Marriage & Divorce - 13 August 2007

2007-08-13 08:43:15 · 29 answers · asked by Thundercat 7

2007-08-13 08:43:03 · 29 answers · asked by gingerspice 1

2007-08-13 08:42:30 · 3 answers · asked by tlch18 1

2007-08-13 08:42:03 · 4 answers · asked by gingerspice 1

a young girl before I ever left him. What can I do now to get proof of that, that would be acceptable in court, as it is too late for pictures. I think it will help me tremendously in my divorce. Any ideas please?

2007-08-13 08:41:17 · 13 answers · asked by Ann Marie 2

I cheated on my fiance with my baby's father. I tried to be completley honest with him cause I felt bad about it afterward. I told him what had happened. He is hurt almost beyond repair. But he wants to try to work things out with me. What is the best way for him to forgive and forget and what can I do to help him?

2007-08-13 08:36:13 · 26 answers · asked by Lisa 1

I married a man with two boys, 1 was adhd, bipolar, 1 was bipolar. They caused alot of problems and at times made my now ex-husband choose between them and me. Time has gone by and alot of nasty things were said by me to the boys and visa versa when all this was getting bad. Now i realize that it should of been my husband who took care of it this and stopped it but he put me in the position with them as MOM. Should i call these boys and apologize to them for the times that i wasn't very nice to them? I feel because i was a mother figure that i owe them that. They went through hell all their lives and i thought i could help them but what they needed, i feel, should of came from there dad. So i was the one who decided to leave. P.S. The youngest was 7 and a product of Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy caused by the biological mom, and the other was 14 at the time who witnessed all this.

I feel awful.

2007-08-13 08:33:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or should I be concerned?

2007-08-13 08:32:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating a beautiful lady for 3 months and we plan on marrying very soon. We both have been married more then once, she is 45, I am 50. At times I wonder if she truly loves me as I often have to initiate "I Iove you's or intimacy such as kissing. Is there a way of telling if a women truly loves a man? What are good indicators?

2007-08-13 08:23:17 · 9 answers · asked by jerry b 2

2007-08-13 08:13:33 · 22 answers · asked by okulla2000 1

My husband has evil ex-wife.They have a daughter14years old she stays with us 50% stays mom 50%.The ex always try to control situation withe the daughter.Something happen what she doesn't like She calls my husband and yell one hour.Then if we did not follow her way She demand money(30% his income)for the daughter Yes it is threat.
.He really afraid this thing happen.If he did not pic phone up, she comes this house and yell.
He is mainly yes man.He said if you said some your opinion she dose exactly opposite.and yell other one hour.In the past her own father said to her "you are insane" Yes She is very unreasonable crazy. My husband say best way is just ignore and not resist.Sometime the daughter use her mom in some purpose She knows how to use own mom.She call her mom and my husband get disaster.She is selfish bossy girl never respect me.
When I got married things were not like this.
Now we have teenager she create all kind of trouble and involve mom to the trouble.I go BANANA!

2007-08-13 07:49:14 · 9 answers · asked by august2007 1

I have lately been fantasizing about my boss sleeping with my wife. This thought keeps coming to me all day at the office. Lately I have started to include my wife's name in my conversation with my boss to get him interested in knowing about her, and a few times I have even left a photo of her on my table when he is around so he can get to see my attractive wife. Can anybody tell me what is the nature of this fantasy, what it means and what I should do about it?

2007-08-13 07:35:10 · 26 answers · asked by Rohit 1

Here's my situation: We got married April of '06 and were separated by February '07. During that time, my dad had paid for him to get his immigration paperwork finished (aprx. $3000) and after we split up he said he had intentions of paying him back. He left me with only $300 and didn't give me any notice before he left. (He actually had me belive he would be back) During our marriage, he had also dammaged my car (by kicking it). Should I just swallow my losses or do I have a good case here? I don't know what to do, I feel bad for considering this (as I do not want to cause problems) but he pretty much left me high and dry, leaving me with practically no money, and he is just able to walk away free and clear?!? Any advise would be so appreciated.

2007-08-13 07:15:41 · 24 answers · asked by adorethasp 3

My husband and I have been married for 5 and a half years and we still do not have our own place. He owns an assited living facility and we currently live in it ( we have an apartment which is a part of the assisted living facility for old folks). I am 26, very attractive, , this is my first marriage and I would like to have my own place and start a family. He is 42 and has 3 kids from previous marriage, so I guess he doesn't really care . I've been miserable for 5 years, I can not stand living here, I can hear our residents flush their toilet, talk etc. when I am in my bedroom. We also live in the country and I am not used to live in the country, I am from a huge city. I told my husband so many times that I wanted to move but he always says : "sure, let's do it, just wait a little " or just makes up an excuse.
What should I do, should I leave him? I think he would do something about this situation if he loved me....

2007-08-13 07:11:03 · 10 answers · asked by Sandy K 2

What do you do if one person in a relationship stops partying i.e. drinking, clubbing etc. and the other wants to continue? Is the marriage doomed?

2007-08-13 07:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by Wonder Woman 3

Long story short, I'm dating my ex-wife and things have been pretty good since we started dating again, but here's the kick. She's been pregnant with another mans baby, her ex-boyfriends at that. Now that she's had the baby, he's been calling and just chit chatting with her, and she'll even cut me off when I call, and let me know to make it quick because he's on the other line. So enough back story for the moment... What should I do? I care about her, but is it worth dealing with this kind of situation?

2007-08-13 07:06:52 · 11 answers · asked by b b 2

who is inch or 2 shorter than you and avrage looking would you. Or would you pick a man who is great looking, 6 feet tall, and may be devorce in 6years. And why?

2007-08-13 07:01:45 · 7 answers · asked by lets talk 1

Against better judgement, I read some of my boyfriend's old emails. What I discovered was that in the beginning of our relationship, about a year ago, he was still telling his ex-girlfriend how much he loved her, while saying the same thing to me. I told him what I did, and what I read. He has not had any contact with her for the year that we have been together, which is reassuring. We're also having a baby due in the winter. And for the most part, we have a healthy loving relationship, and there is so much to be happy about, but after reading those emails, I feel sad. How do you get over it? We're starting a family soon. Am I overreacting by questioning everything based on these old emails???

2007-08-13 06:26:37 · 40 answers · asked by greenplant1 2

My best friend and his wife are having a disagreement. She swears he gets more sex from her than 99% of the rest of the men in the world. He thinks he falls in the lower 25%.

Honestly now folks, if you are married, how many times a week do you and your spouse have sex on average? We just want to see where he falls out in the average.

2007-08-13 06:25:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay heres the deal my bf and i have been together for about 4 1/2 years were both only 20 have our own apt even got a dog together when we were in high school. We both know that we are goin to marry each other in the future. I ask him when he says that hes not finacially ready..i mean why would that be such a big deal? i met him broke..we both have money now so?? But im not rushing him. When do you guys think is a good time for marrage for us?

2007-08-13 06:07:41 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband came home with an oxy 40 yesterday (he's been on a week binge) and I took it from him and told him I flushed it down the tiolet. I asked him to show me I meant more than the drugs. He freaked out about me dumping it in the toilet and I knew his answer. I went to a friends house and left him there to think. We made up and I went home. I didn't flush it down the toilet and gave it to him after he said I meant more. He just took line after line as I cried in the bedroom. He chose the pill over his wife. What would you do?

2007-08-13 05:56:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

had been in a three year affair with someone

2007-08-13 05:56:50 · 9 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2

dont you think sometimes it would be easier that way? i have kids, i dont have a lot of money, but i have a good job

2007-08-13 05:54:34 · 22 answers · asked by Brian 4

Like I said in my previous question, I want to end our engagement and get my ring back for money. How can I get my fiance to break up with me so I can keep the ring?

2007-08-13 05:49:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

And I said some pretty rude things to him. All true things, but nevertheless....things I should have kept to myself. I try to justify it by the fact that he has said some pretty mean things to me in the past, and it's a way of getting back at him. He stomped on my cell phone and broke it, then left the house and didn't come back until 4 in the morning, and slept on the couch. I left for work this morning, and he was still sleeping. (We were both drinking last night)
Has this kind of a thing happened before, and how did you get over it...or did you?

2007-08-13 05:47:08 · 15 answers · asked by sdgirljen 3

My husband and i have been married for less than a year, we have a 6 month old, and our sex life just isnt the same. The thing about it is, im the one who isnt that sexually motivated anymore. I mean im young and before my son got here my husband and i were always going at it...but now its like i just dnt want him to touch me, i can tell he gets frustrated with me because i dnt want to have sex all the time but i cant help it...how many wives have experienced this after child birth...does it go away??? ***Husbands feel free to comment as well***

2007-08-13 05:44:37 · 24 answers · asked by CoCoBrown 2

Long story short, my husband had a drunken one night stand, after spending all afternoon and into the late late evening drinking with his "friend" at a local bar. Since admitting his infidelity, my husband has sought my forgiveness and done everything I have asked of him, including no more alcohol ever (or i'll leave) and attending couseling with our pastor. The only other thing I asked of him was that he no longer communicate with the "friend" who sat at the bar while my husband followed the "tramp" into the bar parking lot and well you know the rest. Anyway, he recently admitted that the only reason he is no longer speaking to this "friend" is because I told him if he did I would leave him and he'd never see me again. I don't want him to not be friends with the guy because I said so..I want him to not be friends with him because he realizes what a crappy influence and truly poor friend the guy really is...what should I do?

2007-08-13 05:44:27 · 24 answers · asked by Notagain 6

I now realize how much I hate living with other people. What's the best way to break my engagement with my fiance? How can I also get my ring back (I want to sell it)?

2007-08-13 05:40:38 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

she doesn't talk to me anymore! I met a wonderful lady after my divorce and she asked me why I got a divorce. I told her that my wife developed a relationship with a coworker and left me for him after a 10 year marriage. She told me thats aweful and now she won't return my calls. Do women look down on a man whos wife abandoned him Not even giving him a chance to save his marriage?

2007-08-13 05:35:08 · 34 answers · asked by David r 1

AND WHY ?
best answer given to person who has the most annoying in law .

2007-08-13 05:31:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous