husband drinks, uses drugs never works. asked to leave he won't. never has money. i have one child--i love her dad but hes married. he does love me. he has 3 children. i was with him before he got married.
2007-08-10 15:18:23 · 6 answers · asked by yogi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dump your lazy *** man and try to find someone for you....as for your ex, forget about him too...obviously he is married until he divorces, he should be off limit....... put yourself in his wife shoes, and imagine it to be you. move on with your life and you might find a good man of your own.
2007-08-10 15:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by mr b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl get away from the one you are with he sounds like a loser. Do it because you deserve better and with him you will never have more than you do now. Is that what you want? The other thing about your kids dad is nothing but alot of heartache because he is with someone else so you need to get your life in order and then if things change for your ex then maybe it will work out for you. Causing trouble for him would not be good so just focus on you and let the other stuff fall into place.
2007-08-10 22:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by tami j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are sooooo many problems here ... start first by getting a divorce, then go onto step two. But you have to be willing to leave who you currently have.
By-the-way, a lot of guys love to be with married women because they know there is no real future, commitment or responsibilities. Once the woman is free they have no interest at all, so you'd better know what you are asking for in asking for a divorce. There is no guarantee you will be getting married after wards, ever.
2007-08-10 22:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your kid shouldn't be around someone who does drugs-- it is unsafe and dangerous. Good reason to get out.
IF he won't leave, then you need to. Find a place on your own. Many women's shelters will help if you need it.
As to the other guy -- do you really want a guy who will just dump you in the end like he would have to dump his current wife to get you?
Try being yourself for a while. You don't need a man -- they are fun to have around but not exactly necessary.
2007-08-10 23:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack up and move out. Get a divorce. Then get on with your life. You are tied to your ex simply because of your child together. You don't have a future with him - he married her, not you - he will stay with her and their children - don't be fooled. You and your child deserve so much more - a great life is out there - so go ahead and reach for it! Good luck..
2007-08-11 20:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief! No wonder there are so many single parent households now-a-days. Sounds like a culture problem to me. I agree with Mr. B
2007-08-10 22:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Bill G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋