2007-08-12 10:11:07 · 33 answers · asked by Page 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My lady. The sharp winds cut both ways.
2007-08-12 10:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. I am married and I still have strong feeling for my exwife.. but she doesn't for me :(
If you are talking about me having feelings for a women i met since I got married.. I could see how the thrill of meeting someone new that doesn't nag and "seems" to be perfect because you dont have to deal with the normal day to day problems with the "other woman" could have great appeal.
But In the end its not real love.. its only lust and 9 times out of 10 I dont think a man would leave his wife for another woman.. espeically if they have kids.
2007-08-12 10:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From the responses this is why marriage is not
taken seriously, as if a man truly loves and re-
spects his wife no other woman will steal any of
his feelings to his wife. I am 100percent man and
I am 100percent for me wife, and the proof is we
are happily married over20yrs.
2007-08-12 14:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who has intimacy and affectionate feelings that he should not have towards a woman (this doesn't mean the warm feelings he has for his sisters or friends, etc.) isn't really be faithful or being loving to his spouse by doing this. If this other woman has part of his heart, his whole heart and his affections, love and such, will never completely belong to his partner. They won't have complete intimacy and oneness.
2007-08-12 10:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by greenwich 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
If you really loved your wife, you wouldn't have a need to have feelings for another woman. When you married your wife, you pledged your commitment to the relationship to her. Can you admire other women? Sure! But lusting and having an emotional feeling for another woman? Big no no.
Unless by "still have feelings" you are talking about a mother, sister or friend in which case the "feelings" you are having isn't in relation to the "feelings" you have for your wife.
2007-08-12 10:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Answer this:
Can a person love their spouse and still love their children? Or their parents? Or their ex-wife/ex-husband?
Love isn't limited to having it for only one person. Or simply caring about another person or people. It's the type of love you have for your spouse that matters, and whether or not it diminishes when feelings for others exist as well.
2007-08-12 10:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think many married people encounter this problem..it's completely normal to be attracted to other people while being married..but it's never a good thing to develop a feeling for someone else.
2007-08-12 10:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats possible. its ok to have a little crush on another woman but being in love with another woman is bad so stay out of that
2007-08-12 10:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the monogamous: nope.
To the polyamorous: yep.
To the unfaithful: unfortunately, it are possible.
To the unhappily married: it are possible.
To the fraudulent player: it are highly possible.
Sorry, but because your inquiry sounded sincere, perhaps that I should offer an honest reply.
2007-08-12 10:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by cantstandyahooyellowbellies 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. it's like loving your brother and sister at the same time. people were brought up to be with just one person. but this is a tradition that was created long ago.
it's not about how many people you are physically, emotionally, and mentaly attracted to it's about defeating that temptation.. and that my friend, is how you know if you really love your wife.
2007-08-12 10:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋