Marriage & Divorce - 13 August 2007

i love my husband but there is this really great guy at work and i really like him in that WAY. what do i do?

2007-08-13 04:58:19 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my wife are thinkin of ways to spice things up in our sex life. It is already great, but there are always ideas to make it even better. I know you got some good ones

2007-08-13 04:54:45 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

and then everytime she tells you thats all, should you believe her?

2007-08-13 04:52:52 · 17 answers · asked by j-v 3

2007-08-13 04:48:04 · 5 answers · asked by RACHEL R 1

My Husband and I have been married for almost 7 yrs and been together for 11 yrs. He has stopped having sex with me for no reason or at least he says he doesn't know why. It's been quite a few months and no sex!! I've tried to be patient but now I've started to threaten to leave if he doesn't change--that only starts fights. I'm at my whits end. Is it justified to leave if he won't make love to me? I can't imagine not having sex for the rest of my life!! And no I haven't let myself go!

2007-08-13 04:32:37 · 36 answers · asked by Marygoroun(d) 6

Divoriced since March kids came to visit for a coupe weeks I find out the BF of several months is picking up the kids 13 and 11 at airport. I'm I being dumb to be alittle pissed.

2007-08-13 04:27:53 · 13 answers · asked by Steven K 2

Dear Friends,
after a fight i spoke with my hubby and asked for forgiveness...he told me i broke his heart and it will take time heal...he needs time to become normal again... he wants to be with me and gradually thing will be in place...
my question is he is not talking to me like earlier and no physical contacts at all..how can I again make him fall in love with me in such condition..please only genuine response.
i need you help to impress my hubby and win back his love...
please answer in detail on what and how to do this work...
what do u think how much time it will take him to be normal with me again...
Thanks,

2007-08-13 04:26:39 · 8 answers · asked by jessy 1

Why is it that when someone is having problems in their marriage and they ask for advice most people say that they should get a divorce? Do most people on here think that divorce will solve everything? My parents were married for 42 years when my dad passed away. They did not get divorced but they had plenty of problems in all the years that they were married. I did get a divorce because I could not live like my mother did and I was also abused. Why is divorce the answer to all problems? Don't couples believe in staying together through thick and thin?

2007-08-13 04:17:36 · 13 answers · asked by Nancy M 7

I have two boys by my soon to be ex-husband. We seperated last year and I met a guy whom I got pregnant by. I tried to get my divorce before I found out I was pregnant but then I found out and the judge wouldnt give me a divorce until the baby was born. So now do I have to get a attorney because someone else's child is involved? Does the baby's father have to be a part of the divorce?

2007-08-13 04:11:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married 1 year. He goes to the pubs and with friends all the time. I told him that I want him to share more time with me, but he doesnt want. He said is the way how he is and I should accept it. I wanted to start a family, but I m really scared whilest he says if I dont accept everything how he is we shoul get divorce. Please help me with an answer!!!

2007-08-13 04:05:40 · 9 answers · asked by Estrella 2

I'm tired of seeing people recommend this as a solution when someone poses a question regarding suspiscions of infidelity. If you are going to hire a PI on your partner, it's probably over already!

2007-08-13 04:00:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

The day after he registered on a singles website looking for sex. The week after, he met someone and has talked with her ever since. He's gone out of town to play "baseball" twice now. Come to find out that is where she lives. He said he only met her there once each of his 2 trips. Once for dinner and once for lunch. (I call that a date) He said that is all. Do I believe that. He said he's never going to call or see her again. And he decided that before I even found out about her. I'm still not over it. Since that happened, I now realize that I do still love my husband. But when i want to talk about this woman he gets all defensive and doesn't want to answer anything I ask. He just tells me that he's told me everything already and there is nothing more to talk about. Oh yeah, he wants to start over, therefore not talk about it. I just can't get over how quickly he is to move on. Even though I did say it was over. My big question is, Is it wrong for me to want to still talk about it?

2007-08-13 03:57:22 · 55 answers · asked by Melissa W 1

We already have a 19 month old daughter who was born 2 months after we were married. (you do the math) Before we got married we split up b/c of alot of problems. But got married b/c we still loved each other and we were going to have a baby. Now things are so much better. We are so in love and we love our daughter. But everytime the subject of having another baby comes up he gets mad and he said that he doesn't want another one. He says that he never wanted children to begin with. He does love our daughter even though she wasn't planned. Please help I don't know how to change his mind or if I should try. I want another child so bad.

2007-08-13 03:54:52 · 14 answers · asked by Christen T 4

i found a card in the garage the other day saying to my husband sex and i love it but it was ripped up i have been married to that man for 18yrs whats going on i know that woman aswell she is married with 4 kids

2007-08-13 03:49:25 · 21 answers · asked by astra 5

My husband and I just got married a little less than a month ago. Neither of us have ever wanted children until now, however we were going to wait a few years (3 at the most), but I just found out I'm almost 3 months pregnant. How in the world do I tell him? His mother has been pestering us for months, so I know both sides of our family will be happy, but I'm a little worried with him because of the timing - just so soon into our marriage. Please help with any suggestions on how to break the news to him.
P.S. There is no way possible he's going to be angry or violent (just not in him), but what I'm mostly worried about is him being scared.

2007-08-13 03:47:44 · 38 answers · asked by ladygodiva0220 2

She says she has not inlove with me, she just loves me.
This come from us had a rocky marriage to some degree, but always loving. She does not want to stay married, and I do not want to force it, but I do love her. I do things that are anoying to her such as having hobbies, and many other little things.
She is by my untrained view bipolar. I know this since she has a blood decease known as thalesemia minor. The point is I don't know what is normal in my situation. Is my playing an instrument an doing it daily (about 1hr after work), and then I fly 4 hrs on saturday mornings, then the rest of the weekend is free , normal for her to hate what I do?

2007-08-13 03:47:03 · 5 answers · asked by Jaime L 2

How would you handle this? The kids were babies when I came into their lives we had them all of the time while mom had the weekends ( I did feel alittle jealous, but It me helped to get closer to the kids) Now that the kids are grown I guess now she is trying to catch up for lost time. I don't like it but she is their mom
the daughter does not come over as much b/c her mom gives her way too much leeway she became a teenager before she was a teenager. The one paying for it is dad. I feel bad for him it really bothers him but he is a strong man, that is what attracted me to him was the way he was with his kids now we have 2 beautiful kids of our own.
Hope this made sense.
Thanks!

2007-08-13 03:45:57 · 5 answers · asked by Buttterfly123 3

HI. my parents have been married for 18 years and are going to get a ivorce at the end of the summer. My mom tries so hard to keep me and my little sister to have a happy life. My dad lately has been drinking a lot and also has a lot of family issues. I am 13 and i see everything that goes on and sometimes their fighting gets physical. I know ANSWERS is not the best place to look for help but can anyone give me some adivice on how to get through the next....well year?

Thanks.

2007-08-13 03:39:45 · 4 answers · asked by ayo, ERICAA! 3

my husband caught me with two other guys and i thought he was gona kill me. but i was surprised when he said he didnt mind it happening, as long as i tell him first. i told him that i wanted to try sex with other men, but i would still love him. he was cool about the idea but im scared that he might leave me. but i still love him even if its not him im doing it with. is it ok for me to do this?

2007-08-13 03:38:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even though I'm the one who broke it off 4 months ago I still feel the pain. It feels like I've experienced a death of a loved one. The problem with this is that I think I'm getting over it, and then when I least expect it the pain and memories slap me upside the head. When I get up in the morning, at work, taking a shower. I know that eventually time will heal my wounds but is there anything I can do in the meantime to keep me from feeling so miserable?

2007-08-13 03:35:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are considering divorce. We have twin 3 year olds. He plans to request joint custody. I wouldn't have a problem with that if he spent time with his children now. He is scheduled to keep the kids while I work one day a week, but he usually says he can't because he's tired, or plans something else. This year they've went to daycare on his day more than he has kept them. He hardly ever sees them. I get them up everyday, take them to daycare on their scheduled days, I spend the evenings with them, cook dinner, give them their baths and put them to bed. My children are very attached to me and I know they couldn't handle overnight stays without me. I am their routine. Will these things be taken into consideration? I don't mind him seeing them, but I worry about how traumatic it will be at this age. I think they could handle it better if they were a little older.

2007-08-13 03:34:57 · 7 answers · asked by Madmas 3

night. He was a bachelor for most of his life and strip clubs were a common occurance for him. Because of my ex-husbands behavior I was very close minded about porn/mags/strip clubs, etc... When my husband & I first met he was aware of my hang ups & knew what my "deal breakers" were & has been very respectful of that. Because I trust my husband so much & he respects me so much, I have become more open sexually. I know that if I were to say no to anything, he would respect that. It was my idea to go to the club & of course he was happy about it. He assured me that if at any time I became uncomfortable we would leave no questions asked. The thing is I/we had a great time while we were there but now that I'm starting to feel as though I have opened "Pandora's Box". I got a lot of attention from the strippers & even got on stage with a couple of strippers. My husband said he enjoyed going & seeing me have fun/showing me off was the big turn on for him. Is it really harmless fun? Is it OK?

2007-08-13 03:33:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My local community college has classes for continuing education... things you don't get credits for. They have 2 classes to learn how to dance. The first is ballroom dancing the second is Latin dance. I am totally clueless when it comes to dancing. Are these valid tools in a man’s arsenal? Do women really like to do this or is it just hip hop *** grinding in the sweaty nightclubs?

2007-08-13 03:31:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is a miserable prick

2007-08-13 03:23:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

remarried, and who can't have children?

2007-08-13 03:22:02 · 21 answers · asked by beba 1

by texas law?

2007-08-13 03:21:28 · 14 answers · asked by kyle normin 1

2007-08-13 03:19:56 · 12 answers · asked by kyle normin 1

My hus is addicted to internt porn and I dont normally see the pictures but he had one on the laptop when I got up early and I told him in a jokeing way later that i didnt want to see the young chics first thing in the morning and I would break the lap top! I noticed from tht point on he was drinking and strted in with bad language at me to me.This is not like him.Did I touch on a nerve ?Or what.?

2007-08-13 03:19:32 · 14 answers · asked by jessy 3

My husband got a new job 6 months ago, he took my sons cellphone and made it a togo phone that was unknown to me! One morning heard beeping and found the secret phone! He had been texting and talking to this girl at work and home. I and my kids went through hell in regards to that phone! I kicked him out! Then he supposedly understood what dumb mistake he made! He destroyed the sims card and gave my son his phone back! After he let their relationship go she began to text me like a child! But when I called her all she did was Studder! We've been married 10 years together for 13. Can I trust him to be faithful this time?or can icount on him to have a secret life again?thankyou

2007-08-13 03:19:20 · 21 answers · asked by Donna 31 1

2007-08-13 03:17:11 · 16 answers · asked by bjjbrown 1