Marriage & Divorce - 10 August 2007

2007-08-10 16:24:12 · 51 answers · asked by phlebrcn 2

I'm trying to determine what people think. I found a great lady and decided to marry her. She was in law school, so I moved across the country so she could finish after I quit a 6-figure income job. I have children in that state and they're young. I call them everyday. I have them out whenever I can. I pay my child support and alimony despite the fact that my ex left me. What do you think?

2007-08-10 16:15:44 · 12 answers · asked by PersonalImprov 2

You bite your fingernails or pick at your hair. While these habits are annoying in nature and unnerving and frustrating to others, they aren’t as harmful to a marriage as the bad habits that married couples accumulate together. If you’re married, you’re probably familiar with the kinds of bad habits that can creep into your otherwise blissful union. Find out how to save your marriage from these common bad habits. Plus: What’s your movie star sex style or play girl books? when your wife ask you for sex and you say i dont need sex or if she has her butt showing this should turn his *** on but it dont again its your fault that we never had kidsPricelees Treasure tenderness that they will never have bad habits to him ,He can go in the bathroom and look at playgirl book and get trun on but not with his wife...... never has money she gets mad at him moves out, Divorce time never has the courage to tell her the truth that he lives in a gay life fighting always one big battle who gets this and that so lady's if you husband go to walmart late at night with out you he looks for blue light special lol,How can you go in a store with out money and shop? I would feel like a rejecte,I have alot of gay friends and i never did rejecte them i will be glad to say i am still your friend

2007-08-10 16:14:34 · 9 answers · asked by ladycenda2000 2

My ex is so cruel. He just came over to pick up the kids and told me that his girlfriend just lost a bunch of weight through weight watchers and now she's "too thin". I am on the heavy side. Me and my kids are living in a room together at my moms because he doesn't pay support and he told me that him and his girlfriend are going on a vacation. Then he told me that he is ripping up the deal that we signed for custody and everything and taking me to court all over again. He is a devil!!! How can I get over him once and for all??

2007-08-10 16:08:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Husband has a minor child from a previous marriage, he has retirement and life insurance through his work. ( This is a new job that he just started a few months ago, we have been married for a year). I just found out that he has named his daughter as beneficiary on all of his insurance policies and retirement. Although I understand that she needs to be provided for in case of his death, I am a little concerned that money for his funeral will not be alotted. We own a house which if something happens to him his interest will go to me and my interest should go to him if something happens to me. I feel guilty for concerning myself with this, but I feel that I should be beneficiary on something so I will have the money to bury him. IS THIS WRONG? Should I be concerned?

2007-08-10 16:00:13 · 11 answers · asked by jessica 1

2007-08-10 15:46:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I loved my bf too much and he was the same , suddnely changed ,when i asked he told me iam never changed ,why i feel sad and not happy ,i think he hasnt the same degree with my emotion , i thought all the i dont like to do any thing just thing he is not like before ,i feel he is cold and careless with me after love long love relation for3 years , i dont like to lose him ,and i dont love my self or life without him plase helpme

2007-08-10 15:45:15 · 4 answers · asked by kamee a 1

i am having a very hard time forgiving my husband for having an affair. should i give him another chance

2007-08-10 15:44:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

and has children right away with the new chick...and he still has his other kids to raise and fails them?

2007-08-10 15:38:10 · 12 answers · asked by STALKER BLOCK 3

who is also smart, funny, cool, friendly & considered a good catch. is it safer to approach a so-so chick cause the chance of rejection is less? just wondering.............

2007-08-10 15:37:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Bobby Hill came to him in his dreams and told him to forget me and pursue a relationship with Ashlee Simpson! I am so upset! Do you think Orlando Bloom would be wanting to date me?

2007-08-10 15:37:35 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3

We have a really good marriage but our communications skills suck.

2007-08-10 15:36:29 · 25 answers · asked by dohm84 4

about her guy showing issues that hes not the one and before they bring a child into this mess.

2007-08-10 15:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by STALKER BLOCK 3

right before marrying him I moved in with my husband because he already owned a house in "Eminem"'s neighborhood. Not the worst yet in the last 5 years it had been impossoble to sell the house and crime had spiked. Due to the increased real life violence, I am always jumpy if I hear the littlest scratch or noise or cry..My husband is a big fan of Gory and Scary movies. I am just for some reason unable to view any specially at night and I get panic attacks. My husband now just don't understand and even we have fights because of me feeling too shaky from extra violence that is only reminding me of my real life surroundings. I also canot help but thing of divorcing not only to be free to move out and back to a safer neighborhood but also away from a husband that don't seem to feel my pain and stress and dismissed reality until one of us becomes a victim.
I need your insight, please. Married for 5 years so far.

2007-08-10 15:28:38 · 7 answers · asked by Linda C 2

2007-08-10 15:21:51 · 13 answers · asked by mia w 5

husband drinks, uses drugs never works. asked to leave he won't. never has money. i have one child--i love her dad but hes married. he does love me. he has 3 children. i was with him before he got married.

2007-08-10 15:18:23 · 6 answers · asked by yogi 3

Ok me and my boyfriend have been together almost a year this September 17th. The problem is that we lives far away and where in a long distance relationship for now. I need some ideas other than online gretting cards that would be special for a one year anniversay. That would fit in a enevople. Thanks.

2007-08-10 15:16:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's going on really inside your head? do you just not think about the breakup? just go find another woman for a quick your solution?

2007-08-10 15:09:46 · 7 answers · asked by theladygeorge 5

i cant remember what happened. few drinks, and both of us on the couch with less clothes. it happened once before but i couldnt recall how that happened either. should i see a doctor for mild amensia.

2007-08-10 15:07:17 · 20 answers · asked by just hanging around 5

In our final divorce papers, ex is ordered to pay 50% of the childcare costs. He doesn't pay or he pays months afterwards, creating a problem for myself and the kids. Currently owes 5 weeks for this Summer, despite his making more than double myself and paying half the rent I do. Is there any legal recourse with this that I can handle myself? Sitters will not stay if they are not paid and I have had to pay both portions inorder to retain care at times. I am needing care throughout the school year for the first time and cannot have this constant struggle. His words to me are "take me to court" which he knows I do not have the money to do..... Any suggestions?

2007-08-10 15:06:59 · 8 answers · asked by mommadawn 2

my wife asks me to do this and i feel weirded out by it, was wanting to know what other women think about this?

2007-08-10 15:02:21 · 21 answers · asked by adam_horton2000 2

2007-08-10 14:56:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Also she has a 15 year old son because she is divoced but it wasn't her fault. The reason why she got divorced was because she found out that her ex husband was dating behind her back and her son lives with her ex husband. And her son is 15 and I am 23. Is it still allowed? Also this women is related to me by marriage already because she is my sister-in-law's cousin by blood. So we are already related by marriage. Is it allowed?

2007-08-10 14:55:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

today is my 50th birthday my husband gave me a manilla folder filled with crossword puzzles now hes sleeping i am getting madder by the minute am i wrong???

2007-08-10 14:53:42 · 8 answers · asked by demberdoo 3

I'm so confused!! I've been married for 2 years and dated my husband for a year before that. I was 16 and he was 18 when we first started dating and I was so convinced that we were in love and meant to be together. He joined the Navy and when he was home for xmas we slept together and I ended up pregnant, so we got married. At first I was so sure that I made the right decision by marrying him, we were soul-mates. Then he got sent to iraq for 6months and when he returned things were different. I had been faithful but I'm not sure he had. And when I finally moved to where he was stationed, I got the feeling that the only thing we had/have in common is our daughter. The excitement to see him or touch him is gone. I miss having his company when he's gone, but I don't miss 'him'. I don't know what I would do without him, but I'm not sure its bc I love him or that he's like a habit. I need advice on how to tell the difference between being in love and just being. What do you think?

2007-08-10 14:45:57 · 9 answers · asked by mrs.confused2389 1

I thought long and hard about getting married before I did it. I think I married the right man, but still wonder if I did. I myself was not 'all about' the wedding. I knew/know that what is most important is the marriage (over just that one day, the wedding). It seems too cheesy for people to just say 'You will know.' Too simplistic. Things change over the course of time and some get more difficult. Recent changes/difficulties in my household include a new baby and increased job stress. Is it so wrong to wonder if I married the right person because it doesn't feel like it at the moment?

2007-08-10 14:36:49 · 21 answers · asked by scarlet 3

2007-08-10 14:33:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very sad. I cant eat, or sleep or concentrate at work. I put on a happy face around my 9 year old, she is not his daughter. Its hard, will I ever get through this pain? He will be moving out tomorrow. My daughter does not want him to leave. I dont want him to leave but its final, he will be moving out tomorow, and he says that he will never come back. He is not in love with me anymore and does not want to work things out. Its really hard for me to face those facts. I need advice.

2007-08-10 14:24:40 · 31 answers · asked by DDee 1

my fiancee' love me so much as i love him too.we will try our best to make me reach orgasm.he is going to buy me some vitamins to help me.

2007-08-10 14:03:35 · 18 answers · asked by kenny 1

its been constantly like this...he goes to work...works very hard and he sleeps....i work hard too but i have time for everything...or i make time...now its fri eve...and we both got homeearly and he went to bed like 6 pm and he wants to sleep through the nite...this happens all the time....i understand he is tired but what abt me...i want to go out...or catch a movie or do soemthing...but ....am very disappointed...all my family and my frds r in differnt country...my work frds have their own plans and have no one...how would u deal with this?its impossible for my hibby to understand how it feels as he thinks i make it miserabl for him if i expect anything from him....what would u do???i wonder how it will be in future???its been only 2 yrs sinc eour marriage...

2007-08-10 13:45:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous