:28:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-13 23:26:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, this is what happened. me and my husband had a big fight and I said I was going to leave him because I'm sick of arguing in front of the kids. So then like always he ran home to his mums and expects to come home and everything be fine in a few days. And when he called in 3 days I said I didnt want him back, so then his mum called me up called me a f.ck.ng c.nt and a ***** and selfish and was yelling at me swearing, I didnt relatiate because she is pathetic 4 doing that and then my husband gets on the phone and sticks up for his mum and his mum says to me I have to get all my stuff and the kids out the house. So I left and my husband stood up for his mum and called me those horrible things too. Then the next day he rings me crying saying he wants me back. I'm not going back because he cant treat me like that and expect me to put up with it. would you put up with that?

2007-08-13 21:34:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

basically my husband and i have been married for 2 years we have one son who is 6 months old and i'm pregnant again. most woman i talk to complain that their husbands do nothing and are horrible to them but i have the opposite problem. my husband works does everything he can for me and our son but its a real turn off.

my husband had helped me gotten out of an abusive relationship and i was so happy to get out but know i feel that i have the husband who cared out that i wanted i miss being treated bad, is that bad? i cheated on my husband and im not sure if the baby im pregnant with is his and if its not his it will be a different color than both of our races. what should i do!?!?
should i wait and hope and see? i always wanted a guy like him but now i almost want to get rid of him and hes just a sissy, be careful what you wish for. should i get out if so how can i get child support does me being pregnant with what might be another guys baby change that at all?

2007-08-13 21:28:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Morning
I woke to above txt from my partner this morning. All he says it wasn't his name that is all. We haven't been active in the bedroom recently due to me dislocating my arm and generally feeling low. I am annoyed with him as he seems to have forgotten how to do the dishes and fold the clean washing ( thats all I ask him to do in the house) so I guess that is to do with me feeling down too.
The last time I went off sex he accused me of seeing soemone but later admitted it was others he didn't trust, not me.
Am I responsible for who I dream about, bearing in mind I haven't been out without my partner except to the shops for food. So the only guys I see are on the bloody TV!
Should this final straw?

2007-08-13 21:05:06 · 25 answers · asked by angelrose0105 4

I'm female. Ive become friends with this girl i met at the library. We do lots of things together and she's become a good friend and sometimes babysits my child. The other night she told me she used to be a call girl. (now she has a regular decent job).
I dont know if i want to be friends with her anymore. Im not judging but i just dont think I want someone who's bee thru that kind of life, around my family...who knows what kind of bad habits and screwed up mentality they ve picked up a long the way.

2007-08-13 20:43:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom yells at my dad for not keeping the house tidy. My dad would do anything but keep the house tidy.

I can tell from everywhere i see, guys in long term relationships, and with kids, get into arguments with their wives that they probably lose at.

Why is it that husbands are like this? I saw an article about this at space.com, but i cant find it now, does anyone know the site.

2007-08-13 19:50:26 · 2 answers · asked by JN 3

you do divorce her or seperate with her to stay with your children please tell me what i have to do

2007-08-13 19:25:23 · 19 answers · asked by salim a 2

I have not enjoyed sex with my spouse lately...What should I do?

2007-08-13 19:13:09 · 16 answers · asked by Jack Khoo 2

you know they get sensitive like being emotional...do they?or only us?

2007-08-13 19:03:29 · 26 answers · asked by truth set free 1

He rocks :)

2007-08-13 18:53:39 · 47 answers · asked by Willalee 5

I contracted this some years ago I know this because I have been with my husband 2 years and have not cheated at all. We have a child. I need help telling him that I have herpes. Please help, im desperate

2007-08-13 18:53:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife filed for divorce in late May. She moved out two weeks later. I found out she was having an affair and now she has even introduced him to our teenage kids as a friend of hers from work. Problem is, I coach youth sports and my daughter cheers for my team. My soon to be ex says she sees no reason why he cant attend games with her that I am coaching and my daughter is cheering for. That would make me completely insane and she knows that. I swear to you guys I never did anything to deserve this and I am not looking for sympathy.Can I have a restraining order filed to prevent her from bringing him anywhere near me? My son also plays sports and she says he will be there also. We are not divorced yet and my son already figured out he is more than just a friend and he hates it. I do not want to be put into that type of a situation especially in that type of venue!

2007-08-13 18:12:36 · 13 answers · asked by da_catcar 1

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. We are very serious about this relationship and plan to someday get married. I dont live with her, and probably won't till I get married. Anyways, half of our arguments end up with her screaming at me, making assumptions and exaggerations of ways I feel about her (ie. "so why don't you just break up with me if you hate me so much??"), and just over stupid ****. I try as much as I can to not yell back, but it is really hard to not yell when she is that upset. She does have a self-esteem problem and is very insecure. But I love her with all my heart. I just want to make life easier for the both of us, especially if she and I get married sometime in the future. I am willing to do whatever it takes to make her temper less of a problem. That is really the only problem I have with her. Everything else in our relationship is great. She just somehow needs to stop over-reacting when we argue about something. How can this stop?

2007-08-13 18:01:38 · 18 answers · asked by coolinferno84 1

he died in a car accident, it was his fault, he ran into the back of a truck. he died 2 days later in hospital. i cant help but feel at a loss. what should / could i do to get over this feeling of loss.

2007-08-13 17:56:52 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband, as much as I love him, I hate him too. I think he may have 2 personalities, (mental illness runs in his family) so I am torn, i dont know if i should stay with him because he needs me or if I should leave so I can be happy. He has made it clear that I am not what he desires, he loves me, (in his own way) but doesnt desire me, and he consistanly makes me feel like s***. He loves to call me names and tell me that I am not being a quote "good wife", when i do everything in my power to be the world for him and do everything for him. Im dead inside, I dont want to live anymore, atleast not like this, but i dont want to hurt him. This is just the tip of the ice burg, but, it gives all of you an idea of what is wrong. My friends are divided on this subject, the women think I need to weight the pros and cons, but there are too many that out wieght the others from both sides to make it work. They guys,say leave him. Im also scared, I want 2 b loved & afraid Im not worthy

2007-08-13 17:49:44 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

his wife? As much as I hate to admit it, it's been this way for years without any chance of ever improving. She only knows one way and is simply not open to anything new. I guess I shouldn't have to tell you that I am so tempted to go out and find someone who really enjoys sex and the many variations of it. You have no idea what I'd give to experience just once in my life the kind " " blow - your - mind " sex I've heard so much about....

2007-08-13 17:25:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are leaving our 6 month baby for the first time to go on a date tonight, but I have no idea what to do? What do you suggest to we do? We are going for dinner, but we want to do something fun afterwards.

2007-08-13 17:04:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going through a nasty legal process at the moment, and I would really like to understand what's going on. I'm trying to get away from (someone who is essentially an abusive ex) and I'm still really emotionally connected to him. I don't want to be doing this to him, but I don't have a choice anymore.

And I'd really like an idea of how he might be feeling right now...

So anyone with REAL experiences, either as the person served or a friend/relative of one...?? Please?!

2007-08-13 15:55:26 · 11 answers · asked by Callisto 3

My husband wants to move to san diego to be near his family whom he isnt particularly emotionally close with who live north of portland or. I want to move to virginia which is only 500 miles from my family. he says it isnt fair because we have always lived closer to my family. I dont think that 960 miles away is really close enough to his family to move there. putting me a couple thousand miles from my family which is really close knit. i think it just kind of leaves us away from everyone we love. should i just give in? i just moved back to the states from following him to japan for a year.

2007-08-13 15:55:05 · 9 answers · asked by specialmama 2

Does anybody have a husband or boyfriend who spanks them either during sex or when you have done something wrong.

2007-08-13 15:48:13 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4

How can some people(most in this case)who know eachother family,friends,bestfriends who are in relationship for years any kind of relationship family,friends just break up,move on,dont bother to maintain relationship once their work is done with you
Ive had this happen to me so many times cant keep ignoring it.

2007-08-13 15:42:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have seen police officers,counslers and more. i was just wondering for fun what is everyones living? what do you do?
my husband is going to school for accounting and im a home mom. for now tell i go to school. ;)

2007-08-13 15:41:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am divorced and I know my ex will not consent to me moving our child out of state. We live in Missouri, and I want to move to Georgia with my boyfriend. I want to move to primarily get away from all the worries I have here with my ex-husband constantly trying to control our lives, even though we have been divorced 2 years now. In our divorce papers, in the parenting plan, it says I have to have written consent from him to move our daughter out of state. Well, he will not consent, so do I have to go to court and if so what do I need to prepare myself for? Is there any chance the judge would say I can't move with her? He does have a long history of DWIs and drug position, would any of this past be helpful to me moving from him? If we have to go to court, what should I expect to have to change as far as visitation rights and child support, etc? Thanks to anyone who has any answers to help me!

2007-08-13 15:41:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

And when you try to talk to the ones you think will be there to listen they only criticize you & every one around you. For instance, my son is making some bad decisions about college & marriage at a young age. His dad has given him nothing but hell & my current husband just keeps calling him an idiot! My youngest son has a condition called encopresis, which would take a lot to explain, but basically he poops his pants several times a day because this condition causes you to loose control over your bowels. I've taken him to dr after dr & have talked to 2 specialists, but am having no luck yet! It's a very complex problem with a long treatment for recovery. Sometimes his pants are so full that he literally has to crawl to the bathroom & I have to clean him off in the tub because it's so much! I want to home school him until I get him "cured," but also have no support for that! I am the one who sees how embarrassed my son is when it happens! I am the one who cleans him!

2007-08-13 15:38:09 · 14 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

He's been thinking in about giving his rights up. Ok my question is can she come back and get him for child support if he signs his rights over? Only serious answers please i dont have time for someone to be an asshole on here thanks

2007-08-13 15:32:09 · 25 answers · asked by armywife063006 1

My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. We have both been married before and are in our late 30s/early 40s. We have talked (and talked, and talked) about marriage. He knows I want to get married again and have children. He says that he would like to have more children (he was one). We love each other and have felt a high level of comfort since day one. To make matters worse, we are in a long-distance relationship.

I am preparing to move to the next phase of my life, which includes marriage and kids. I will not give him an ultimatum, but I'd like to let him know that I have to move forward if I expect to still have children.

Q: Do I tell him that I'll be moving forward? Or do I move forward and let him figure it out. I don't want him to feel that it is an ultimatum, because in the end, it's not about him. It's about what I want in my life. Appreciate any comments.

2007-08-13 15:27:10 · 13 answers · asked by Kay 2