Marriage & Divorce - 12 August 2007

We've been married over 20 yrs and I have been a closet crossdresser for about 15 yrs. I frequently joke with her that certain clothes or make-up would look good on me and she laughs, but I think she suspects that there is something more to my comments. How can I tell her that I really love women's clothes and make-up and that I would love her to dress me up and treat me like a sissy?

2007-08-12 14:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I hardly have sex anymore. We have sex maybe twice a month. This isn't healthy to me, and I'm afraid if we're like this now, what will marriage be like? I know it may have a lot to do with his parents moving in with us. It's supposed to be just temporary until they can get on their feet. But, we have a big place, our rooms are very far away from each other and it's impossible for them to hear us. But when I start to kiss him or grab his member he just laughs it off and stops me. He says he's still attracted to me, but just tired. For some reason, I don't believe him. Is he cheating, or has he lost interest in having sex with me?

2007-08-12 14:00:27 · 23 answers · asked by DRE 3

i got married in Vermont and I have no idea where to begin to change my last name to his .in the state of massachusetts

2007-08-12 13:52:37 · 8 answers · asked by mmsinger4lyf 1

2007-08-12 13:48:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men only need four things. 1)sex 2)food 3)sleep 4)control over some part of their lives

2007-08-12 13:23:53 · 14 answers · asked by denny jo 2

What shud a girl wear to one? thts not a traditional dress From scratch?

2007-08-12 13:17:52 · 3 answers · asked by Kishor 2

She is going thru, job, moving, financial "things" wants his advice. She has been a long distance friend for years, since they worked together twenty plus years ago. She came and visited us once 3 years ago. He is 51 - I think he is having a mid-life crisis. Got his haircut. He insists they are just friends. I couldn't go last time, because of work and family, this trip they both invited me, but I don't think they really wanted me, and I don't travel well with him, if I drive everything I do is wrong. And even sitting in the passenger seat, I may comb my hair and get hair in his car or blow my nose and get kleenex "dust" in his car. So I couldn't imagine riding together for 10 hours. Our marriage has lost it's appeal and sizzle. But I don't know whether I want to know the truth if it is not just a friendship. I guess I am asking - am I stupid, & gullible, and I don't want the pity that I already feel from friends and being practical I can't afford being alone.

2007-08-12 13:13:15 · 16 answers · asked by farmgirlalways 2

Meaning her stomach sticks farther than her booty do. What do I do because I am not very attracted to her?

2007-08-12 12:53:27 · 20 answers · asked by YBMEUBU 3

I have recently started dating a man who has five kids.
Now I know what your thinking lol 5?
Yeah 5 kids. But the problem is.. his wife
she left him a while ago, but she is always ditching the kids.
I LOVE these kids. I have a daughter myself. I understand that the kids should come to like me on their own. So I will let them. I know they are having a hard time as it is.
But she is so self centered! She tells him that she will come and see the kids... she doesnt. Then to make it better she doesnt even bother to call to say she wont be there. I want to be there for these kids and my boyfriend. I have never been in this situation. Of course it is great that he doesnt want her back after all the **** that shes putting the kids through. But its more then that. How would I take it if she was around the kids?
Would I be able to accept it?
I want to help yet, sitting back and lending my friendship and my love for this family doesnt seem to be enough.

2007-08-12 12:38:29 · 23 answers · asked by Randi B 1

What do you do when your in-laws ignore you when you ask them not to do something involving your 1 year old?

Example-placing in car without infant seat.(wife shrugs it off with no regard)

2007-08-12 12:30:00 · 7 answers · asked by Sergio R 1

He told me about it last night - starting out with "There's something I have to tell you before we go to (his home state)..."

He then went on to tell me that the porn site he visited for 16 days straight after we got engaged a few years back - the one that I almost left him over because he seemed so obsessed with it - belongs to his friend's wife.

He told me this because they are having a football draft party at these people's house - where I'm not invited & my husband will be drinking with his buddies (who apparently have all seen this woman in her glory).

I feel so lied to and very disturbed that this sort of thing not only didn't disgust him - but caught and kept his attention obsessively until I stumbled across it.

Am I out of my mind? How would any of the other married women feel about this?

2007-08-12 12:10:47 · 17 answers · asked by Me 3

2007-08-12 11:55:29 · 10 answers · asked by tennesseemonkeywoman 3

For every occasion , whether it be my baby shower , our sons b-day partys family gatherings my husband always has to be so drunk to where he passes out before everyone leaves and has no idea of anything , like what birthday gifts did our son get when did they leave he is also loud and putting his arms round everyone including other women , it humiliates me and makes our family look bad! The next day I tell him what a fool he is and he apologizes and says he won't do it again , and continues to shame me. just today we had a 2:30 movie to go to and he took his brother inlaw to help him drop off a table and he went and got high with him and came home at 2:40 knowing we had plans . do I keep fighting for the respect our family deserves or do I get the papers ready and stop the cycle of a drug dependent who can't socalize without a stimulant?

2007-08-12 11:54:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for a year and 8 months. I think that we got married too soon. I have noticed he has been very distant for a while now (the past year). I have tried to talk to him but he avoids talking at all cost.We each have children from previous relationships. I speak to his ex (for their son). He has told her that he married me to fix his papers and has attempted to go back with her. She stated that she does not want him and will cut all comunication if he insist on speaking to her about things other than their child. I dont know what to do. I see that he does not pay attention to our girls (1 mine and 1 his). I have attemped to catch his attention even sent the girls with my family for the summer to see if we can rekindel what we had. Nothing seams to work and gotten worse since they left. We have not had a sex live in the past year unless I am pressuring him to do so (I have gotten to the point that I think I will cheat on him). I am temped to give up. Maybe a seperation

2007-08-12 11:51:00 · 13 answers · asked by Alicia M 1

my personal opinion is that ALL men will cheat....eventually. am i wrong? i've been married for 8 years and trust my husband when he says that he has not cheated on me. but i know one day he will....cuz ALL men cheat. am i wrong???

2007-08-12 11:06:14 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-12 11:04:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband works with this man that has a daughter that is a bar tender. Once she came over and laid in our booth, and told him, some one got a door put on their house, and she needed one. This last time we were in the bar he paid her, and when she came back she tried to put his money in his shirt pocket. My husband told me I was making a big deal out of it, and got mad at me because I told him about it. He got mad at me, left me at the bar.

2007-08-12 11:00:31 · 9 answers · asked by CHEROKEE 2

Mine has caused me to lower some of my standards and after some time now, i don't like what I'm becoming. I swear too much, get angry too much, stopped going to church, and I complain alot more than I used to....I don't know how to change that right now...it is just bothering me. I think it was bad to get involved with someone who had bad habits I didn't have and slowly start taking on those habits....anyway...how does your significant influence you?

2007-08-12 10:54:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-12 10:54:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example, fighting with a partner: when do you know if your fighting is not "normal"? When is fighting too violent, destructive, abusive-verbally or physically?

2007-08-12 10:52:01 · 18 answers · asked by A1 1

And how old were you when you made that decision?

(This question is addressed to both married and unmarried people...)

2007-08-12 10:30:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband told me that he had an affair a couple of months ago and now the other girl is pregnant. We have been married for 14 years and have been trying for the last six month to have a second child. What do I do? Do I forget about the last 14 years and leave or do I stay and work it out for our little boys sake?

2007-08-12 10:28:45 · 37 answers · asked by Heartbroken 1

can i find out if he divorced me without my signature

2007-08-12 10:23:52 · 12 answers · asked by enigma 2 1

is going home to her mother and making up lies about me. These cause tyraids from her mother with phone calls to my husband. He has never told her to apologize. I really am beginning to not like this kid at all. I always try to do nice things for her, I think I am about at the end of my rope though. I know if I say anything it will trickle down to all of his family, the other kids and of course her mother. What in the heck do I do. She is comming for a week and I will be alone with them while my husband is at work.

2007-08-12 10:23:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last feburary my gf lost her dad and it broke my heart i couldnt be there to hold her or dry her tears. But before she told me he passed i knew he was gone because the night he passed away he visited me in my dreams. He just sat there and asked me questions and for weeks he kept coming to me i was wondering why he kept coming to me and not to my gf?

2007-08-12 10:21:06 · 18 answers · asked by beastman the CEO and president of CRAZY 1

2007-08-12 10:11:07 · 33 answers · asked by Page 4

2007-08-12 09:56:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is so stubborn, when he doesn't want to talk about something we don't. when he doesn't want to do something he doesn't. Like today, my younger brothers needed a ride to a family gathering we were going to, my husband says no, because my brother called him an a**hole a year ago during an argument. So now I'm in a spot where I have to hurt my brother and my husband had no problem putting me there. When we argued about this later he told me he married me not my brothers and he didn't have to help them or do anything for them that he didn't want to. He can't put aside his feelings for me to do this for me. His cousin's little girl is celebrating her 1st birthday and we were invited to go tonight. His family is all stuck so I never have a good time around them. We only see them when there's a birthday, weddings..etc. When I told him I married him & not his family so I didn't have to go to this party he was so mad! He went alone & now I'm wondering should I pack my bags?

2007-08-12 09:49:57 · 17 answers · asked by lippy 3

2007-08-12 09:48:12 · 10 answers · asked by Manya 1

im 15 & i ended my period yesterday. i have been so crabby lately? why? i thought your only crabby when you have it. my grandma keeps lying to me. she says she will pick me up and then she doesnt. she did it today. i have been crying for an hour & im still crying right now. whats wrong with me? am i gettting depressed. all yesterday and today i have been feeling so sad. why? everyday i sit home bored & im sick of it. why am i so sad? is it my hormones? is it from sitting home too much? i have been crying over the smallest things. whats wrong with me?

2007-08-12 09:44:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous