is going home to her mother and making up lies about me. These cause tyraids from her mother with phone calls to my husband. He has never told her to apologize. I really am beginning to not like this kid at all. I always try to do nice things for her, I think I am about at the end of my rope though. I know if I say anything it will trickle down to all of his family, the other kids and of course her mother. What in the heck do I do. She is comming for a week and I will be alone with them while my husband is at work.
2007-08-12 10:23:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweet Pea you have to find out a way to make peace with her because she is a child and you want to keep your marriage as healthy as possible. Somethings are not even meant to be confronted, sometimes you have to learn to let it go and let your hubbie deal with it. good luck!
2007-08-12 10:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by b n real 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you have to do is provide a safe home for the kids, but just don't do anything out of your way for her. Don't even bring up what's happening. Don't buy her anything, and start showing the other children more favor than her. Tell your husband that you really need his support on this, and that you don't really want to have anything to do with his daughter anymore. If she asks to go somewhere tell her to ask her father. If she wants money tell her to ask her father. Don't give her the satisfaction anymore.
2007-08-12 11:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you husband that the kids don't come for a week at a time unless he takes vacation during that week. His children are HIS responsiblity not your's and it is HIS visitation not your's. As for his daughter that is also HIS fault. He doesn't reprimand or discpline her she is not to blame. HE is the father, it is HIS responsiblity to discipline HIS children. Stop blaming the kids and the ex wife when it is YOUR HUSBAND who isn't taking care of HIS responsibilities.
2007-08-12 11:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your husband take his vacation time. Tell him she coming to see him, not you.
If that fails, get a tape recorder.
2007-08-12 10:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the long run who cares.
2007-08-12 11:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dr Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋