Marriage & Divorce - 10 August 2007

2007-08-10 21:23:41 · 7 answers · asked by small exporter 1

1 1/2 Years before I married, but there is no Pease in my life, what I have to do? Discuss with someone?

2007-08-10 21:13:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Hubby cheated 7mth ago.We talked it over and decided to work it out.I can't get over it.what should I do? I mean before we got married I told him that I hated cheaters. Im trying to deal with it...but I don't think Im going to last...I cry like everyday...just the thought of him touching another women make me sick to my stomach. I really believe that he means it when he says hes sorry and It won't happen again but the trust is gone. I want it to work because I really love my husband but Im afarid that If I keep nagging him when ever I get up set its going to push him away.

what should I do to get over this?

2007-08-10 20:18:33 · 14 answers · asked by MEME 2

my ex boyfriend of 6 years who left me 4 weeks ago to move in with his suppo to be lesbian co-worker(not so lesbian after all), called me and told me he loves me. i did ask him to come back to me(i guess I am still under shock him dumping me) . now his reply was i will be back soon.
still wondering what that means ?
confused and hurt.

2007-08-10 20:05:57 · 4 answers · asked by maria s 2

I have pretty good evidence (Video tape and eye witness) of my wife is cheating on me. I love her with all my heart and i belive we can get past this. I wonder if i wll ever trust her agian, she has lied to me many times how do we create a trusting relationship and move forward?

2007-08-10 20:04:51 · 8 answers · asked by M P 1

Every since I had my first son Its like I'm married, barely any sex everything is about the kids shopping for family cars, we are engaged but now all of a sudden I feel like married life is not for me, I'm only 22. I think its the sex that did it, her first son( he's about 3) won't sleep in his own bed and we never get the bed alone, and I come home from work every day and its the same thing I love her but I don't know if this is right for me anymore, I don't think I can handle not having sex more than once a month and never going out alone with my girl. (I try and try for us do stuff alone but some how it never works out, but always seems to work out when it has to do with the kids, even if we have a baby sitter) Am I dog? I haven't even got to the point to get tired of sex and its like its non existant already, I know she cares about me, but what the hell? we're still young can this be it? Can kids change your life that much or am I just tripping out over nothing?

2007-08-10 20:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

But the first time we set up a privet meeting,he stands me up.I really like him,How can i tell if he is jerking me along?

2007-08-10 19:39:19 · 3 answers · asked by bobcat_kitty2 1

Everbody keeps telling me its a rebound relationship....but I have deep feelings for her I believe to be true love.We've been together 8 months and Ive done more for her then anyone Ive ever been with...or her for that matter.Ive even asked her to marry me and she said yes.But we see things from a different perspective and continue to argue and fight.Sometimes I find myself wanting to leave her....but when I picture my life without her.....I cant bear it.I think about her 24/7 and she tells me she feels the same.She tells me she truly loves me and that she wouldnt have said "yes" if she didnt love me.......any suggestions?

2007-08-10 19:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Cory 1

2007-08-10 19:31:40 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-10 19:22:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I DO love my husband he is my world! He is my hero among other things. He is just so darn jealous. I have talked to him about this problem and he just gets very defensive. I have been told by friends and family that it is insecurity but he has nothing to be insecure about and I have told him over and over how much I love him. We have been together for 4 years married for 1 year. Here's an example : I found out today that an old friend of mine had passed away. I recieved an e mail on my myspace from another old friend (that was a man) telling me of the unfortunate incident. At the end of the email he wrote "by the way you still look great". I admit the statment was a little inapproprate but my hubby flew of the deep end when he read it. Oh yeah my hubby does check my e mails daily. Ok dont get me wrong my hubby is a very wonderful man. He is great to me and very loving. Just very jealous. What should I do? Am I going to have to wait for him to grow up? I want a happy marriage now

2007-08-10 19:18:32 · 10 answers · asked by Jenn 2

after we get done talking, nothing ever gets done about what we talked about. Nothing changes except now we both know whats upsetting the other person. I don't know what to do anymore, I really need for more to happen. Any ideas? Does this happen to anyone else?

2007-08-10 19:17:46 · 16 answers · asked by dohm84 4

my bf had an arrange marriage he is from India he claims he did not no it was gonna happen until the his parents called and said this is what it is and he claims he had no clue prior to that call and then like a week or so later he had to get married i think he should have known like week or month prior

2007-08-10 19:15:00 · 6 answers · asked by princessangelgale 2

Ok, I have been with my fella for about 7 yrs. I am only 22 so you can imagine I have not "played the field" like most people my age. It has never bothered me before. I have been content in my grown up life with my kids and my job and my mortgage. Recently I have been feeling very resentful towards my partner and myself for missing out on those precious youthful experiences. I know it was entirely my choice to live the life i do and I suppose I think, "I made my bed so lie in it". I kinda spoke to him lastnite about it and he says if i wanna go live the single life for a while its fine because he doesn't want me to sdo it behind his back???? How can it be? Surely he is just saying that to test me, if I actually said, "OK see ya in a couple of months after I've shag*ed half the town" the relationship would be ruined regardless of whether I did it behind his back or not? I just cannot stop thinking that I will live for the rest of my life with regrets, your thoughts people please?

2007-08-10 19:11:58 · 20 answers · asked by Banny Grasher 4

please reply

2007-08-10 18:29:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you devorce if your husband loves you like a crazy, but due to financial situation you should live with your in-laws, who don't accept you?

2007-08-10 18:25:10 · 15 answers · asked by booboo 2

2007-08-10 18:22:03 · 14 answers · asked by Pinkie 2

2007-08-10 18:03:19 · 29 answers · asked by Lost 1

But he talks to his baby's momma (kid is 16) everyday. He thinks that it's okay for him to deal with his ex but he told me that if I went into (a legit) business with an ex that he would leave me. Does that sound like doubles standards to you? Should I let him leave?

2007-08-10 17:45:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our foreplay use to be alot of him kissing me and touching, but for the last year or so evertime we go o have sex he wants me to begin by sucking him. I like it sometimes, but sometimes I don't want to do it and he like expects it and i feel if i turn him down he'll be mad or rejected and won't want to cotinue to have sex. YES i've sharred this with him when we'r not in the middle of sex and he says he's sorry and i don't have to do it if i don't want to, but the next time we're intimate he's putting in my face again. And just to mention this...he refuses to perform oral on me! What do i do?

2007-08-10 17:38:59 · 17 answers · asked by slingmama 2

He is going to let me choose this time, which is rather fair under present circumstances. I have until Sunday to decide.

Thank you so much.

2007-08-10 17:38:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not allowed to date until im 18 i am 13 now soo what is your personal takes on this?

2007-08-10 17:33:01 · 24 answers · asked by BINGA 1

HOW TO STAY YOUNG

1.. Throw out nonessential numbers.

This includes age, weight and height.

Let the doctors worry about them.

That is why you pay "them"


2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

3. Keep learning.

Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever.

Never let the brain idle.

"An idle mind is the devil's workshop." And the devil's name is Alzheimer's.


4. Enjoy the simple things.


5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.


6. The tears happen.

Endure, grieve, and move on.

The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves.

Be ALIVE while you are alive.


7. Surround yourself with what you love,

whether it's family, pets,keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever.

Your home is your refuge.


8. Cherish your health:

If it is good, preserve it.

If it is unstable,improve it.

If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.


9 Don't take guilt trips.

Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county;

to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.


10.Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.


AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breathswe take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

2007-08-10 17:24:44 · 9 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7

My ex and I have been divorced for 7 years now..when we split up, I didn't want allimony nor do I want child support..I told my lawyers that when my son is with me, I take care of expenses and when he is with his dad, he pays for expenses..no big deal..The judge still awarded me child support but I don't make my ex give it to me..and in return, he's been absolutely greatful and has been paying for my son's school just because..all our assets we just split in half and I really didn't want to take advantage of him in any way..

People have said I was stupid and all that for not asking for more..Why is it that I'm weird for being civil and it's normal for women to take their husbands assets and want allimony too??

2007-08-10 16:45:41 · 24 answers · asked by contessa 4

Yes, another one of these. I made a stupid, stupid decision and am really paying for it.
I can't live without my (now ex) girlfriend. She says she doesn't feel the same anymore and is moving interstate.

I haven't been this sad in my life, the nights I do sleep, I cry myself to slumber.
She helped me out of a terrible stage in my life, everything I do, and everything I have reminds me of her. I really cannot live without her, what the hell do I do? :(

2007-08-10 16:44:34 · 15 answers · asked by twice. 4

Dosn't anyone realize that the only person they can change is themselves?

2007-08-10 16:38:11 · 6 answers · asked by box of rain 7

I've been w/my bf for 7 years..we communicate well, amazingly still are in love and the sex has just gotten better and better through the years..I think if I told everyone the truth you might think I'm just lying..so I'll spare you guys the mooshy stuff.

Anyway, I've been married for a year and divorced before I met my current bf..I don't want to get married, ever..I just want to grow old with him, and vice versa..My opinion is, won't know who my soul mate is until we are old and gray and we can say to each other.."We have lived a full, great life, babe"..

When we met I did tell him that someday marriage or not I wanted an engagement ring to symbolize what I mean to him and this year he just went to Tiffany's and spent a fortune on a wonderful ring....yes, my friends tell me it's time for me to get married..and they always frown (even my neighbors) when I say there's no need right now..What's the deal with everyone- specially women??

2007-08-10 16:36:50 · 11 answers · asked by contessa 4

When I was 19, I got involved with a man who was 36 (yes, he was married then). I loved him, but after about 3 months together, I broke things off. Still, over the next 3 years we hooked up with each other about once every couple of months. Sometimes more, sometimes less. We talked and laughed and loved. I was crazy about him and he was about me. I knew he could never leave his wife for me and I never asked him to. I always settled for what part of him I could get. When I was 22, I got married. This ended us for about 5 years. Then, we met up with each other again. I realized then that I still loved him very much. But, I had made a committment to my husband and I honored that committment. My problem is that I still love this other man. I think about him every day. I miss him so much sometimes that it breaks my heart. He called a couple of months ago and said he still loved me too. It's not about sex. We haven't had sex in 8 years. How do I get over him and move on?

2007-08-10 16:32:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-10 16:32:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had my son 6 weeks ago and he was five weeks early. My son and I are now home after a long hospital stay and my husband has been spending 3 plus nights a week out and comes home around 3 am. Monday I told him he had to choose between having a family to come home to or going out everynight. It seemed like a hard decision after 2 days he promised he would stay home more and not stay out so late. Tonight I went to pick up my step son with my new born which lives over an hr each way. While on my way my husband called and said he was going to 'hang out' and he stated he and his friends were going to a race track 2 hrs away. He said they planned on leaving a 9pm and he would be home late. When I got upset he said Im trying to keep him from having friends. Is it wrong of me to expect him to stay home and help me with the kids? Anyone elses husband done something like this and what did you do? I love my husband but im not sure he loves me anymore. Any advice?

2007-08-10 16:26:26 · 20 answers · asked by J&A 3