Marriage & Divorce - 12 August 2007

If a person with an STD marries a person without an STD and they have sex, won't they both end up having the STD? How would the girl get pregnant without contracting the STD? These are just a few questions that came out of nowhere and I really don't understand or know the answers to them. Can someone explain?

2007-08-12 23:56:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband keeps bullying me and controling me we have been together for 6 years i asked him for a baby he said he wants a baby more then me and he said he doesent trust me he said if i want a baby i have to be his slave i have to do everythink for him im not allowed to ask him to help me clean up E-C-T and he has hit me so meny time .PLEASE HELP

2007-08-12 23:49:06 · 19 answers · asked by sam 1

A jobless man is in love with a woman and wedding has been fixed for 1st of september this year, so far he has been unable to show that he can afford to buy all that the woman's culture and tradition demands before she can be given to him in marriage, should such a woman still go into the marriage?

2007-08-12 23:41:37 · 23 answers · asked by talktofarry 1

I've read that love is a need and a crush is a want. This is exactly how I feel about my situation. I have a crush on a man 20 years my senior who I work with, I would never want anything serious to happen with him and don't ever imagine that but do have a real crush on this person but its purely a lust thing.

On the other hand I need, desire, love and want my husband very much and I know its only the 'newness' of this other person giving me attention that I lust after.

I would never act on my feelings towards this person, although I find it hard not to (again purely a lust/sexual thing - I've always been like this!).

How do I get rid of this crush? I know I can't scratch the itch so how else do I encourage it to fade quicker than it will eventually anyway? I don't want to be in the situation where I do something I regret.

2007-08-12 23:07:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have been married for three years. We are both twenty six years old. I noticed her and a close friend of ours were starting to become closer last year. Long story short, she was seeing this guy behind my back. I became irate and she told me she loved him, but she said she alson loves me. I moved out to collect my thoughts for a couple of weeks and eventually went back home. We are the type to party pretty hard on weekends which to me seems to add to the problems. She has apologized and says she won't ever do it again. She also says that she never loved him and that she was just confused and mad at me. Im trying to regain trust because I do love her. We dont have kids....Thank God. I just get so pissed but I dont want to turn overbearing. What do I do?

2007-08-12 22:54:13 · 29 answers · asked by vicktimized2003 1

my first question here so be nice ;) -

well basically im a little shy and i know i dont need to be so im sort of looking for a different way since i dont want to seem so demanding again :\. ive been married since 03 to a wonderful man who i love dearly and in that same year we had a child. well for a while now hes been playing this online game at night basically the whole night. i dont know if he flirting with other woman or not, he laughs it off and cant believe that i might be worried but he says that he does talk to some woman while playing the game but its not like that. he usually ends up going to bed around the time im getting up. i made him quit playing these games while he was in college because he wasnt studying and was just playing these stupid games and i think he holds that against me. i want him to sleep with me when i sleep, is that too much to ask? i have trouble sleeping if hes not there :\. if i get him into bed with sex he just gets up once its over and goes online

2007-08-12 22:37:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-12 22:20:06 · 25 answers · asked by Uncle G 1

i need help very much i am being libaled as well deframed by a married woman . i am married and my wife found out that i was having a sexual affair with her how can i keep my wife from divorcing me the woman was.43. and i was .17. at that time my wife found out about it from internet posting i didnt know my wife was even on this thing this married woman has.4. kids and married as well to she was nothing this married woman but a cheap whore to spend time with while i was on my missionary work . i hate her that.s why i had sex with that mountan tramp i would never thought my wife would find out but she did i need help the tramp. or whore was old enought to me my mom and i told her what she wanted to hear i told her i was going to be a lawer but i aint i shovel horse droppngs in.texas i have.3. children myself as well to need help my , wifes going to divorve me over this whore need help and advise please help me ..

2007-08-12 22:17:10 · 7 answers · asked by matthew v 3

I married to a girl a Year and Half ago. She started relation badly and refused me at the beginning. She did a lot of mistakes. I broke up mentally. We had no physical contact till now. can I get a divorce from her. She is not willing for divorce when I explained her. What should I do now

2007-08-12 22:01:01 · 12 answers · asked by Detective 1

How do you know if your in love or your just scared to be alone?

2007-08-12 20:15:58 · 16 answers · asked by Help 2

Remember marriage is through better or worst so your answer should be a good one

2007-08-12 19:51:30 · 55 answers · asked by MARCO B 2

So basically my parents marriage has been rocky for awhile now, my father is rarely home and when he is, he is distant. i have always had a semi close relationship with him. My mother found out that he had an affair with some foreign woman a year ago, which is something she was willing to let go of. However, yesterday she found a letter from my dads assistant to him (written in hebrew, as they are both israeli) Niether of us read hebrew, and we found an orthodox woman to read us the letter. She translated it and basically it said they are having an affair, and have been for the past year. I feel so betrayed, his assistant is someone i am friends with! We are close in age (shes 25, im 19) and she has eaten dinner with our family, spent time with me and my mom and brother and has always been someone we like. I am very upset and dont know how to deal with this. my parents are divorcing. Any advice?

2007-08-12 19:41:44 · 21 answers · asked by ari 1

my wife doesn't know cooking and al. so i started cooking, washing, pressing her legs and all householding works. Because i love her very much. before going to office i finish every thing. my friends are calling me as 'slave'.

all of my relatives know that i am only doing all the works
and my wife is my boss, without her information i won't do anything

all r laughing at me

2007-08-12 19:41:30 · 15 answers · asked by dorai 1

i have been with my husband for almost 5 years. and no matter what good things happen no matter what things he does for me, it always seems like he is always doing something that I HATE! and i cant help but wonder why...b/c lately ive kinda wondered what it would be like to be with someone else...he has been my only serious love...and only lover. And i simply dont feel the same anymore. I dont have that "in love/sparks" feeling with or about him...WHY!!!!

2007-08-12 19:28:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am giving him divorce,he cheated,i can not forgive him,no regrets,lot of pain,but why do i need to hear that he paid for what he caused me?why do i feel i want to let him suffer?why do i even wish his heart should be broken,i really don t and won t take him back but i only wish he would have a broken heart, am i crazy??????

2007-08-12 19:20:04 · 22 answers · asked by mony y 2

just wanted to see what people have to say on the subject. she cheated w/ me, not on me. she says its becuz she gets treated like dirt. thoughts?

2007-08-12 19:16:02 · 19 answers · asked by wizzpack 2

I'm disabled and my husband was out of work for almost a year and some months. He was offered two jobs and the first, well, we wouldn't be able to live off that! $7.00 an hr.!? Then he was offered another job later for much higher pay which we COULD live off of. The bad thing is the shift is from 11pm to 7am. I told him to just be happy he has a job at all. Maybe later he'll be able to move to another shift. But tonight, he acted like he was going to his own funeral. What else can I say to make him understand that if he didn't have that job, we would be homeless right now!

2007-08-12 19:10:10 · 6 answers · asked by Fee-Fee 3

Is this just a "guy thing" or is it just my husband..... My husband does not understand that it's nice to give a compliment once in awhile.... like "you look beautiful" or some sexy comments during love making. He thinks that since he has said it at least once in the past, he should not have to say it again, and if he does, it means I don't believe him. I do NOT look for constant compliments nor do I "need" them. I just don't understand the way he feels. Serious replies please -- immature stupid comments, don't bother.

2007-08-12 19:04:58 · 38 answers · asked by MeMe 2

HIs wife makes more money than him.. she makes like 75K .. they have two kids and she will have custody.. he makes 35K...

they live in calif..

does she have to give him husband support since she makes more money??

2007-08-12 18:33:31 · 5 answers · asked by ray b 1

In a cheating relationship lets say we have:
wife, husband, mistress.

why does it seem like when the wife finds out, she hates the mistress more than the husband?

2007-08-12 18:32:45 · 23 answers · asked by Meg-gun 3

a woman was fired once on my job and before she left to say goodbye she called all the manager together mooned them gave them the finger then walked out of the door. what is the worse thing you have seen??

2007-08-12 16:33:11 · 25 answers · asked by angelswife 3

would you think I'm running away or starting a new life?

2007-08-12 16:33:07 · 10 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7

I have a new BF whom I adore. He is sweet, honest, kind and a great guy except that I have a V8 drive and he has a 4 cylender. I tried to tell him as gently as possible but I am concerned that his drive is what it is and it will not change. I will hurt him if I tell him and when I told him not to be so careful he wont break me he said he dont want to hurt me and he can never hurt me. Ok, Hurt me ok but I did not ask him to kill me or break a rib, just a little bit more agression in bed would be nice. WHat is the best way to tell a guy withot hurting his feelings? I really like him alot.

2007-08-12 16:02:54 · 27 answers · asked by ninia1968 1

does that mean he decided to date you after all.....or does that mean we are still in the friendship stage
4 example like left right left ..over under over..he likes me alot tho..been friends for 5 years...both available now...

2007-08-12 15:58:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am just scared that if we get married , if things will change? we have never lived together, and she only stayed the night with me like 3 times . what if we cant get along ? help

2007-08-12 15:54:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-12 15:36:22 · 22 answers · asked by chrisman9904 1

We were dating 4 years before we got married and in the last year and a half he has not wanted sex alot. I told him i did not want to be in a passionless marriage before we got married he promised me we wouldn't. Everytime I try to ask why he some up with a different excuse and we end up fighting. I am not happy because of all the tension it is causing and i am really considering cutting my losses and leaving. I love him more than life it's self but two months in to this marriage we have only had sex like twice i think something is seriously wrong.

2007-08-12 15:31:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told the guy i was in love with i needed a break and i would get in touch with him when its over..but i regret saying that ,but its only been 1day since i said that lol.. i said it because hes not ready to be with me..and he has no clue about the future and if we ever will be but he says he'd like to think we will oneday..but he started talking to his ex and his ex-lovers and I thought to myself I don't want be on the side as a maybe oneday person..so i told him this : Right now in my life I am wanting more then you can give me..and with that being said..,,,I need time to think about my life, get my life in order, and find out what I really am wanting in my life..And its really hard to do when people are talking about me, and the past is always being brought up..im better then that, and I don't want to sit around dwelling on it or thinking about it..I am taking a break ..And I will get in contact with you when its over..
did I do the right thing? cuz i so wanna call him lol.

2007-08-12 14:40:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He had a 10 years affairs and just ended it recently. The mistress personally contacted the wife to tell her about their relationship, what would you do ? Can you forgive this kind of man ?

2007-08-12 14:36:31 · 27 answers · asked by Jy99 1

He never admited he was his son until he had a DNA, now after 12 years he started paying child support!

2007-08-12 14:28:17 · 21 answers · asked by claire 1